What to do when my crush is a bully?

[Anonymous]

Today, I found out from a friend that my crush and his friends were bullying another boy at Dairy Queen. It wasn't like he was just there listening/laughing, he was in on it completely. The victim even walked away, but they followed him to pick on him some more. I don't know what to feel. I don't think I can make an impact on him because we're not very close, but I don't want him doing it. All my good friends hate him now, but I still like him. He's moving soon, and I want to spend time with him, but I just found out he's a bully. How can I get over him?

[Anonymous]

Nothing u can do because young women love a bastard. I discovered this at an early age and used to pretend to be an absolute bastard to get girls and it really does work. This one girl I was seeing (super hot) had this kind of nerdy friend who was sweet on her but she wasn't intrested, my girl was starting to lose interest in me so I decided to bully her nerdy friend a bit so she jumped saying stop bullying him and leave him alone you bastard, who do u think u are (she was always the good girl). The poor nerd thought he was finally get his chance with her as she was so mad an upsrt with me as did I. So I thought I had nothing to lose and as I was leaving I looked into her angry eyes and said 'bitch are u getting in the car or what'. Supprisenly she said sorry to her netd friend and got in the car we fucked that night and she was so into me again. We broke up a year later because she got bored of me and I was exhausted trying to kerp up the bastard routine. She dated a lot of bastards that were worse than me before settling down with a nice accountant after a few black eyes.

[NateInAk]

Same thing for me, recently found out that my crush has been rather vile to certain people.
Just gotta realize intellectually that this isn't a person you want to spend your time with or give your attention to.

[rihannanavy]

No to! If y'all end up together he could well bully you in the relationship (emotional abuse) and if y'all break up. He'll just talk horrible about you to others. Walk the other way...

[lyf-est]

not only that you may not change him, there's a probability he will take advantage of you if you get into a relationship

[Mookinsx]

tell him he's a prick and that you did like him and now you don't cause he's a fucking dick head

[JohnBelluci]

my crush and his friends were bullying another boy
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he was in on it completely.
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he's a bully
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but I still like him
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and I want to spend time with him

... -_-

[naivetykills_you]

in the same position rn, fvckn sucks 💀💀

[sean1234]

Trust me, hating him in this case is probably better for him, especially if he knows it. I mean what guys wants all girls around him to hate him?

[Klaatu51]

fuck him... avoid him anyway, don't mess wid any bullies :)

[sean1234]

She should just avoid him, lol

[ArchDruidMordred]

Depends, why do you like him? If you're just attracted to his looks then it'll be easy. If you're attracted to some part of his personality than it'll be harder.

[Jacob46]

He's an ass hole, don't spend any time with him and focus on the books

[muspelhem_5]

Become a bully yourself. You'll be a perfect match!

[Alexious]

Don't fall for someone like that. Bullies are the worst sort of people.

[Nathand]

you dig the badboy... why would you want him to change?

You have a crush on him because he is a bully.

bully + badboy = you love them.

[KhaysunDei]

I think you should've stood up for that bullied person.

[jessiie06]

I'd dump him. If he's like that then he might become like that to you.

[DaddyRollingStone]

Take him out in the cafeteria with a knife.

You'll be top dog now.

[BroBroncoski]

Lol you need to explain that situation more, sounds like they were having bro time lol

[lamborgini15]

Get somebody to beat the living shit out of him somebody older.

[SkaterDude]

nothing you can do, when you see him around , just turn around and run as far as you can

[Anonymous]

If you are attracted to a bully, you need to get better standards. Once you found out this asshole was a bully it should have turned you off of him.

[rthomas43]

He's a bully, don't give him the time of day.