The reason I find this weird is because shouldn’t your sexuality be reserved for the opposite sex? Like why are people having a hard time with that concept, it would be like if I bought viagra and condoms and me and friends put it on. But we’re not gay we just love to show of how sexual we can be to each other. If you don’t find that weird then just explain the logic behind it without say women are different and because we can. I was under the assumption that this website was about understanding
Why would girls have lingerie parties where only females are invited?
To be quite honest, knowing what I know about human behaviour and history, the answer is repressed homosexuality. When you ask "shouldn't sexuality be reserved for the opposite sex?" The answer is no. Why should it. Human sexuality has actually evolved to help us get along in tribes of varying hierarchy. Reproductive sex and recreational or therapeutic to be more specific - sex have different purposes. Women have always been very selective when it comes to choosing partners. Through most of human history, up until the last couple of thousand years when civilisations began, just a few men in a large tribe had the affection and control over most of the women. Some men would never have the luxury and homosexuality evolved in both men and women as a type of release. Not for the purposes of reproduction but for mental health. If they didn't do this, they would either be killed by the bigger, stronger males who controlled the women or they would have to try and rape the women at the risk of injury and further punishment. A lingerie party with only women, clearly has homosexual implications and even if the web are not engaging in homosexual sex, they are unconsciously acting on an ancient instinct for self gratification among themselves.
So the result of this history is that people who engaged in homosexuality survived. That's why it persists today. Pretty much all of human behaviour comes back to Darwin (outdated now) or the proverbial tangled tree of evolution.
You said it evolution? But how could be if society is cyclical and homosexual goes back to the days of sodom that was at least 2000BC and shows up in the empires once they’ve had peace for and extended period
Because society hasn't gone back to that. There was a brief period of totalitarian rule by restrictive religions. Humans existed for over 100 thousand years and that's a conservative number before tomes of the camel herders. A few centuries of dictatorial religion isn't enough to undo evolution.
Dude, there's all sorts of reasons. -All lesbians -Hired male strippers -Instagram TV -Pornhub live -Onlyfans -Meant to just be a female party but ended with a all female orgy -Practicing for an actual upcoming party -lied about females only -occult activites -celebrating their female lead company going public Or ya know... just did it because they felt like it. No ulterior motives that involved male attention or lesbian tenancies... and if so, than a good username has been found for me and the Earth is a parallelogram. Also whales are aliens.
It's such an innocent reply to all these others guys assuming they're lesbians and all that. At that time it was really funny to me personally. I don't know about others.
Okay when guys have their guy time eith their friends, lets say a BBQ and you all take of your shirts, does that make you guys gay? Nope. It's just like normal.
Take that and switch it to a girls night out/sleepover type of party. It might be just an adult lady version of sleepovers just for friends to catch up with each other and look cute doing it.
Well at least that's what I've done before. It not always anything sexual.
That's why your comment was refreshing! Hope you weren't offended or anything.
It might be a Lesbian lingerie party or they'd just gossip about things while in lingerie because they may feel more comfortable when women around and they need or want to speak with the same group of sex. I wouldn't dare go to a lingerie party. 1, because I'd want to have a nightstand with one or whoever wants a nightstand from the same sex. 2, i don't like gossiping rumors and gossip in general. That's just not me and it's not cool. And 3, coming back to number one, I might not know if the girls there are curious about having sex with a girl or if they are bisexual or lesbians or not or if they are taken.
I have had similar nights with my girls but I assure you we didn't show anybody our pictures.. that's just teasing!! But we wanted to feel sexy and have fun!! And we did lol
The girls that I know posted it on Snapchat and they get upset when guys compliment them, but a lot of them have never been in relationships so isn’t weird they would buy lingerie without having a boyfriend
I don't believe sexy underwear is just for Men. . I like to wear nice underwear and feel hot for myself... I don't agree with the girls putting on snap and then complaining when guys comment.. that's stupid
Lol I don't know do you think men wear sexy underwear when there single? All my confusion about women is just related to men and it’s stuff we would never do.
Lol men have thongs and Leopard print underwear, velvet robes. And you I probably should give up on asking these questions and just go back to these boring questions people ask on here
So you want to "feel sexy"... in front of other women... but you claim you are not gay? This doesn't make sense, but not making sense is classic female.
@Miss_G So in the interest of "equality", you would be fine with your man and his friends, wearing only underwear and running around slapping each others asses and taking pictures?
