When you see a guy with washboard abs do you find yourself staring?
Does it increase the attractiveness of the person, or your desire to interact with them?
Will it be worth the huge amount of effort for a young man to achieve this?
Most females will say it looks good , but it doesn’t mean that’s what she wants , but if that is what she wants? then she is probably a female that only cares about appearance over anything else. thinking that appearance is what matters most and she is probably a female that seeks validation as well. But most females want a guy that is handsome. has a good heart and good personality that makes her laugh and someone that will be faithful to her , from my experiences with girls’ most girls’ don’t care if a guy has a six pack or not , Most girls’ don’t look at guys’ like guys’ look at females. I landed some very beautiful girls’ that I was shocked that they were into me , Thinking I am not that fit and I don’t have a 6 pack to find out it was my personality and some nice features on me that attracted her. So 6 pack guys’ don’t get all the girls’ a lot of girls’ love Dad Bods as well
I always chuckle to myself when I read women say they would choose a flabby guy over a toned guy that has put work in to stay fit and healthy.
I'm kind of repulsed by it. It actually doesn't look natural. Same thing with all the muscle groups. I like biceps and thigh muscles, but not super bulging. I guess that would be it for me -- toned but not bulging. Like, when he flexes, you can see a nice defined muscle, but not just bulging all the time. A slight dad bod is ok, too, but not super out of shape I like swimmers' and surfers' type bodies. So, having said all that, what attracts me to a guy initially is his personality. Then, I take a good look at the character underneath that personality. Is he kind, patient, hard working, interacts well and cares about people. Character is most likely to be the deal breaker with me. If he has a good character and takes good care of himself, I'll make sure he knows I'm interested!
I'm not much into muscular guys so to me it'd be a no. I know some women do love a 6 pack abs guy that works on his muscles and goes to the gym type of guy. But for me I just never understood it. Can pecs & abs look nice? Yes. I only have a small curiosity about them, but that's it. I'd never expect a guy to have them. If they do, good for them to keep it maintained like you would a tan.
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s I’ve always found it very unattractive, but I’m like that with most toned muscle. I’ll take a dad bod anyday.
They’re definitely a nice plus. If my boyfriend lost them and still had his arms I’d still think he’s sexy af 😍
Nah… nice biceps has always been my thing🔥😍🥰
My hubby has them and tbh, I agree with Bernadette from the big bang theory. Sometimes I love to lick those abs
They aren't the #1 most important thing, but I would be lying if I didn't say that I'm not a big fan.
I'd love my boyfriend regardless of his abs. However, the fact he does have a 6 pack is something that I do love quite a bit. I also would be lying if I said it wasn't pretty helpful at getting my interest/attention at the start of our relationship.
Yes. Always yes. It's a signal of health and virility and a proxy for willingness to labor, plan, execute and maintain.. it signals confidence, self care and good genes. It's worth it fellas.
At the end of the day, what is attractive is what is useful. Core strength is useful.
u only one of my exes liked the look of these... but didn't really care if a guy had no abs
I'm sure they are, but at the same time, they can be intimidating to women, I'd imagine. As it would represent that he's so committed to fitness, that he has little time for anything else
Yeah, there nice with that being said sometimes you guys take it too far
It's nice to look at, but I'd rather be with a man that has a little chub.
Don't get me wrong, I'd loooove it if my man was toned like that, but I like cuddles and I can cuddle with a rock.
Not really.
Don't get me wrong, it certainly can look great.
But it's doesn't make me want to date him or get to know him more just because he has them.
In the poll the "no" is higher then "yes"? All men who voted in our place shame on y'all 😭😭
As long as he’s decently healthy/fit that’s fine. While six pack abs could be nice sometimes, I’m not really into super buff or ripped people.
It is attractive if the guy isn't too buff but it isn't a must for him to have a good body or to be attractive still.
It depends on the girl, generally some prefer it others prefer a man with a flat stomach without abs.
Those photos are enough to make me want to pluck my eyeballs out.
I look more at the arms, but I like feeling up those abs.
a little of that i like, the ones in those pictures are more for a one night stand for me. they're not a relationship, they're exercise
don't try to be the guy women like. find your audience and pick from that audience.
