Is he interested or just being nice?

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So I work with this guy, and I can't tell if he's interested in me or is he's just being nice. I work in retail as a cashier and he's a merchandiser. We've only known each other for about 5 months. It seems like he always finds a reason to talk to me, like asking me where something might be when he's working on a check list or telling me about his new tattoo. He even asks me his opinion on his appearance, like how his hair looks or if it looks like he's gained muscle. I can't really explain it, but he's always smiling and he's even complimented me. Am I reading him wrong?

rozequarts · Accepted Answer

Okay, from what Im reading, he's definitely into you. Do you ever talk about things going on? New movies out? Or that new album? there's a perfect way to figure out for sure if he's into you, invite him to something that comes up in the conversation, lets say you went to walk your dog at the park the other day - tell him its a great park - you like nature - he should join you on your hiking trip this weekend. BOOM. If he's into you, he'll know how to transform the invitation into an eventual date.

pierrot11 · Accepted Answer

There's this dating counselor on YouTube called Matthew Hussey, who once said, "always assume a person likes you. If nothing, it'll always make you feel and look more confident, and that's always attractive". I'm paraphrasing here, but sounds like he could be both nice and flirting. So isn't it more fun to just assume he is into you?

Sara413 · Accepted Answer

He may be interested or he may just think you're a nice person and likes chatting with you. If you like him though you should say something! If he is interested then hooray, you'll get a date! If not, then you can just continue being friendly acquaintences :)

Paris13 · Accepted Answer

If he is Not asking you to Hang Out after Five, What is his Problem with Why? xx

JoeDavila · Accepted Answer

Fron what I hear I think he's into u. If he's making the effort of asking u how he looks and about his personal self he's into u. He looks at u constantly and finds ways to talk to u. The question is are u interested in getting to know him? He's definitely into u

Logorithim · Accepted Answer

What does his body language tell you?

He should be more focused on you rather than himself if he's interested in you and that is an awful long time to be interested and not try to get your contact info. What is your gut feeling?

CZLumen · Answer

You can safely assume most single guys talking to you are willing to take you to dinner.

Try to do something subtle like hand him a note saying, "HEY! ASK ME OUT!" It might be a little too subtle so you can try other things like talk about a place you want to eat at but need someone to ask you out.

A5KM3 · Answer

1-he is interested
2- he is lonley and insecure about his look
At first, one might assume that he likes you but giving it another though, it looks like he is trying to improve himself and wanting to see if he's doing a good job and it can be both that he is trying to improve himself for you

Fernie_17 · Answer

In my opinion he likes you. He is trying to find excuses on talking to you. They may seem small but guys are always cautious. We try our best to not come on "strong".

Besides, if I asked a girl on "How I look" it's a subtle way of me trying to figure out on how you view me. Depending on your responses I could either progress forward or stop. No guy would ask a girl a personal question if he didn't have an interest in her.

neurolove · Answer

if he asks your opinion on anything, he at the very least respects you so I'd say there is interest.

Analinda1999 · Answer

why nlt just ask him lout and out it to rest one way or the other :)

Titanic1912 · Answer

It's kinda hard to tell because he's asking about himself when he's complimenting you.

king34 · Answer

there's no such thing as nice when there's a penis envolved, he's tryna smash

Anonymous · Answer

Interested since he talks about non work related things

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't ask girl if I gained muscles or about hair style, maybe he is faggot

lampuiho · Answer

Just ask him directly.

Iamaguy4real · Answer

He playing you, move on

Anonymous · Answer

He's obsessed with you in a good way.

Ahmedkx · Answer

Talk to him before it's too late 😂

Anonymous · Answer

Interested for sure

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

Just being nice

CT_CD · Answer

Just being nice

Anonymous · Answer

Interested

Anonymous · Answer

Interested

Is he interested or just being nice?

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