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Don't you hate when people mistake your kindness for flirting?
Yes, I hate it. I'm naturally friendly with practically everyone but unfortunately, a lot of women mistake that for flirting. It does get quite annoying every once in a while.
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I hate it when people mistake conversation for flirting
Nah, I am actually flirting. I flirt with everyone. I'd flirt with stones if they could keep up a conversation.
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I'm not kind and I don't flirt.
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Yes, but only if I have no interest in the guy..- For example, last night I asked this guy (who has been really flirty to me lately, but who's also a good friend) to come with me and some friends to this play we're going to. And now I'm so scared he mistook it as some kind of date thing, while I actually really like a guy that's going to be on stage... lmao xD - but if it's a guy that I like, please feel free to read my kindness as flirting, because I really suck at flirting!
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It's kind of annoying. But hey, egos need to be validated every now and then. Most of the time it's my friends who'll think I'm crushing on someone I'm not at all attracted to. And then they'll give the guy the impression that I'm interested. My friends are great but they've gotten me into some awkward situations.
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I hate it more that kindness isn't so common anymore that people would come to the conclusion of "flirting" in the first place. It means that our society has reached a point where everyone assumes that something is owned for basic common courtesy.
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Holy hell, the entire reason my girlfriend broke up with me actually. It's just who i am. It's how i feel needed and included is to just be nice, drive her places, hold her things, offer to pay, etc. She was too independent about that, "i can hold my own stuff", "I can take the bus", "you don't have to pay". I'm just trying to be nice, she found it annoying and eventually clingy.
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I am not one to really care but I do remember a time I held a door open for a girl in high school and she looked at me and said "uhh your not my type". Should of let the door slam in her face but I kind of just squinted like really that's your go to.
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no. That only seems to happen online.
In person, I don't hang out with guys who are thirsty enough to mistake my being friendly as an invitation to get between my legs. -
Yes. I am friendly and enjoy learning about other people, especially those who are interesting. Luckily, as I get older, I find people are less likely to interpret my behaviour as flirtation.
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Hayır böyle bir durum olursa o kişiyi incitmeden flört etme niyetimin olmadığını nasıl söyleyebilirim diye üzülür. Şefkatle yaklasırım nefretle değil. Bu da her erkek değil de erkek gibi erkekle kadınlar arasındaki fark olsa gerek.
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Unless it's a girl, I'm not flirting. I flirt with all girls, although I only do so jokingly unless it's my girlfriend.
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Duuudee yes I hate it so much. I have so many guy friends that think I'm flirting and I don't know how to get them to understand I don't like them like that
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Yes, I absolutely hate it. It's gotten me into an uncomfortable situation many times.
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I'm outgoing and genuinely nice. People get the wrong idea.
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I am very sympathetic and a huger... so needless to say.
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Too many times. I guess I gotta stick with my angry look xD
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Can't say I've ever had that happen. Although I assume it would annoy me
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YES YES YES
omg even my own friends think i'm purposely flirting
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The thing is, the "pretty" ones never misunderstand. Only the ones that actually need it.
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Yeah, it's annoying. I've been called a creep just for saying "good morning" to my female co-workers at the office. Jeez, just trying to be nice.
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Yes i hate when people mistake my kindness for flirting.
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Nah I'm safe.
I'm simply not kind to people who I wouldn't flirt with.
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