Why Women Should Be Choosy (Page 2)

[Raymond_Reddington]

this is the most shallow take i have ever read.
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[NatashaJ]

I like to point out she didn't even bring up about looks she just said "its ok to be be choosey when dating". I agree with her its ok to be choosey in certain degrees.

[JohnDoe3000]

Why men should be choosy:

1) Some women are not mature enough.

2) Men usually get screwed in family court.

3) Women ultimately choose whether there's going to be a child or not.

4) Men become more attraactive when they are choosy.

[JohnDoe3000]

My point is this: there's a 50/50 ratio of men and women in the world so it's impossible for all women to be choosy and not end up alone. Plus there are plenty of women who themselves aren't dating material or fit to be parents.

[popsickle]

I don't really think it's about "should be choosy," but it's more like accepting women are probably overall more cautious about more factors and part of that is because of biology and social realities. Both sexes should be cautious when committing.

[idiotmanchild]

I agree women should be choosy, but it seems like they are more choosy about looks/height than any other quality that actually matter for an enduring relationship like personality, kindness, emotional security, and income security.

[BubbleBoy69]

Women consider kindness as weakness.

[anonman32]

I think it can be good for a woman to be choosy, but consider this. If you are choosy it would be a good thing to regularly check if you are not being indecisive. there's a fine line between being choosy and not being able to decide.

[Weirdstuff]

Shouldn't you have high standards for your life partner regarless of your own gender? Guys have the right to be picky too you know :D

[thorthorley]

Umm not sure about all your reasoning, but both men and women should be choosy if they want to be. Im a choosy guy and thats just me and i dont blame any woman for being choosy either.

[Anonymous]

I dont think there is anything wrong with a woman wanting a mature, financially stable, educated guy that takes care of herself.

It when they say stuff like he need to be 6'2, muscular, and look like brad pitt, that I dont get.

[tyber1]

I'd argue that the problem isn't that women are choosy, it's that they are choosy over stupid things.

[Anonymous]

Women are already choosy. It's guys who need to be more choosy and put up with less just because they find the girl physically attractive.

[ColinHarvey]

Men should be WAY more choosy too.

Money is money but not all pussy is created equal.

Nothing like seeing a wallflower age passed her fertility in a deadend career and then bitch about not getting pregnant.

[sr1307]

Also there's the simple fact that you get better men when you're choosy but these are all good points too XD

[Accipiter]

I've been choosy only to regret the fact that I'd could have been with a very awesome girl if I wasn't so superficial.

[John_Doesnt]

Some of the hottest women are total sluts. Being choosy doesn't make you more attractive at all.

[adrianalima0]

That's because
1. They're nymphomaniacs
2. They don't know they're hot
3. They have psychological issues or traumas

[adrianalima0]

+ 4. low self esteem

[John_Doesnt]

@adrianalima0 and what scientific evidence are you basing any of that on? Have you met any of these super hot, slutty chicks?

[adrianalima0]

Yes I have.
As a woman I'm providing some of the reasons why ANY woman would be promiscuous. Those are the main ones and they apply to both not pretty women and hot ones alike.

Another one would be 5. They know they're hot and having tons of partners boosts their ego for some reason.
You don't have to be a genius to figure out why people sleep around.

[John_Doesnt]

@adrianalima0 you DO have to be a genius to figure out why people actually sleep around. What you're providing is your own opinion of logic. It is not scientific evidence of anything except your narrow view point of women who sleep around.
As for science: the human species, nay all species, have been biologically programmed to reproduce as much as possible with the superior mate. A hot chick sleeping around is simply doing what nature programmed her, and men, to do.

[adrianalima0]

NEWSFLASH: people, especially women don't always base their decisions based on rational thoughts. Science can't explain why a stunning women would want to mate with a fugly man since your biology would want you to mate with an attractive person NOT ruin your genetics with an ugly man. People do things for many different personal reasons and I'm thinking of the different reasons why women do. I'm a woman and I know how a good majority of women think just like you know how men see things generally.
Science can't really explain why a 56 year old man would want to dress and identify like a 6 year old girl so we just say he's fucking batshit and call it a day.

[John_Doesnt]

@adrianalima0 you're right, that decision is not based on rational decision or thought. But just because you don't understand science doesn't mean you can refute it.

[adrianalima0]

Lol @ I can't understand science.
Sexist much?

[Papier]

Yes, women should pick men they like I agree. Haha.

Uh, or is that called choosy. I'm not sure anymore.

[mrsingle]

Men are just like sperm, there are thousands but only the lucky few get the girl. The rest die without any purpose.

[Anonymous]

here's one reason why men should be choosy:
Men age very well. We're still valuble as potential partners up to and including our 50s. Women, however, mostly rely on their looks but guess what; women lose their looks from 18 onwards.

[Anonymous]

Sure, women can be choosy until they become old, wrinkly, less attractive, and infertile, and then - no man would choose them (except maybe some desperate old drunk).

[wxyc423]

Men are usually the choosy ones.. There are more females than males... its really hard for woman to be choosy in my opinion

[Anonymous]

Funny how many women are choosy TOWARDS the kind of guys in point #1!