How about being a super hairy man? at least you women dont suffer from animalistic body and faial hair growth , you dont go bald on head. Ever imgined how lucky you all are , naturally minimal hairy skin... imaghine being animal hairy body.
@mermaidrocketship wouldn't you rather be a woman with naturally least hairy skin and nice curves , periods and all as well , than being a super hairy man , without peiors "pain"? i guess you would better be a woman with periods than being a super hairy gorilla man. And in general as well male is too hairy and bald headed thn a woman.
Actually, some women do suffer from testosterone issues. And society says that women are not supposed be hairy, they have to shave that everyday while if a man doesn't feel like shaving it's not a big deal because it's okay for men to be hairy. So she has to deal with being abnormally hairy AND a period. What's were you saying again?
@angelmarkley @angelmarkley even if a woman is "hairy" she is still under control hairy on certain places only and doesn't resmele a gorilla when naked. She feels ok , even if society doesn't even accept fine fuzz , she isn't under mental torture by seeing her own self naked. While even if society "accepts" a gorilla man , he is having mental pain , loneliness and hates seeing his onw naked gorilla hairy body. Would you lke to see yourself naked and being repulsed by the gorilla hair? nah
It's the hair guy. I really hate balding as well and If you have to shave or even wax :( for your partner which id probly still do then thats time consuming but it's a different issue. It's this looks bad and it takes effort or if you go for surgery a lot of money and for a time pain to make it look good not it feels like i just broken a rib and i don't get a choice about it. We're not dealing with it while where at work unless your workplace compels you to go in topless and have the managers wax you while you work? Which would suck but probly isn't all that common.
At least it's socially accepted for guys to be hairy. Try being a super hairy WOMAN. Nobody cares if guys have body hair, except apparently you. It's not exactly the same thing as being in debilitating pain for a quarter of the year.
Also, I can't undergo a topical, relatively painless procedure to get rid of the hair temporarily, or elect to undergo a slightly painful procedure to get rid of the hair for longer
@samhradh_leannan even if you are a so called "super hairy woman" you still don't resemble a gorilla when naked. You still don't hate to look at your own naked body because all you see is animal fir laden skin. You still have less hair than an average hairy male. You still have almost bare torso, thighs shoulders and all such things. You still don't have beards that if left to grow natural then they get so thick and long as if it's trying to engulf you. Your pubes are still not so so coarse and long as it is for a super hairy man. Being a super hairy man is a emotional and mental pain which you go for life. You even get lonely and sexually frustrated because you came get love women and sex. It just adds to the mental and emotional pain of a super hairy man. You can't wear normal fashionable dresses such as half sleeves Shirt/ tank tops, shorts , you have fur Peeping out of top shirt button. at least as a woman you don't have such things.
@FallOutBoy2001 yeah, true. Same applies to a super hairy man. He can't get rid of his fur painlessly and even then he has stubbly prickly itchy regrowth all over his body
I don't think you're understanding what I'm saying. That's how a hairy woman feels. She isn 't supposed to have hair at all so even she does... She feels like a gorilla. It may not look that bad to anyone else but it's more than what she is supposed to have and then that makes her feel like a 'gorilla'.
@angelmarkley that's the difference. She just " feels " like a gorilla and isn't actually that bad in terms of hair. But a super hairy man actually looks bad and gorilla hairy man. Getting it na?
@Goldie757 see she is having alopecia totalis, that's why she is bald on head. at least she has nice bald hairless body as well. While men have HAIRY body but bald head EW
Ok buddy. Let's go back to square one. In society, women have to have just the right amount of hair. Too much and they get made fun of for looking like men, too little and you're a freak. Men do not. Maybe YOU care, but society typically does not. If it bothers YOU too much, shave, wax, or save up and get laser hair removal
@FallOutBoy2001 Madam, inwhich society does a woman who has " too little body hair" is made fun of and called a freak? The smoother a woman / man the sexier and more nice / desirable he is. Isn't it in your society madam? Infact it's men who should have somewhat hairy legs and arms otherwise if they are very very hairy then they are gorilla and sexually repulsive and if too less or shaved smooth then they are gay. Men always loose unless they are naturally average hairy
It's a lot more socially unacceptable for a woman to be "almost a gorilla" than it is for a man to be "actually a gorilla". Sorry, but that's just reality here. Please stop envying women for our supposed perfect smoothness. Few women are so lucky- and the expectation that all of us are makes like exponentially more difficult for the rest of us. If you're a dude you have an excuse for being hairy. Period. You don't get to have this one. Sorry.
