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6 packs are attractive but he doesn't have to have that to be considered attractive by me. There's a lot other things that are way more important in determining a person's attractiveness. However, one of my biggest turnoffs when it comes to physical appearance is a flabby gut or love handles. As long as his abdomen is somewhat toned that's good enough.
Nope, I am attracted to the eyes and face. I know some buff, well fit and well toned guys who I find completely repulsive. Personality goes a long way too.
I'm 50 lbs overweight.. is that too much?
Depends how tall you are and where you carry it.
I know guys who are really tall and considered overweight but you cannot tell. I also know of men who are opposite.
I'm not tall
I'm just using height as an example. It just depends how you carry it.
No dude it's fine I've got a friend that's 200 and he's 6 foot 1 so nah your good and hell he is a pretty cool guy too you just gotta be nice to the girls you like and find a good time to make a move he'll that's gotten me far and it helps to get a wing man.
No though I do find guys with abs to be attractive, I also find guys without them to be attractive as well.
What about 50 lbs overweight?
50lbs isn't really that bad I was over weight by like 40lbs and guys were still into me.
Anyway no weight doesn't really bother me appearance wise the only time it does is when it really starts to affect my s/o
Awww thank you that so made my day.. everyone else has told me today on this thread that no woman would like me at this weight
It's no problem glad to help =)
I mean yeah people have their own likes, opinions, and standards when it comes to dating especially weight.
But I mean you didn't even state how much you weighed. You could be really skinny, over weight, or obses.
I mean many people are over weight, but not obese, and I guarantee you out of the 62 of us that left their opion probably are.
Also being over weight isn't that bad when I was no one could tell because I was tall so it really didn't show.
And omg you are like the kindest person ever! I can't believe you actually told people to read my opion.
Well anyway I'm really glad I could make your day =)
I'm 510 235 so I'm most likely obese
Wait is 510 you're weight or 235?
But anyway it doesn't matter if someone really likes you will look past that.
Yes I am? Is that bad?
But there has to be a physical attraction to me first so they can get to know the real me.. that's what my brother in law told me
Yeah that's true and applies to most, but if you're over weight so what?
Im sure there are more attractive qualities about you.
So I don't have looks cuz of my weight?
That's not true I've seen plenty of obese people that still are attractive and many are wedded.
But if it really bothers you the best thing I can recommend is to lose weight. You'll have better health also
if I lose weight then they win
No... No one wins but you.
You'll find the girl that you want, and have better health as well.
What everyone else says doesn't matter.
And it's really up to you whether to change your weight or not but personally I was 40lbs over weight and now that I lost it I feel great personally and emotionally... I mean you don't have to lose any but you could drop a few pounds while staying over weight so you'll feel great and find out who are your true friends.
My friends accept me just not potential significant others
Okay then fine as long as you accept yourself, you're happy, and healthy.
I don't accept myself because women don't accept me
Well then its a lose lose situation... I'm sure there are girls in the world that will accept you as you are but thats all I can say.
You can let them "win" and lose the weight and be bothered by it or you can keep the weight and hopefully find a girl in be bothered by it in the mean time.
Whatever you think it what matters not what anyone else thinks and you're only hurting yourself.
You don't have to care what anyone else thinks, but you do and when you try to fight it you're only hurting yourself. Block out everyone else and just think about what you really want, what helps you, and what will TRULY make you happy.
why would I want a woman you just want me for my body
What? I never said I wanted you for your body.
I don't know what else to tell you... Wait for a girl that accepts you for who you are.
And what I'm saying isn't about the girls its about you being happy! You not caring what others think whether your healthy or out of shape.
And you're not happy because you don't accept yourself because girls don't accept you
So you must care what others think.
You are the only one holding yourself back.
Either stop caring what others think and live your life how you want to. Or keep the wait and be bothered by what girls think of you, or lose the weight but continue to be bothered by letting a little voice in your head continue to bother you because you let everyone else win.
Its really up to you, I'm sorry that's all I got. I can't think of anything else I really want to help, but the decision is up to you!
Omg so sorry. . Typo on my cell phone
Can't I attract women just how I am?
It's ok and I'm not saying that you can't it just takes time.
But despite that when someone is bothered by what someone says or thinks the only way to make it better is by working on it.
So however you go about it fine but just do not let it continue to bother you during the process.
But why should those women get what they want making me thin
They won't the decision is up to you about, how you go about it but in my opinion you lose either way.
Or at least until you find a sweet girl that ignores appearances.
This is the final word of advice I have to give to you... Sometimes you have to lose the battle to win the war.
Now the battle can either be you losing the weight and letting them win, or it can be you keeping the weight and being unhappy. Either what you lose.
And the War is of course you finding a girl that you love and loves you.
Wich route will you choose?
A girl will never want me for me.. how sad :(
Since you believe that then drop the pounds... or keep it and e unhappy.
