💟What is one thing you love about yourself?

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TELL ME ONE THING YOU LOVE ABOUT YOURSELF AND WHY! TELL ME!




What I learned about Self-Hate?
(My life Story) Its mostly RANT! haha!


I didn’t even know I hated myself until about few years ago. In fact I was clueless and blame everything on my self and my bad luck. I lived my life believing if only I was funny or pretty or smart maybe people would be interested in at least engaging in a conversation.


What I learned was that self-hate started by negative thoughts each day. I became my own enemy never accepting a compliment from anyone especial from others. I saw people were better and successful at the game called life. I kept telling myself I am the not good enough and I can’t be as good.


How did I figure it out that I hate myself? When I became a witness of other people online/in real life like myself and when I heard story online of women from all parts of life stand up tall and proud about self esteem in video format, poetry, and even random stories I happen to google. I even watched about self-help and my eyes were open and open and all these ideas came to my head that I didn’t love myself that I was so cruel to myself. And it all sort of started making sense. I realize this on my own and even if someone told me I hate myself I would have doubt it.


Things I believe? Bullshit things about my body and my undeveloped personality…But when I saw confident women you know the type of women that have flaws noticeable ones that I tried everyday to hide…I was like wow. Wow! I was stuck in the mentality of how people see me that I forgot how I saw myself. Silly I know in fact its embarrassing that I was so shallow and only thinking of myself.


I wanted to be the best at the everything and i thought negativity would push me to be better! I was WRONG! Negativity only brought me more and more pain. One of the video I believe said to me, whats the point of beating yourself up and down talking? Take action! You feel like a loser because you can’t get a gf? Take action…! You want friends go find them! Set a realistic plan! Negativity never helped anyone! It never helped me and it won’t help you for the long run!


Am I cured from self hate? NO! I AM A HUMAN! I still struggle. I sometime go back to negativity. I try to stop myself and try to think reasonable!


Warning sign that you could possible hate yourself?


1) You refuse honestly deep down any complement from others and even your self!


2) You are constantly stressed like crazy and the only way you do things is if you say negative things like come on don’t be a wussy grow the fuck up!


3) You judge every choices you make. You critic yourself in a way you would never want the world to hear. If you can’t say out loud all the negative thing out loud thats a warning sign that you don’t love you.


SOLUTION! YOU WANT A solution FOR SELF HATE? No SUCH SIMPLE ANSWER!


Look in the mirror everyday and I DARE you to look at that person and that reflection for an hour or two! Look at what that person does for you. You exist for YOU! This reflection will forever follow you will always be there when you feel alone. You got be your own lover! You got learn that your valuable that you are important to you. Live your life the way you want live it.


Also, try to form the habit of stopping negative thoughts. You say oh I am ugly!


STOP!!


THINK!!


Say something positive like I have unique features that most people don’t have and the media has not seen.


Make it a habit and repeat!


Self Love is important because it makes you a better person. It makes you feel good about yourself and it makes you confident. People love confident postive people not sad sally crying about a jimmy john haha! When you realized that you are just as important and have the same potenital as anyone else its an amazing feeling of self worth!


Wish me lucky guys on my the never ending journey of self-love thank you! I bet I missed a few things but eh!? I wrote this at late- late at night…I doubt anyone will read this rant but hahaha! Thanks if you do! #dontjudgetheapple 🍎

💟What is one thing you love about yourself?
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