Polls: Flirting

How can you tell if a guy is a virgin? I suspect this guy I talk to is a virgin but I'm not sure. He seem clumsy and very nervous. He doesn't seem to know how to ask a girl out. He kinda hints at having free time and no one to spend it with. I'm just so used to if a guy just ask me out if he wants and not hint at it.

My crush nestled his arm into mine when we were at lunch and I whined slightly and pushed his arm and his lunchbox into him.

So my crush playfully says "(My name), do you wanna fight?"

Grinning, I reply with "Yes."

Then he launches himself towards me, inches from me. I exclaim his name, and we both laugh as he sits down.

Hey, So I'm in college & stay on campus, I made this thing that everyday I have to start a conversation with someone that I've never met wether it be a girl or guy. Girls are usually easier to talk to, but sometimes with guys especially the freshman I notice that they aren't really engaged like they don't ask questions back or just seem really shy. What are ways to recognize if conversation is wanted by the other person?

There's been so many studies on this, but all of the results are different. Some say eyes, some say smile, for guys some say they look at a girl's boobs first, for girls they look at a guy's butt first, etc. I know that people become attracted to the overall package, but there's always at least one physical feature that really stands out and that you look at first. What do you look at first, and find the most attractive in someone of the opposite (or same) sex?

Like did one of your teachers ever find out you had a crush and assigned seats so that you got to sit next to your crush?

or vice Versa: someone liked you and the teacher put you two together in the same group?

A guy friend of mine that I have a crush on today kept telling improvised stories to me and his friend at lunch. And then, he says, "Hey (my name)."

I reply, "Yes?"

He then says, "So, let's say you're sitting in a cafeteria, and you're playing with your phone, and... (etc.)."

Of course, he's obviously singling me out seeing as I'm sitting next to him at our lunch table and I've been twirling my phone around because I get fidgety a little due to my social anxiety and proximity to him. I laughed, knowing he was talking about me.

Aside from that, his friend asked to hear my crush's laugh, and so he did it and imitated a couple other people's. Then, my crush asks me to do my laugh, and I say, "Well, I'm not a robot. You can't just ask me to laugh. You're gonna have to make me... (etc.)."

Unfortunately, I kinda giggled at myself so I failed lol 😂

So, based on these interactions, would you say he's teasing me and therefore is displaying interest in me? Does he like my laugh or something? I don't know Thanks so much! :)

So, I sit with my crush and our friends at lunch. Last Friday, I sat in my usual seat, but there was gum stuck on the side of table that got on my shirt. I was so embarrassed, especially since this happened in front of my crush!

Therefore, today when I had lunch with them, I moved a seat over directly next to my crush. My friend immediately noticed and said "Oh, (my name) just wants to sit next to (my crush)~"

Suddenly, my crush sits next to me, and replies, "Aw, how sweet."

I sarcastically reply to cover up my blush, saying "Yeah, you should be touched."

I felt so embarrassed to be called out, despite my denying their claims. But, my crush didn't seem to be fazed, and we talked a lot in the halls afterwards.

He also complimented me later in the day. I drew a realistic picture of him and I confronted him about it since my friend texted it to him over the weekend and didn't respond to it. He said "Oh yeah, it was pretty good." As we were walking, I tried to prevent it the whole drawing him thing from being weird so I kept rambling and we ended up far away from our classes because we were just following each other and not paying attention. 😂😂😂

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Ok, so at my gym, there's a guy who works there who smiles and says hi to me and he says my name every time. I just started thinking about it and he must see a hundred people go in and out of there each day, and I've never really had any kind of conversation with him. Do you think it means he's interested in me, or is he just really good at remembering everyone's name?

I want to know women's opinion too. Like if you were working at a store and saw a guy and never really talked to him, but you always greet him by name. Are you trying to throw a hint? Or just being polite.