I think asking personal questions online is offensive, I sorta envision the person asking questions has like a checklist and requirements, haha.
But I couldn't tell you about the "asking height from a guy is.." part, because I only talk to women in real life so you don't really need to ask that question.
To answer your question earlier about insecure, there's not really an answer to that. Like how some guys are insecure about their weight, some are not. It's going to be like that for this.
I don't even know why you'd want to know the answer to that, or what makes a guy insecure. I don't feel like giving you an answer at all.
What I will say is that if you do actually have good intentions and feel a guy is insecure about his height just make feel more masculine with some follow-up questions or statements.
Somewhat. I am not that tall, personally, and I'm the shortest male in my family. Still, it never bothers me, though if a girl asked me about it, I might feel a bit self-conscious. Yes, height in men is somewhat like weight for a girl. The fact that you ask them what their height is only makes them feel self-conscious of it and implies that height is important to you, which will make a guy who thinks he is short upset. If height IS an issue for you, then state that upfront: otherwise, it's best not to bring it up at all...just as you probably wouldn't want a guy asking you how much you weigh. ;)
Some do, some don't.
My father, for example, feels funny around taller men but not around taller women. My mother is 3 inches taper than him.
I had a friend, just a friend, who didn't like me wearing heels around him because it made him uncomfortable.
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I know someone who is insecure about his height, but doesn't realize his personality is really what is off-putting girls. Their insecurity comes from a common thing they hear from girls which is that girls won't date a guy shorter than them. A lot of girls don't feel "protected" from a shorter guy and don't want to be able to pick their boyfriend up.
Typically, it is emasculating for a shorter boy to stand next to a taller guy because genetically speaking guys are SUPPOSED to be taller. That's only genetically speaking though, I don't know about socially. Supposedly socially, girls want to be shorter than the guy. The problem with me though is that I prefer her to be shorter (without heels) but taller (with heels). I can't seem to find that kind of girl (who wants me). I'm 5'8".
If a guy is short he is likely to feel insecure next to a taller woman. If the guy is tall he will not likely to feel insecure next to a taller woman. Look on any dating website and you will see plenty of girls dismiss any guy that is below a certain height. This has helped reinforce the notion that women judge a man heavily based on his height. A tall man has far more options with women, so they tend to worry about it less, even if he meets a girl that is taller than himself.
I don't feel insecure, but it does seem kind of weird or awkward. I would still be okay with being in a relationship or married to a girl taller than me. Just not too much taller because kissing and 69 will be difficult. I don't get mad or anything if a girl asks my height.
it's only because too many girls today hate to date short guys, which is why they like to keep their height a secret from you so you can continue to think of them as your boyfriend.
Not necessarily It depends on who the guy is and what he prefers Of a woman Whether to be tall or short
Sometimes. Yes. But usually it doesn't matter. Guys are simple. We just like boobs, butts and if you brush your teeth.
I have yet to find a girl taller than me...
EXTREMELY insecure and intimidated, to the point that I wish I was dead. I am super short guy.
Sparrow24, is that you?
Yes sometimes they feel
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