Hahaha who is running around slapping ass! That's not what happens lol, its a lingerie party, u hang out and have girly chat!! It's not about attracting the other females haha it's feeling good for yourself. It's a preference and some girls wouldn't do something like that!.. FYI men's thongs etc are not sexy!
Equality-- you don't know my take on this. And also, men sit around drinking beer and watching sport. That's their feel good thing. Men and women r different creatures all together..
Women love to talk about their sexuality with other women because they need validation for their feelings. They need to hear others talk about similar experiences, desires, fantasies, etc. because they otherwise feel as if they are weird mutants.
After 65 years xx that is the best explanation I can offer. Yes, they are different and a man can't understand a woman any more readily than a mouse can understand an elephant. "Men Are From Mars;. Women Are From A Parallel Universe."
Done this before on my 20th. Basically, it's being slutty with no judgement. It's being sexy with no sex. Us ladies do it to amp each other up- why our instagram comments are filled with flattering compliments. We just have fun together and act super fem lesbian for the night 😂
Think of it this way. A group of ladies kissing and cuddling when they hang out is pretty normal. A guy going up to his friend and hugging him is called gay. Our society has built in to find 'gay' a trigger word. If you act any way that is percieved as feminine, even just by giving out affection, it is therefor gay. So i cannot say that I'd find a group of men doing the same tasteful but i won't stop them.
But you can see why most men are uncomfortable with women being sexual towards each other, I guess if you could have multiple wives men women wouldn’t care but if I can on have one girl and she is comfortable with being sexy for men and women then I’m gonna have a hard time trusting her, now just replace the genders and you see that men a women think the same way about it
@angeliquedevereux2 Woah woah woah, kissing and cuddling while hanging out with friends is not normal Lol. I don't know about where you're from, but definitely not here in America.
@chris_987 My feminism is not represented by the slut walk and pro-choice movement, and I've given my answer to your lingerie question. The point being feminism is about achieving political, economic, and social equality of the sexes. There is nothing gained from 'make women lesbian'.
Well action speak louder than words and a movement that advocates for men to be held back is no different from the kkk holding back blacks and the nazi holding back Jews
My guess is that most guys find it hypocritical use the excuse that girls pretend to be lesbian but if guys did the same thing you would hate us call us gay
Why do you still do it? Mankind is rebellious by nature (the current riots can attest to that) but if you tell women that they should only be sexually towards men then women will go out of there way to show you that they don’t have to use there sexuality just to get men. Hmmm why else would grow buy Négligée that shows there nipples just so they could sleep in another woman’s bed? Imagine if a guy took viagra and went to sleep in another mans bed with a hard ass dick. You might not do anything but why even put yourself in that position
Lol I've done this before... Men and women are just different. Girls aren't doing it for sexual reasons, they're doing it to FEEL sexy. Women help validate other womens bodies at this type of thing. They aren't having sex, they're just women uplifting women. It's harmless fun lmao.
But what validation is there from the same sex if your straight and your goal is to be in a relationship? Unless your goal is to just girls to like you, then I can understand but your still gonna feel like crap if no guy wants to be with you
Well, no. Women actually prefer compliments from other women, as we feel they are more genuine. Not everything women do is to impress men or is about sex. It's about feeling good about ourselves, not impressing others. x
Yeah I’ve heard that before but I’d rather live in a world where everything a girl does is to get men’s attention. Like if she kissed a girl or decided to show of her thong. The only difference is she would be ashamed to admit that she does they thinks because she want guys to be attracted to her.
well I don't know about modern times but in the old days. it was typically because one of them way a salesperson. so they would demo stuff and have catalogs. of stuff the girls could order for themselves.
could have been a bridal shower maybe. however not likely I think.
ya it was something they did before the internet took off into what it is today. people would host parties to sell stuff. might still happen now just not as common really.
I think the reason guys aren't invited is pretty obvious to me. As for why the parties are like this, I guess it's because they can and are totally cool with it. That's just for the women in the pic, but I have no clue if this is an actual thing.
And no not really. It's not like you have to keep your sexuality in the closet from your own gender but proclaim it proudly to the opposite gender. If they're gay or straight or whatever, then that's the way it is
Hmmm so why were sexy clothes and makeup? And how does that relate to males going camping together? I feel like me asking the simplest questions about female behaviour has girls upset like I shouldn’t be asking these questions
I’m gonna be honest with as a black guy living in Canada I can’t relate to your analogy but I appreciate the effort. So women wear sexy clothing and makeup in front of other girls to make them feel feminine? Hmm what is happening specifically to make them feel sexy?
