How To Prevent Falling Out Of Love

[LoveLust]

I'm pretty sure that all of us have fallen out of love with someone. Sometimes you might not even know why you fell out of love, or in love in the first place. It's a pretty common thing. We all go through it one time or another. Here's a few ways to prevent it from happening:

1. Be yourself from the very beginning

If you try to be someone you want to be then when you turn back into "the real you," your partner won't love "you" anymore. They will love the person you WERE. If you both don't act like yourself from the very start then do you really know the person you're dating?

2. Don't get clingy

I know some of you are clingy from time to time, but this is for the one's who don't even realize it. Your partner will understand if you need a shoulder to cry on or someone to talk to when you're not feeling your best. Have boys' night or a girls' night out. Do keep your life outside of your relationship and the relationship all at once. Tell your partner if he/she is becoming too clingy!



3. Stay true to yourself

If you're falling out of love, tell your partner that you are. Try to fix the problem before your relationship fades into nothing. It's worth doing. Also, if you're the one who's falling out of love and your partner isn't, then you should definitely mention it to him/her!

4. Don't let it become boring

Another HUGE reason for falling out of love is when your relationship becomes boring. My advice: spice it up a bit! Do something new and exciting. Go to a wild party with your partner and dance like crazy, or go on a romantic boat ride. Or even something simpler like go for a nature walk with your partner. You should do something to shake it up a bit every-so-often.

5. Communication

I know you've all heart the saying: "communication is the key!" But, it is true. Without communication: there can't be a relationship. You'll clash heads with your partner left and right. You should let your partner know if something is wrong before it comes between you two. Even if you're a reserved person, you should tell them if something is wrong. If not, it will get in the way. A lot of the time communication is the down-fall in a relationship. Without it, your relationship will crumble.

[HandsomeRaj]

Beautiful article, well thought of and well worded :)

I however always have and will believed in this philosophy - There Is No Past Tense In Loving Someone. . . It's Either You Always Will Or You Never Did

But this article is a good mind and eye opener :)

[dominiquerjones2]

My relationship is boring and I brought it to my man's attention, but it seems like it's going over his head.

[DrumNB4ssDubst3p]

uhh, the very title of this shows that you are naive

you can't prevent "falling out of love". You are either gonna like someones company or you wont. People that try to force themselves to stay together despite being unhappy are f***ing morons..

[halneedshelphere]

Number three is easier said than done, in my opinion. If I said that to my boyfriend, he would automatically think I wanted to end the relationship entirely...

[toulouse]

if you fall out you fall out. then you move o. that's life. relationships are transient. subject and conditioned by time and space.