Response: Why girls have lingerie parties?

[JananiiSrii]

Cosplay, lingerie, and drinks. Where are the boys?

My first ever myTake is here! So there's this question that's quite popular today by @chris_987 and I wanted to answer this separately, because honestly this isn't the first time I'm hearing this.

The question is: Why would girls have lingerie parties where only females are invited?

I doubt the guy will feel comfortable, and neither will we.

There's going to be a tremendous amount of girl talk about makeup, beauty gurus, fashion, boys, lingerie, tips on how to impress your boyfriend or crush, yada yada. So unless you're a gay guy, I doubt you'll find all that interesting. Also, lingerie parties are meant to be private with no guys, because many have boyfriends and don't want another dude creeping or hitting on us.

It's about bonding and building confidence.

Lingerie is about feeling sexy, just as muscles and beards are for guys. If a guy compliments another guy for his muscles he's straight, but when a girl comments on another girl she's not? See the double standards? The compliments may be a bit more than your average party, but that has nothing do with romance and everything to do with making one another feel pretty.

No, this does not mean girls are leaving guys.

Does this mean guys won't find a straight girl ever again? Nope. I'm sorry but again, just because you flatter someone for looking pretty doesn't mean you're not straight. I'm taken and so are most of my friends. Lingerie party is meant to be between close friends, not lovers.

[chris_987]

Well thanks for making my post more popular 😄

But in all seriousness I wanna understand what girl go through because I think it would make me in-tune with them, cause I’m often accused of being a sexist. But that only online and those people don’t know me. I just don’t understand how wearing something that is designed to turn men on by showing your nipples and pussy is ok to wear in front of your friends, like if guys did exactly the same thing you describe at your lingerie party would you consider them gay? Well I guess guys acting like women would be considered gay regardless. I don't know I just don’t understand girls but it ok I guess

[JananiiSrii]

Fair point. I guess the difference here is the way guys and girls view lingerie. It's about feeling appreciated and pretty since we're the ones wearing it, and compliments from others has nothing to do with their gender. Also no, I can promise you no nipples or pussy is shown Lol.

[chris_987]

Lol your talking about the ones that you went too. I told you a girl I knew growing in church, we went to youth group together. Post pictures of her with her friends at lingerie party and I could see her Ariola’s and then she had a little bit of hair on her pussy. Now I’ve known this girls for a long time and she’s waiting for marriage to have sex, so she never been in a relationship. But yet she did all of this in front of her girl friends? But just image if a guy never was intimate with a female but yet him and his buddies get together and wear clothes that showed of there penis, can you honestly say that you wouldn’t find that weird at all?

[JananiiSrii]

Anyone is free to do what they want, so I honestly don't find it weird for a guy to do that Lol. It's his life, and if he wants to show off his actual penis to his guy friends then he's free to do so.

[chris_987]

I feel like you say that now but if your husband told you a story about that, you would probably asking him if he was attracted to men. I don’t know you that well but it seems like a logical question to ask anyone

[Sari_K]

Nicely answered... :D

[JananiiSrii]

Thanks!

[Sari_K]

Wlcm :)

[ketfoen]

We need pictures or the party never happened. :D
I don't think this even needs to be a question, because you already summed it up and gave the answer. It's a thing girls wanna do to have fun and if you don't want any guys during your girls night, that is completely your god given right, no explanation necessary and if a guy has a problem with it, then he needs to live with it.

[JananiiSrii]

That's the picture we all consented to post; the rest aren't to be shown Lol. And yeah, I mean this response isn't for people like you who get it, but for those dudes who are somehow annoyed by this.

[lucas262]

Idc I'm just here imagining what that would look like
I mean I'm not foolish enough to imagine some girls gone wild kind of business naw, and yes aside from the view all that girl talk would make me want to eat a bullet

Have at it ladies no male equivalent comes to mind like im not gonna go to a party to dress sexy with a bunch of other men we don't do that no one does that , who is straight

[Anonymous]

Let in some lesbians while y'all are drunk. Best orgasms guarantee 😏😉

[JananiiSrii]

Shaddap Lol.

[Opinion Owner]

😂😂🤣🤣

[chris_987]

She could be right I’ve heard lesbians use that line on straight girls and they apparently squirted afterwards

[Sari_K]

😂😂😁 invitations are welcomed Lol

[meeso13]

I don't know but I like to be invited to one I think it would look really weird and Teddy but I'll give it a shot

[Numbnuts89]

just remember, there is such thing as "bisexuality"

[AkshiJanjua]

first time i am hearing about this, seems like girls have a lot of secrets

[QuietRunner]

you're all so sexy

[chris_987]

I’m most attracted to the girl on the bottom right

[JananiiSrii]

@chris_987 Aw thanks Lol.

[QuietRunner]

Yes I agree bottom right, and then bottom left

[chris_987]

That was you? Wow I looked at your profile picture and I’m even more impressed

[jojixlight]

because we're gay

[chris_987]

How many pussies have you eaten out

[jojixlight]

None now stfu

[chris_987]

Then your not gay then.

[jojixlight]

Im not sure yet

[chris_987]

Have you been with a girl then?

[strateguy632]

i agree

[SecretGardenBlood65]

Good take.