I Swear Some Of You Ladies Are The Biggest Trolls. Why Actively Turn Confusion Into Hate On GAG... Seriously, What's The Point?

[Anonymous]

When a guy asks a question. Why reply saying he's whining. So what if he is, we don't ask questions because we've got it all figured out and we're all happy about everything. I get if someone's question is actively hostile but if someone asks a "why don't nice guys get laid" question for instance why poke at that guy? Why call his entire being into question defame him, belittle him an make him feel even more like shit HOW IN THE HELL IS THAT GOING TO IMPROVE ANYTHING!?

Literally this is so prevalent that I kind if have to think there's a function at play here because even the smartest women do this. It's like they just add fuel to the fire. Knowing men aren't encouraged to be insecure and knowing that they aren't supposed to seek understanding they still belittle these misguided yet well intentioned men. Yes I would say anyone seeking understanding is well intentioned to a point.

I just can't see what taking a frustrated guy and poking at him until he actually turns sadness and frustration into outright hostility accomplishes. Are you trying to build rapist and murderers? The hell is the matter with you people. It's fucking cyber bullying and it's okay because men are supposed to be tough... but your picking on the ones who clearly aren't and just solidifying their confusion into firm mysogyny. All mysogyny is based on the idea that women are illogical and cannot be reasoned with. Why the hell do women actively help this process along. Either help the guy out or ignore em.

[Spiorad_Aisce]

I tend to stay away from the dating/relationship areas on GaG so I have a feeling I miss a lot of the drama here as I must admit I haven't experienced much of this syndrome on GaG but that said I have heard about it a lot so I am sure it does exist.
Can I widen it out to all areas on GaG and paraphrase your last sentence "Either help the person or ignore them" - What can be gained by abusing or negatively criticising the person, if you can't help or positively criticise the person then skip on to another question.

[Anonymous]

Yes, cyber bullying, I agree. But also there's bully boys on here too, one is no different than the other. Gag is changing for the worse.

[CasaNorba]

bro why are you surprised?

for a quite a while now women have had this psychology that we men have it all easy in life compared to them. they believe that we are shackling them to the ground like slaves so I'm guessing that whenever we express our struggles in life they interpret it as us being "weak" and as their window of opportunity to attack us and "avenge" the female race

[Anonymous]

Agreed. Most of the time it's better to just ignore these people if it angers or bothers you...