Guys: why do you squeeze so tight when you hug? (Page 2)
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I guess guys do it unintentional sometimes. Just like I almost scream whenever a coworker gives me a handshake and I feel like they are about to break my bones xD
When we don’t squeeze tight enough women get upset. I remember having a girl telling me that “I have shitty hugs”. I was just trying to not overpower her the same way you are complaining about.
I always go for big ole hugs I want the person I am hugging to understand that I truly care about them.
Gawd us guys are not all about tits and ass. If I hold a girl tighter or longer in a hug, it’s because I want to feel her heart beating against my chest. In other words, I really, really like her
Because.. this will sound unbelievable.. but.. guys have these things called hearts.. I know it's hard for a girl to understand this cos y'all are cold careless bitches.. but most guys love girls, thats why we hug them... It feels nice to hug someone u love...
It's something a girl would never understand
Why are women always complaining about everything. I don't see dudes here asking these kinds of questions.
This makes me want to say: Women!
But i love women. Just not the types of women, who nag or complain a lot or are quite crazy.
Say, say away. Women indeed.
Women!
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It's not about your boobs or anything, it's about his feelings for you. Don't forget guys love the girl's body scent.
I get enthusiastic when I hug people I really care about. I like to feel like I'm holding the person close to my heart. I certainly don't do that with everyone though..
Personally, I've been told my strong hugs are the best because most others are too scared to squeeze. But if I were to squeeze more halfway through a hug it means I do genuinely care for you. Like I realize with you pressed against me how much you mean to me. As a friend.
Guys like hugs. A lot. But we don't hug each other because it's gay. So that means the only hugs we get are from girls. So we savor them. The boob part is true to a certain extent I'm sure, but not all guys are pigs. I promise.
No, you only like to THINK it's gay!! In college, I was a member of the Art club and EVERYBODY that came in or out of our office got a hug on the way in and out no matter what they had dangling between their legs!! And it had NOTHING to do with being gay!!!
Well... I only hug things tightly when something is at a high level of cuteness. I'm not exactly a fan of breasts as I am more of a legs/thighs/booty type of dude.
My boobs always hurt after it.. not a fond of it :)
I really don't know, so I am as curious as you.
i thought that read 'not a fondle of it'
lol sorry :P
scream "OUCH" in their ears... that'll teach them..
Guys really don't know when to quit.. well most of them...
If the ouch don't work, kick them in the wrinklies after..
If that really doesn't help. well.. they may actually what you search for..
(guys that take a girls kicks for nothing after hugs... well.. you can't do wrong in their eyes..)
I know a certain girl who could kick me in the nuts for hugsqueezling her.. and I wouldn't mind...
(she does not do so however.. while I could hug her so hard that I'd mush her and roll around in it.. not literally ofc... but she's just that cute...)
Ain’t got shit to do with your boobies.
It is an expression of our emotions. I am thinking of a special someone right now that given the first chance l plan on giving her a huge bear hug.
I will point out something that l am guilty of a lot. Most men when we shake another man’s hand, we do so with a tight grip. I have had women extend their hand to shake mine and l have nearly broken a few. The tight grip hand shake is just instinctive. I can see how a tight hug from the right men could make a women feel safe, secure and comforted.
It doesn't have anything to do with boobs.. its just a guy think to do, we have the need to protect those who we charish, and we want them to feel safe when with us.
It feels good to squeeze her close
We are humans... we all need affection
It's more about experience related to how many women prefer to be hugged tightly. I would consider it interest but it has nothing to do with tits. Is this off putting for you or what?
I love getting and giving hugs in general. The guy I’m dating right now likes to squeeze me tight and I enjoy it
I only hug as tight as she would hug me. I guess what you could call a mutal tightness representative of our bond.
But it just sounds like he came on top strong. No pun intended.
When a guy squeezes your particular body to hard tell him. Be blunt if you have to. Some guys do not know how hard we are squeezing.
Boys always want hugs for some reason, it's annoying