If a girl is wearing a low-cut top and you can see too much, would you (guys) tell her?

[Anonymous]

I often wear vest tops which are quite low-cut at the front, obviously with a bra under. A couple of my bras are a little big with space inside the cups (my breasts aren't very big or round) but I've never thought anything of it til the other day.

We were working in groups in class and I noticed a couple of my guy friends seemed to make a point of standing beside me/looking over my shoulder from behind during group work.

After class when there was no-one around I looked down and realised that someone looking from above would be able to see down my top and inside my bra cups - and probably see my nipples, depending how I had my arms positioned. If a girl is wearing a top/bra combo like this do you (guys) look on purpose, and would you tell her?

[arthurdent]

If I saw a woman who was showing a lot of cleavage, and if someone were allowed to get in the right position and by doing so would be able to maybe see a nipple: I think I would assume the girl was dressing that way intentionally.

If I saw other guys taking advantage of this without her noticing, I'd mention it to her if I didn't think I'd be considered a perv by her for doing so.

Basically, what I would do would depend on whether I thought the girl knew or not.

I'd generally assume that a girl knows when she is revealing a lot, assuming there isn't any obvious ward-robe malfunction taking place.

So if I thought guys were trying to take advantage of her, I'd let her know. If I thought she was letting guys see what she wanted them to see and no more than that, I'd not say anything.

[islands7]

Yes, of course but I always get into trouble!

Best advice: on shore leave on a cruise at Sandles
one place to eat was swim suit informal
but wife wanted to also try the British fare, walked in
they said no admittance
she looked puzzled
so they looked down at their own shirts, waved their hands (like windshield wipers) over their breast area, shaking their heads "NO"
= too much cleavage for dining in here

[knotme]

If you are wearing low top shirts or blouses, you already know there is a possibility of cleavage showing. So, I wouldn't tell you

[SkyrimAddict]

Yeah, I would look if I noticed. It would be hard not too. If I was friends with the girl and felt comfortable with her I would tell her but besides that I would no feel comfortable because it would be awkward and in order for me to know that that would be letting her know I looked.

[Anonymous]

No, I wouldn't say anything to her. If anything, I would feel that if I mentioned it, that I would probably have her try and bitch me out for looking at her chest even though she's probably wearing it for attention anyways.

[Bettering_Myself]

I've tried. The usual response is, "Why were you looking at me like that?" If you want someone to tell you, let them know. If they care about you they a. will want to look out for you, b. In a way that doesn't destroy your trust.

[RealityCheckTime]

That's hot. If I liked what I saw I'd ask her out.

[Anonymous]

I would think she looks that way on purpose and I would continue looking. Hard to catch these situations.

[thatbuffedkid]

Nope. Id be like "We want some mo! We want some mo!"

[jacquesvol]

I'd suppose she knows it and is an attention seeker.

[skeptic007]

girl as long as we think u look good were going to look even if where just friends its nature women

[gitarplayr420]

Yes i would look on purpose. Hell no i would not tell her haha

[PANDAmonium]

I would assume she already knows and say nothing.

[Anonymous]

Oh I often use that technique.

[Anonymous]

No, I would just continue looking