If it really affects you there are solutions to thick back hair in fact i just looked it up "The average cost per treatment session is around £170 - £250 for your whole back" and its going to be much cheaper in places like Turkey with their low labor rates and cost of liveing.
@sedrftvgyhujik You don't have to let us know the prices. It cost that much to get a bikini wax or to get our legs waxed or our underarms. We know far too well the price. Not to mention we have PERIODS, which is what this whole thing was about. SO on top of paying that much for hair removal, we pay hundreds of dollars for sanitary napkins and things for our menstrual.
@angelmarkley you get your face waxed daily and still end up having poky stubble face? You need to shave it wax your chest and stomach and sometimes your back or else it looks like a gorilla? Your genitals sag and are hairy sensitive and ugly like a male has? You have bald head? Ugh , don't tell me. It's way better being a woman
Though if it costs that much to get waxed or self wax then laser hair removal might be able to save you a lot of money pain and time on waxing in the long run?
@sedrftvgyhujik It's not about options. All the available options are expensive and imperfect but yes, they are ultimately options. However that doesn't eliminate the real issue at hand. Tons of women have visible, noticeable body hair and it's really frustrating to be told that I should have blonde angel's down on my legs just because I'm a girl. That's simply not how it works. The OP's idea of normal female body hair is actually probably what only a tiny minority of women actually have. Most women are hairier than what he's talking about. And some are even hairier than most. So if you're going to be jealous of women for something, at least make sure it's something real, okay?
@samhradh_leannan majority of women have naturally smooth skin on most of the body. The only so called hair women and even you have is lower legs apart from pits and groin, and it sucks so bad for you to just shave the lower legs and you don't sympathize with men who need to shave whole body And face? Come on madam
@FallOutBoy2001 hardly any visible body hair, ugh? All I ever see some fineeeee small hair is on woman's lower part of Lower legs and some Ver very fine forearm fuzz. That's it. Stop exaggeration about female body hair please
I've got coarse body hair on my legs, pubic area, and armpits, and finer, but still visible arm hair. I'm not the minority. Any other women want to chime in with natural body hair stories?
Females disliking this comment like it's stupid. Its actually helpfully know when your on your period so we dont escalate situations that are not nessisary
@KINGNIGGA123 Yeah I let my boyfriend know (more because I can't help but complain about the pain) but there is a difference between letting them know so they can be nice and not escalate situations, and just outright avoiding a girl because of her period. If a guy has to avoid me for a week every month then that just shows how immature he is. The words "avoid you until it's over" is why it's getting disliked. This just feels like guys think we turn into a monster once a month and this lack of understanding is exactly what the whole point of the post was about.
Exactly. I'm not interested in hearing constant complaints and moody behavior and irrational thinking. You know how women like to tell men to man up whenever we're dealing with struggles ourselves? I don't see how the same shouldn't apply to women.
You know a period is coming yet you all never brace for the pain.
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Every period is different, just as every woman is different. For some women, they have really bad periods all the time, for some they may have a couple bad days, some may have a couple bad periods, but the rest are easy throughout the year. It just depends. You can't really prepare for something that is random in nature. And beyond that, what would bracing for the pain even do exactly? It's not as if, if you brace for it, you're not going to feel it!
You don't even have to imagine a girl on her period, but put yourself in the shoes of someone dealing with Cancer pain. They know tomorrow the pain might be the same exact or worse, but it still hurts and you still have to deal with it whilst still trying to live a day. If you're a guy, when you're pissed or tired or bored, you don't then additionally have to deal with cramps and pain and vomitting once a week. You just don't, so its kind of harsh to be like, well, deal with the pain when you have no idea what it feels like, nor do you have to deal with it yourself whilst also trying to manage your life 3 months out of every year.
@KINGNIGGA123 I wouldn't make that promise. Probably for the majority of girls, you're right, their cramps are not as bad as getting kicked in the balls. But some girls experience truly debilitating pain from cramping, especially if they deal with additional problems such as endometriosis. Pain can be really, really extreme in those cases. And I'm lucky that my period cramps aren't quite on that level, but I do experience pain from ovarian cysts, and that can have me doubled up, unable to move, nauseous and feverish and in tears because the pain is so debilitating. Menstrual pain can at times be on the level of a serious injury. Obviously we can't make a real comparison when neither of us will ever have both experiences, so let's not turn it into a competition. Pain is pain and it's not fun for anyone.
also, as she said, you aren't getting kicked in the balls for 5 days straight once a month.
