Put your self to her shoe.I think instead babbling around your ego.Go find another apartment for her.Go meet her parents.Do u think she's happy being molested or being harassed? Nah. As you can see maybe she is helpless or worst she didn't trust you. Because your not a man enough armed with initiatives, your just an empty drum only good for a sound. if Im in your situation ill Turn the world upside down just to protect her.
Sorry mate, im just expressing myself.
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be there for her as a friend but sort of draw a line. she needs support but she ultimately does need to do what she needs to do. I don't think she won't take you serious if you sort of reconcile with her, but just be very vocally firm that you do not support her decision not to do anything about the situation but you will always support her as a person.
I know you care. That's nice. And you can text her, it's fine to show concern. But don't inform her parents or the police. If you do that she'll think you interfere too much in her matters. She's a grown up, responsible person. She'll do whatever she needs to do. But I'm sure she needs someone by her side now, you can be that guy. Talk to her, not much about this matter. Cheer her up, talk about other stuff...stuff that make her laugh or something :)
If you don't have open lines of communication with this girl, and she's not willing to talk, then you should alert police. Tell the police anything that you saw and tell them that this girl is vulnerable and won't stand up for herself.
If you're feeling brave, confront the man yourself and tell him to knock it off or you'll kick his face in
It's admirable that you want to help her, but she needs to wake up and learn how to take care of herself.
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Awww your heart is in the right place but ultimately if she's not worried enough to tell any one, what can you do? What does that say about her? She's the damsel in distress and you want to be her hero...adorable. Does she want to be rescued though?
You are in the unsatisfying position of trying to get people to do what you want them to do. As you'll learn, people have to make their own decisions.
Call the police yourself and report what happened. Take photographs or get somebody to do it for you.
Talk to her and let her know you're there for her.
Kick the old guys ass as hard as you can
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