And it is sad but that's life.
Wow from someone who said doesn't mind overweight guys
Yeah I don't. But according to you everyone else does snd you're bothered by it either way... So like I said before that's all I can say.
I'm sorry but repeating the same thing over and over is just irritating.
Why don't you want to help me?
Now you're just putting words in my mouth... Its not that I don't want to help you its the fact that I've have constantly. I've tried my best and have said the same thing in different ways as much as I can.
It's not that I don't want to give you advice it's tge fact that you won't take it but asks me the same question again and again.
What I'm trying to say is I can explain it to you but I can't understand it for you.
So 1 of 2 things either you're just trolling, or you've ignored everything I've said from the beginning and don't intend on taking any of ny advice. Which is also basically trolling the only difference is the fact that you don't realize that you're doing it.
you have no right to accuse me of trolling.I've been broken up from my ex fiance for a year now and I still can't get over it so thank you for making me cry by calling me a troll just cuz I wanted some help. Goodbye
Trolling doesn't mean you're a troll. It just means you're kidding around and I'm sorry for offending you and making you cry.
I'm really sorry because a lot of people on GAG do that to me I'll try to answer their question but we'll just keep going back and forth and I'll lose time talking about something that no one really needs help with.
Sorry again and I honestly have nothing else to say. I tried I really did. At the most you can either take my advice or you can't. There's nothing more for me to say.
And sorry again =(
I'm 36 years old why would I be childish and kid about something like this
No. I just care more about the face if it's a face that is charming to look at.
Have a good body is a plus, but not a must.
As long as he is not obese, everything is fine with me.
Sorry but us regular guys can't look like Adam levine
You don't have to look like Adam. Everyone is different and have different taste.
Women don't like men who are 50 lbs overweight. . Do you?
I don't know. I don't mind overweight (chubby) guys.
Women don't like me but yet I'm supposed to be happy
Why do you want a girl to only like you because you have abs? That will just be insane. Find a girl that likes you, for you. Not your body. There is more than just looks.
If you say they don't like you, maybe it's because of your personality. Check on what you're seeing wrong.
If it's not that, maybe you need to go out more and find new people and meet new girls.
Get yourself out there and have confidence in yourself.
People say confidence in one self but I don't know what that means
Confidence is that you feel comfortable in your own skin, that you mean what you say, the way you dress, or do your hair. You do it because that is who you are and you're not afraid of what people think.
Why are women so mean
Lol i guess im just different. I love chubby tummies. I get great full hugs and it doesn't poke me or anything.
I see Dodger got himself a new name... Did your last account get banned or something?
Answer: 6 pack is not necessary.
Im average looking, and once in a blue moon (when in either uniforms) I would get a head turn.
Nice!!!
the other guys Im with get the #s tho...lol..
No. I prefer a toned stomach with someee definition to an actual 6 pack, if that makes sense lol.
Do you know how much a poor guy has to work to get those?
To get a toned stomach, or a 6 pack? I guess it depends on your starting point.
What happened to guys just looking like guys? Now we have to look like underwear models
What do you define as "normal"? And I never said it was necessary, but is preferred (to me).
Normal is average not some gym body
Having an average body doesn't make you unattractive, but I think it's in our nature to be more attracted to gym bodies because they give off the perception of ideal health.
That's what the media does is brainwashing
Yeah, the media likely has something to do with it as well. But there's just as much pressure (or more) on women to look "perfect".
I think a curvy women with some extra weight are sexy
Of course not, just realize that attraction is made up of many different factors and weight/fitness is only one of them.
I wouldn't want a vain woman like that
That's not vanity, that's being human.
No but if you're gonna ask someone out without a ripped torso then you might want to consider doing it with your shirt on to make a good impression as you will look the same if you're fit with/without six pack when you've got a shirt on. You can leave the abs for when you're closer and they won't care - they'll love you already anyway. Or you could just try that extra bit harder for a six pack so that your girl will fall for you easier. It works for me basically every time.
No I don't think a guy need 6 pack to be attractive, there is much more to see and find out than that ^^
At first it's a feeling and then it comes to the physical parts ;)
Yes and no. A guy could have six pack abs but be a total idiot with a HUGE ego that no one likes. Usually, I hate those kind of guys. And sometimes, those guys without six pack abs are the most sweetest and caring.
No!!! Oh my goodness.
I hope guys don't think this. :(
I do.. cuz women tell me I'm ugly everyday
I'm sorry that you think that way!
I hope that you don't continue to let those women dictate the way you look at yourself and feel about yourself.