For me, it's fairly mild. I feel, for lack of a better comparison, like someone is fucking me with a chopstick. It's like a dull stabbing pain, but for other girls I've watched them vomit from the pain.
Every period is different... that's what makes it horrible. One cycle, I don't have any cramps and it last for only five days. Another cycle, I have cramps so bad that my body goes into shock and my legs become numb.
I mean, you know the pain is coming but the level of pain and experience differs from period to period. I can steel myself for it all i want but if I feel like I'm being stabbed in the gut "preparing" for the pain isn't going to make it feel any better
@samhradh_leannan. ok I hear ha... and men also experience all of that when contact to the holy grail is made. I had pain that last era for 40 min. And the pain spreader up to my stomach and I felt like puking and I had nausia
@KINGNIGGA123 can we compromise and both complain? Because I'm not not going to complain when I'm lying on the floor because I feel like I'm being fucked with a chopstick
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They can be incredibly painful. It sounds like an overreaction until you experience it yourself
I am available to ease the period pain of a worthy girl (friend). I haven't served anyone yet.
i haven't experienced this, of course, however, i do know what it's like to have cramps, trust me
Cramps are the worst. Well I'd rather have cramps then nausea honestly. I hate nausea
i dk whats worse, nausea's pretty bad
Nausea in my opinion. But I have a crazy high pain tolerance. For some reason the feeling of needing to puke is torture for me
i have a high pain tolerance too. nausea and the feeling of puking is torture to me too
How about being a super hairy man? at least you women dont suffer from animalistic body and faial hair growth , you dont go bald on head. Ever imgined how lucky you all are , naturally minimal hairy skin... imaghine being animal hairy body.
And what does that have to do with anything she just said?
@mermaidrocketship wouldn't you rather be a woman with naturally least hairy skin and nice curves , periods and all as well , than being a super hairy man , without peiors "pain"? i guess you would better be a woman with periods than being a super hairy gorilla man. And in general as well male is too hairy and bald headed thn a woman.
Actually, some women do suffer from testosterone issues. And society says that women are not supposed be hairy, they have to shave that everyday while if a man doesn't feel like shaving it's not a big deal because it's okay for men to be hairy. So she has to deal with being abnormally hairy AND a period. What's were you saying again?
@angelmarkley @angelmarkley even if a woman is "hairy" she is still under control hairy on certain places only and doesn't resmele a gorilla when naked. She feels ok , even if society doesn't even accept fine fuzz , she isn't under mental torture by seeing her own self naked. While even if society "accepts" a gorilla man , he is having mental pain , loneliness and hates seeing his onw naked gorilla hairy body. Would you lke to see yourself naked and being repulsed by the gorilla hair? nah
It's the hair guy.
I really hate balding as well and If you have to shave or even wax :( for your partner which id probly still do then thats time consuming
but it's a different issue. It's this looks bad and it takes effort or if you go for surgery a lot of money and for a time pain to make it look good not it feels like i just broken a rib and i don't get a choice about it.
We're not dealing with it while where at work unless your workplace compels you to go in topless and have the managers wax you while you work? Which would suck but probly isn't all that common.
At least it's socially accepted for guys to be hairy. Try being a super hairy WOMAN. Nobody cares if guys have body hair, except apparently you. It's not exactly the same thing as being in debilitating pain for a quarter of the year.
Also, I can't undergo a topical, relatively painless procedure to get rid of the hair temporarily, or elect to undergo a slightly painful procedure to get rid of the hair for longer
@samhradh_leannan even if you are a so called "super hairy woman" you still don't resemble a gorilla when naked. You still don't hate to look at your own naked body because all you see is animal fir laden skin. You still have less hair than an average hairy male. You still have almost bare torso, thighs shoulders and all such things. You still don't have beards that if left to grow natural then they get so thick and long as if it's trying to engulf you. Your pubes are still not so so coarse and long as it is for a super hairy man.
Being a super hairy man is a emotional and mental pain which you go for life. You even get lonely and sexually frustrated because you came get love women and sex. It just adds to the mental and emotional pain of a super hairy man. You can't wear normal fashionable dresses such as half sleeves Shirt/ tank tops, shorts , you have fur Peeping out of top shirt button. at least as a woman you don't have such things.
@FallOutBoy2001 yeah, true. Same applies to a super hairy man. He can't get rid of his fur painlessly and even then he has stubbly prickly itchy regrowth all over his body
I don't think you're understanding what I'm saying. That's how a hairy woman feels. She isn 't supposed to have hair at all so even she does... She feels like a gorilla. It may not look that bad to anyone else but it's more than what she is supposed to have and then that makes her feel like a 'gorilla'.
