Kill Them With Kindness! ;)

[PeachSunset]

Have you ever heard the saying "Take the high road" or "Kill them with kindness"? Because it applies to life pretty damn well.

Lets say you get into a fight, whether it be online or in real life. They insult you, of course. But how are you going to handle it? Most people actually fight back adding fuel to the fire. Humans are sensitive and hot headed and if someone insults us its almost instict to do the same back. But whether we're actually looking to hurt them or not, killing them with kindness, as the saying goes, is the best thing you can do. Not only it cools the whole situation but you become the higher one, and its the best reward you can get from an argument. Not only that, but chances are the other person is going to see how stupidly foolish they look and they're going to try even harder to tick you off, and you'll win the battle, but its not about winning the battle. Its about not falling from grace. No war and anger was ever won.

I got into an online fight on Skype a while back, a friend I had on there added me to a group chat and they were joking about rape and I said "Come on guys, rape isn't funny at all.." and then they got pissed and told their friend (who was also my friend), she messaged me in our own chat saying "You don't like my friends" and I said "No, I just don't like their sense of humor", well she said "Oh lol" I got added to the call and I declined although I kept being added so finally I accepted. It was normal until someone made a rape joke again and my cough "friend" started laughing. So I realized they were trying to tick me off. It got so bad because I argued back to ther insults like "You sound like a little girl" "fuck you", etc that they told me they hoped my mom and I would get gang raped. And they kept saying it. I let it get that bad and it even got worse. So arguing back will only make things worse and the only way to be the champion is to keep a cool head and chill, be the better one.

So come on guys... keep a cool head.

If you got my Selena Gomez references. Psht.

[Phoenix98]

Lol saw this meme on my way to answer this and couldn't resist not posting it.

jokideo.com/.../...ould-kill-you-with-kindness.png

weknowmemes.com/.../kill-people-with-kindness.jpg

Good take.

[PeachSunset]

lmao the first one is so sassy
and thanks

[Phoenix98]

Lol yeah I thought they were pretty funny.

[Valentinasab]

I so agree with your point. Don't ever stoop down to another person's level when they are trying to provoke you or get a reaction out of you. As you said, kill em with kindness 😉

[PeachSunset]

Glad you agree! You probably worded it better than me 😂

[Anonymous]

That's my approach to a lot of things.

If someone's a dick to you, don't attack them when you get the chance. When they fall down, don't laugh, pick them up. That surprises people more than anything.

When onbe of my exes left me for another guy, we met up to basically say goodbye and I turned up and wished her luck and said I hope she is happy in future. She started crying and hugging me.

I could have gone there angry, but that would have just justified her reasons. Now maybe she thinks she threw away a decent guy and that's how I want to be viewed, so that's why I subscribe to this.

Great take.

[PeachSunset]

Thank you and great choices! You always want to set up a great everlasting impression for yourself, whether its your last time seeing that person or only the first in several, whether its an enemy or your closest friend, so I completely agree with your actions.

[ZionOrtov]

According to the spectrum of morality, it's a dualistic linear bend aka a wave.

So yes, taking the high road and or killing them with kindness are always positive options that instate you on a higher level.

Authority is required in order to obtain and maintain those who disobey the moral curve.

[Zombie-Killa]

I take the middle road.

https://i68.tinypic.com/10pu9gx.jpg

:P :P :P :P

[PeachSunset]

Smart choice? xD

[Zombie-Killa]

I just love that gif, So any chance to use it lol

[PeachSunset]

I love it too but isn't it from a parody comedy movie😂 i feel like i've seen it

[Zombie-Killa]

Yeah it is, Trying to remember which one. Don't think its disaster movie, But who knows?

[IceEverest]

Someone blocked me today. I apologized. It didn't work at all...

[PeachSunset]

aww :'c

[orphan]

Bury them with a smile.

[PeachSunset]

heheheh yass

[orphan]

one of my favorite quotes.