itll work. im shy in person but not as shy through text/online. So you can get to know her but make sure you still see each other in person because if your contact is solely through text, chances are itll still be very awkward and quiet when you two are actually together. so text her first and if a few conversations go by and go well, then take her out. but you have to ease into breaking through her shell. it may take awhile but if she likes you, itll all turn out great!
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that works but she'll probably still be shy with you in person.. maybe not as much though -just as long as you show that you're interested in her and aren't bothered by her shyness she'll eventually get comfortable around you :) (I'm really really shy and this is what helps me be more comfortable around a guy - really sweet that you asked about this btw!)
You can't "make" her comfortable with you. It's like trying to "make" someone like you. You can't. Either they do, or they don't. It's something that takes a lot of time and patience. Keep your word, don't let her down, don't pressure her and give her her space. Doing those things won't guarantee that she'll be comfortable with you, but they might help.
Yeah.. social media is da best way to know abd kearn about a shy person. Its too stressful in face to face. U can say its less intimidating and stressful behind da screen and u won't be able to judge her physcially much.
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I am extremely shy and I think texting her would be a great idea. I have problems speaking to people in person but I'm great over texting. It also helps me when the guy I hang out with has a lot to talk about so that I don't feel pressure from a weird awkward silence
Always interact her in her territory. Because she feels more comfortable there. And try to arrange sth with her friends so it will not be that obvious. And then act. Those girls need some time to relax. Don't force her. This will push her away.
she just has an issue with communicating. shyness is a social disorder that can be overcome through meditation. there is really nothing you can do about a shy girl. its like talking to a mouse in a way.
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