@angelmarkley that's the difference. She just " feels " like a gorilla and isn't actually that bad in terms of hair. But a super hairy man actually looks bad and gorilla hairy man. Getting it na?
"you dont go bald on head". Try telling that to a woman with alopecia.
@Goldie757 I am yet to see a bald head woman
That's because they wear really good wigs.
@Goldie757
Not true
For one my sister is bald and no one has idea that she is wearing a wig.
@Goldie757 thin hair or pure smooth bald like men are?
Not a single hair on her head.
@Goldie757 how old is she , is she having alopecia totalis as in bald everywhere?
Yes
38.
@Goldie757 see she is having alopecia totalis, that's why she is bald on head. at least she has nice bald hairless body as well. While men have HAIRY body but bald head EW
Ok buddy. Let's go back to square one. In society, women have to have just the right amount of hair. Too much and they get made fun of for looking like men, too little and you're a freak. Men do not. Maybe YOU care, but society typically does not. If it bothers YOU too much, shave, wax, or save up and get laser hair removal
@FallOutBoy2001 Madam, inwhich society does a woman who has " too little body hair" is made fun of and called a freak? The smoother a woman / man the sexier and more nice / desirable he is. Isn't it in your society madam?
Infact it's men who should have somewhat hairy legs and arms otherwise if they are very very hairy then they are gorilla and sexually repulsive and if too less or shaved smooth then they are gay. Men always loose unless they are naturally average hairy
It's a lot more socially unacceptable for a woman to be "almost a gorilla" than it is for a man to be "actually a gorilla". Sorry, but that's just reality here. Please stop envying women for our supposed perfect smoothness. Few women are so lucky- and the expectation that all of us are makes like exponentially more difficult for the rest of us. If you're a dude you have an excuse for being hairy. Period. You don't get to have this one. Sorry.
If it really affects you there are solutions to thick back hair in fact i just looked it up "The average cost per treatment session is around £170 - £250 for your whole back"
and its going to be much cheaper in places like Turkey with their low labor rates and cost of liveing.
@sedrftvgyhujik You don't have to let us know the prices. It cost that much to get a bikini wax or to get our legs waxed or our underarms. We know far too well the price. Not to mention we have PERIODS, which is what this whole thing was about. SO on top of paying that much for hair removal, we pay hundreds of dollars for sanitary napkins and things for our menstrual.
@angelmarkley you get your face waxed daily and still end up having poky stubble face? You need to shave it wax your chest and stomach and sometimes your back or else it looks like a gorilla? Your genitals sag and are hairy sensitive and ugly like a male has? You have bald head?
Ugh , don't tell me. It's way better being a woman
@angelmarkley Um I was saying to the hair guy / the opinion owner not you.
Though if it costs that much to get waxed or self wax then laser hair removal might be able to save you a lot of money pain and time on waxing in the long run?
@sedrftvgyhujik It's not about options. All the available options are expensive and imperfect but yes, they are ultimately options. However that doesn't eliminate the real issue at hand. Tons of women have visible, noticeable body hair and it's really frustrating to be told that I should have blonde angel's down on my legs just because I'm a girl. That's simply not how it works. The OP's idea of normal female body hair is actually probably what only a tiny minority of women actually have. Most women are hairier than what he's talking about. And some are even hairier than most. So if you're going to be jealous of women for something, at least make sure it's something real, okay?
@samhradh_leannan
I know I'm not jealous?
@sedrftvgyhujik Talking to the OP with that part
@samhradh_leannan Ok no problem.
@samhradh_leannan majority of women have naturally smooth skin on most of the body. The only so called hair women and even you have is lower legs apart from pits and groin, and it sucks so bad for you to just shave the lower legs and you don't sympathize with men who need to shave whole body And face? Come on madam
Um, no we don't. We shave it. Almost every women has WAY more hair that you seem to think we do
@FallOutBoy2001 hardly any visible body hair, ugh?
All I ever see some fineeeee small hair is on woman's lower part of Lower legs and some Ver very fine forearm fuzz. That's it. Stop exaggeration about female body hair please
I've got coarse body hair on my legs, pubic area, and armpits, and finer, but still visible arm hair. I'm not the minority. Any other women want to chime in with natural body hair stories?
