Girl calling guy delusional when confronted about her feelings? Do you know how bad this feels?

[Anonymous]

I've seen it in movies, i've seen it happen to others, even some guys did it to girls, but above all it happened to me.
So when i got fed up with her hide and seek games, i just went and asked what is going on and why she acts so confusing.
She called me delusional and said i see things. It wasn't just in my head !

Why do girls do that and react like this? Do you even realize how painful and damaging this is to the one you call delusional?

[Paris13]

Anyone who calls someone This needs their own head examined. I have never been called it, Nor have ever done it to any guy, but have heard it has been done.
I am sorry for your pain. You must really have felt Insulted as well, to say the least.
I feel, as wise as I am, that anyone who calls someone 'Delusional,' hasn't gotten it altogether yet, and are most likely emotionally unstable in their own right.
Don't let it 'damage' you too long, sweetie. Consider the source of That sex and move on to someone who doesn't play Mind games and can see the kind of person I imagine you really are. This one is not only 'confusing' but she's not wrapped very tight.
Good luck. xx

[Anonymous]

I'm having this problem. Now, I'm at the point I'm think I'm losing it. If I were you, I'd completely ignore her and try to find someone who is open to everything you want and need. If she answers your calls and goes out with you regularly, then you will know she is not playing games. If you avoid her and she calls you, then you know you are not delusional.

[Asker]

i'm not expecting anything from her anymore. It's just that i'm left with this feeling of "how the fuck did i get that wrong. neah i wasn't wrong. or was i? " And it hurts because i loved her. Is not just some random girl on the street.
What's your story... what happened to you?

[evelynbriana]

Trust me, guys do it too. I'm very direct when it comes to my feelings and I've asked three different guys about theirs, and they've all had similar responses. It hurts and it makes you feel stupid or crazy, but you get over it in the end.

[kheserthorpe]

Instead of demanding people reveal their feelings the brave thing to do is declare yours then ask them to react.

[Asker]

yup, i did that, i confessed first. Thinking it might have been to much for her and she freaked out, but calling me "delusional". That's not right ! And i seriously doubt i got things wrong and misinterpreted her behaviour...

[BrunetteNYC]

Oh that is probably dishonest of her just not admitting things. I would not take it so hard.

[Asker]

Why rather call me "delusional" instead of admitting to her feelings? It seriously got me derailed hearing her say those things... I'm still depressed.

[BrunetteNYC]

This, I think, means you are not a good match. She is emotionally not in tune with you and not a kind person.

[Anonymous]

Wow! She could use a lesson in being tactful. Unless you were stalking her, that's a harsh way of telling someone you're not interested.

[Asker]

I highly doubt she wasn't interested. That's what pisses me off the most, because i know what i've seen and others confirmed. One day i got sick of the uncertainty of the situation and simply asked her what is going on. She then went on to call me delusional.

[2Hot4UBabez]

I wouldn't know
Glad I could help xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

[Anonymous]

That has happened to ne in hard times! It makes you so angry when it happens! It hurts too and is depressing! I totally understand!

[Blueeyes81]

Birches be crazy.