My crush is a bully and likes to pick fights with others, is it okay for me to keep crushing on him or should I listen to my conscience and stop?

[naivetykills_you]

He may be a bad person and suppose if i’m together with him he’ll do the same things to me or people who he bullied will come back for him (or us). He’s stubborn and won’t listen to anyone, aways calling people out and starting arguments, even on the smallest things when I think one should just let go and move one in that kind of situation.

[Anonymous]

Ok so when you say calling people out do you mean on things that are wrong. I mean cause honestly there aren’t many people like that. A lot of people in society have gotten to the point where they don’t say a damn thing, which is why there’s more crime. People just turn their heads. At the same time I can see what you mean. Even if he called out someone who was doing wrong, you never know their intentions. Someone could come back at him or both of you. It’s sad cause I had that mindset of calling out people but I’ve kind of just said fuck it, no one else really does it why put myself in danger as well as my family. Now if he’s just got a chip on his shoulder cause he has anger issues or something else than he needs help. I don’t think this is the type of man you want raising a son. Imagine someone like him out there treating your son or daughter the way he treats people. Is he a cop? Military? Maybe deep down he’s scared so he puts up this front that he’s tough, so no one really challenges him. That isn’t what a man is in my opinion. A man to me is someone who is kind, humble, helpful, along w a lot of other things. But also, who as Jordan Peterson put it, has a monster inside him that is necessary that he can control.

[Flower7]

People who treat others badly will end up treating you badly also.