I also, for some weird reason, have a fine mustache and hair on my stomach
@FallOutBoy2001 still you would be way less hairy than an average man, and still you feel you are hairy, imagine being excessive hairy man!!
I don't think you get the point. Excessively hairy men have it exponentially better than a slightly hairier that's average woman
Let guys know you're on your period so we can avoid you until it's over.
Females disliking this comment like it's stupid. Its actually helpfully know when your on your period so we dont escalate situations that are not nessisary
@KINGNIGGA123 Yeah I let my boyfriend know (more because I can't help but complain about the pain) but there is a difference between letting them know so they can be nice and not escalate situations, and just outright avoiding a girl because of her period. If a guy has to avoid me for a week every month then that just shows how immature he is. The words "avoid you until it's over" is why it's getting disliked. This just feels like guys think we turn into a monster once a month and this lack of understanding is exactly what the whole point of the post was about.
@SarahD094 avoid shhouldnt be used. but women turn into real bitches hen they are on their periods.
Exactly. I'm not interested in hearing constant complaints and moody behavior and irrational thinking. You know how women like to tell men to man up whenever we're dealing with struggles ourselves? I don't see how the same shouldn't apply to women.
You know a period is coming yet you all never brace for the pain.
Every period is different, just as every woman is different. For some women, they have really bad periods all the time, for some they may have a couple bad days, some may have a couple bad periods, but the rest are easy throughout the year. It just depends. You can't really prepare for something that is random in nature. And beyond that, what would bracing for the pain even do exactly? It's not as if, if you brace for it, you're not going to feel it!
I know but everytime a girl has a period she acts like it's her first period
You don't even have to imagine a girl on her period, but put yourself in the shoes of someone dealing with Cancer pain. They know tomorrow the pain might be the same exact or worse, but it still hurts and you still have to deal with it whilst still trying to live a day. If you're a guy, when you're pissed or tired or bored, you don't then additionally have to deal with cramps and pain and vomitting once a week. You just don't, so its kind of harsh to be like, well, deal with the pain when you have no idea what it feels like, nor do you have to deal with it yourself whilst also trying to manage your life 3 months out of every year.
Well I promise you getting kicked in the balls is worse than cramps. And why it do women always guilt trip men there days.
@KINGNIGGA123 I wouldn't make that promise. Probably for the majority of girls, you're right, their cramps are not as bad as getting kicked in the balls. But some girls experience truly debilitating pain from cramping, especially if they deal with additional problems such as endometriosis. Pain can be really, really extreme in those cases. And I'm lucky that my period cramps aren't quite on that level, but I do experience pain from ovarian cysts, and that can have me doubled up, unable to move, nauseous and feverish and in tears because the pain is so debilitating. Menstrual pain can at times be on the level of a serious injury. Obviously we can't make a real comparison when neither of us will ever have both experiences, so let's not turn it into a competition. Pain is pain and it's not fun for anyone.
@samhradh_leannan yeah and getting kicked in the balls is the first thing a girl does to you when she wants to inflict pain on you
Only if she's horrible.
Or in legitimate self defense.
also, as she said, you aren't getting kicked in the balls for 5 days straight once a month.
For me, it's fairly mild. I feel, for lack of a better comparison, like someone is fucking me with a chopstick. It's like a dull stabbing pain, but for other girls I've watched them vomit from the pain.
@FallOutBoy2001 but still you know it's coming. And it won't stop until you're in your 50s so why do girls always act like it's their first period?
Every period is different... that's what makes it horrible.
One cycle, I don't have any cramps and it last for only five days. Another cycle, I have cramps so bad that my body goes into shock and my legs become numb.
I mean, you know the pain is coming but the level of pain and experience differs from period to period. I can steel myself for it all i want but if I feel like I'm being stabbed in the gut "preparing" for the pain isn't going to make it feel any better
What good does bracing for it do? It's still gonna hurt.
@samhradh_leannan. ok I hear ha... and men also experience all of that when contact to the holy grail is made. I had pain that last era for 40 min. And the pain spreader up to my stomach and I felt like puking and I had nausia
@KINGNIGGA123 ouch. Seriously you'd think the human body would have evolved not to cause both genders excruciating pain because of their genitals
@FallOutBoy2001 yes so I want women to stop complaining as well if both of us genders both receive pain
@KINGNIGGA123 can we compromise and both complain? Because I'm not not going to complain when I'm lying on the floor because I feel like I'm being fucked with a chopstick
@FallOutBoy2001 honestly I couldn't care less
Awesome take. you got my upvote
I have pmdd search it up I have all this way worse
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