How To Not Seem So Innocent

[ChocolateKisses]

My boyfriend has a lot more experience than me. people call me a flirt and a tease but I really don't know how that's possible because I'm way to shy. I want to seem more flirty and not seem so innocent and shy

[longdistancegirlie]

I agree with the guy. You don't necessarily need to be flirty. There's a big difference between outgoing and flirty and shy and innocent. I would say work on just your people skills. I totally understand the summer before my senior year of high school my mother told me she was nervous for me to go to the real world because I was too shy and didn't know how to talk. I literally MADE myself outgoing haha and it turns out I love it. But all of the guys who have said they liked me it was NOT because I was flirty and def. NOT because I wasn't innocent. I think you just need to find you fit as to your way of being out going and that will attract guys to you. My way is sarcasm, jokes, and being completely nd ridiculously goofy and guys love it...i don't even have to flirt. JUST BE YOURSELF. As for the innocent thing TOTALLY understand I'm the stereotypical good goody christian girl...but the right guy will like you for the way you are.

[MACbarbie09]

no no don't be ridiculously goofy lol but yea you can joke around but remember always be femine . I seen a lot of girls trying to be funny that they just look like boys not attractive lol anywaay don't over do it . like ex: if your very shy and you jump to like a bubbly and talk a lot and flirt too much its not gonna look like you . your gonna look like a try hard .. as I like to say

soo you should just step out a little from your comfort zone and flirt a little more . like it could even be by the way you talk a little more flirty . like hey baaabbbeeeee lol . & play with your hair smile a lot . give him nice compliments and flirty ones too that would make him sexy . stuff like that touch him like you know exactly what your doinq

qood lucck :]

[Anonymous]

hey if that's who you are, That's Who You Are.

but if ur so eager and desperate to not be that person and be a more flirty person rather than a "innocent" girl (which I think is Much more attractive) just get some tips on how to flirt from some girls/guys here. I'm braindead today so I can't help you but, I just wanna say that don't change who you are just because what other people think. but learning how to flirt is fun and is a life experience. You never know where you can get with flirting :)

[ChocolateKisses]

I don't want to change who I am I just want to be a little more flirty

[Anonymous]

Try to be dominant, take initiative.