@Poppykate SO never been camping, and wearing your sexiest lingerie in a sleeping bag with a Outdoors kind of guy? LOL!! You don't know what you are missing, if you haven't!
@Poppykate No, we don't go camping/hunting/fishing to "feel like a man". These are just things we like to do. I can't think of anything men do for the purpose of "feeling like a man".
Lol I know I feel like a man all the time, so why would I need to feel like one sometimes. There are some stuff that make me feel womanly/gay and I avoid those things
Yeah it’s getting to the point nowadays you can’t even ask girls perfectly logical questions without them feeling attacked in someway, I guess it’s better to just do your own thing and never analyze the behaviour of women
Stephen Molyneax (youtube) did a really good piece about how women seek to quash free speech as a byproduct of how bitchy and gossipy women are by nature. When women are in power they literally make free speech criminal (i. e. Germany and Sweden).
What sad is that men know who Stephan molyneax is mostly because we are into truth and understanding the human mind but 90% of women don’t care about that stuff. But yet fight for the right to vote and change society.
Well there are very few women but women answer to that is men should appoint more women ceo, not that a women should start her own business and compete with a man, but he should always be will hand over his company to someone who doesn’t think like him. Well we can point out the logically inconsistency with women all day but I prefer to just live life
Very true. Women are completely capable of believing two contradictory concepts and insisting the are both true. As another poster said, "you can't tell women shit". This is why we don't take women seriously in so many environments, they make no sense and have no moral authority.
@chris_987 oh trust me if I was going to block you it would have been done a while ago. I've commented on quite a bit of your stuff. I also don't block that easily. And just because I want to prove you wrong I'm never going to block you
In this case it isn't. You said "I sense she's one of those people who will block me in the future" so I'm going to prove you wrong simply by never blocking you and making that statement you said wrong. See how easy it was? Didn't even have to move.
I have never in my life met girls like that. I don’t think that’s normal lol. No one just sits around half naked with their friends for no reason? Surely? Or am I the only girl that thinks that’s strange
19 is a little too old to still be experimenting only with the opposite sex. i think you know much earlier on in age. i had one friend i was uncomfortable around for a while because he gave off a bisexual vibe. i didn't care if he was but i made it obvious i wasn't and he persisted. i'll never let him suck my dick again that's for sure!
Because woman are scandalous. Most of my female friends fuck around with their female friends. A lot of stuff goes on at these partys. Male strippers and crap like that. Unless your the stripper (who will get laid there), you don't want to be at those.
Honestly because men would faint Lol. It's about making each other feel better, like how guys give each other compliments about their hairstyle, muscles, and beard.
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It’s just a party theme. The fun of being able to dress in lingerie and be cute and have fun. I think guys are the only ones that think of this as “sexual”. We think of it as being cute with the girls. Smh.
But would it be weird if men invited there male friends over and they all took viagra. And looked at each other to see how big there dick would get, would that be weird?
Well that’s the problem every time I ask questions about girls it’s comes off as hate, lol I love girls, I actually love them so much that I probably devote to much time to understand them but I guess your right should find better things to do with my time
I would 100% do that if it meant being able to make fun of girls who do it for attention. Not even too gay but wouldn't matter cause making fun of attention obsessed girls is satisfying enough to do it regardless with no other payment. There's a good reason I follow Celeste Barber and Bros Being Basic.
Dude--I'm pretty sure if you asked you'd find that virtually no girl on here as ever been to a girls-only lingerie party. So they can't explain it either. It's not really something that "girls" do it's something that's maybe happened a few times to a few hundred or maybe a few thousand women of the 4 billion of them on the planet.
I never understood why my 16 year old niece felt fine walking around her grandmother's house in her underwear... and bra. I didn't care, she felt safe and did whatever she felt like we wanted within reason. Women are funny creatures, one moment they are happy the next you turn your head they are trying to rip your head off.
Never even heard of that. However your comparison to viagra is just way off. They're not showing each other their bits they are just in lingerie. I don't really get why this is a thing I would much rather lounge around in an oversized t-shirt.
Sounds like you're mad that you're not invited to a party for women only. I wouldn't go to one even if invited, but that don't mean guys are entitled to go.
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