It's hard not to when they are all I care and think about
Not at all! There are way more important things to consider than whether a guy has 6 pack abs or not. But I do want him to be stronger than me:)
i mean he should be in shape.. but he doesn't need to have a 6 pack.. there are a lot of athletes that are in shape but don't have a sick pack. it depends on the girl honestly
They want perfection and it's not right
i don't think perfection is a 6 pack.. lots of average guys have 6 packs
I've tried to get a six pack but I can't. . Do I deserve to be alone because of this?
haha no obviously not!
Why do you laugh
No, there are plenty of hot guys without them. That being said, 6 packs are hard to resist!
Not at all, no. A little bit can be nice, but personally I don't like it if it's too much.
No, but a generally lean body. I'm really not into fat
Why? You're too good?
too good?
It's just not attractive to me. What makes men's bodies attractive is a well shaped upper body
And do you know that's not easy to achieve when you are handicapped and can't afford a gym?
And by the way what are you going to do when the looks fade?
I never said it was. And what kind of handicap do you have?
But it's ok for guys to say they don't like overweight girls, why is it not ok for me to say I don't like overweight men?
Looks fading is normal, but you can stay reasonably fit while aging and it's different. You have history together, it's not the same as not finding someone attractive from the start
I love overweight girls. . Where did I say I like thin women. ? My ex fiance was overweight. . There goes your theory
Ya what's the handicap that is slowing you down?
That's not something you share with strangers
And by the way NO WOMEN IS WORTH EXERCISING FOR
Then do it for yourself. I am going to give you a piece of advice here. If you don't love yourself, then no one else will love you. It's as simple as that. You need to work on loving your own self either as you are, or make the changes you want with your life and just do it and who gives a flying fuck what anyone else thinks. Until you love yourself, you will continue to have a rough road ahead of you
I do love myself
But people who go to the gym love themselves a little too much especially the guys.. it makes me want to puke
No you didn't say it and I never said you did but the vas majority of guys prefer thin women.
Well if you exercise only for women, we wouldn't be compatible anyways because I exercise to feel good. Being fit and healthy is important to me
Then don't exercise, but truth is most women prefer fit men.
If you're happy with yourself, that's good. But my personal preference is men who are lean
No you don't love yourself or else you wouldn't be asking this question. And going to the gym doesn't make somebody love themselves too much it's called wanting to live a heal other lifestyle. I have kids, and I would like to be around for them and be able to keep up with them and show them a healthy lifestyle. You have a distorted view on life and reality and like I said, start with yourself and learn to love you
*healthier lifestyle*
You exercise to feel sexy.. who do you think you're fooling
Healthier lifestyle lol
Lol think what you want man, you won't take anyone's advice anyways. Hope you figure out what you want in life. Good day!
You only like thin guys. Do you know how that hurts my self esteem?
well I'm sorry it hurts your self esteem, but you ask and I'm not going to lie. It's not only you, everyone has to deal with that. On the upside if you feel you're not attractive because of your weight, you change that. I know where you come from, not so sure about men, but a lot of my girl friends feel the same way. And they're often not even overweight
Looking good is part of it, but believe it or not, I enjoy working out. It relaxes me and gives me time to think. I'e always been athletic and in my family I could see what difference it makes. My mom continusley worked out a few times a week, while my dad never did. And it does make a difference when you grow old, health wise. Especially for men who are more prone to heart disease
Did I mention I can't walk.. I'm handicapped
No you didn't. And if you were asking about yourself that would make it a different question. But you asked for people in general
Well now you know I can't exercise and you made me cry but people in our society don't have a conscience anymore
well I didn't mean to, but you did ask, did you want me to lie?
And judging by the other answers, I'm the exception, so that's good
And even without being able to walk you eat healthy and do some sports, for recreation and to keep fit. No girl expects a guy to be ripped.
All men were created equal
It's a little thing called tact
I know, but you know we're not compatible with everyone. Again, sorry if I made you cry
You don't give care. .don't validate your hurtful comments
Somehow the big look has escaped people. Larger guys with a bit of muscle, bit of fat. Ripped guys dont resonate with some women for some reason
No, not as long as he has a flat toned stomach. Actually too much of a six pack can be unattractive, makes you look like a lobster.
Do you know how much work it takes to get a flat stomach? Not everyone has good genes
Not that hard with the right exercise and diet.
If you have a handicap it's hard
Than if you have a handicap it is hard to achieve a flat stomach.
Flat stomach isn't that great
It is, when it comes to cloths fitting.
2 words big and tall store
I'd rather have a flat stomach, I don't wanna look like I'm pregnant.
Fat guys don't look pregnant. Don't insult pregnant women that way
I don't think I'm insulting pregnant woman. Their are guys that have most of their fat around their stomach that makes the look a little pregnant.
They do but they don't look pregnant. . That's like you're saying I'm a woman who's pregnant. . Have some tact
I know from experience, I use to have a beer belly (not from drinking beer) and joked all the time about looking pregnant.
Nobody should make fun of you like that
I was the one doing the joking, no harm done.