Girl I like just called me bro?

[Anonymous]

Talking on the phone and she said I'm hittin the sack bro, goodnight. She also once said Dude, I miss you... like really miss you. From my experience those are friendzone words. Now I don't really care if i'm being petty with this but should I stop talking to her? I rather not deal with this friendzone b. s again. I gotta think about me on this and not worry about others feelings this time.

[sean1234]

"... I'm hittin the sack bro, goodnight..."?

Next time you should just say, "ok Honey, good night, I love you" OR something obvious like that. What if she says "bro" to you because she figures you dont really like her? That would be really stupid in my opinion, then you simply not talk to her again.

[Asker]

Well I mean the best I got from her is she told me that she would date me if she wasn't seeing someone when I told her about some girl that flaked on a date. Sounded like a pity thing

[sean1234]

Wait what?

she would date me if she wasn't seeing someone?

[Asker]

Yup, she said that. Sounds stupid right?

[sean1234]

In other words she has a boyfriend... right? ! ? !

[Asker]

She absolutely refuses to put a label on it and call it official but yeah pretty much.

[sean1234]

Well then, don't stop being friends with her just yet. The way it sounds to me, you're just as much of a friend to her as that other guy is. If she thought of that other guy as her boyfriend, she wouldn't hesitate to tell you that you would think.

[NovemberJoseph]

A lot of girls just say words like that and don't mean to friendzone you. I talked to this girl I really liked and the first words she used were "what's up man? :)" she even said Brah and dude lol and she wasn't a tomboy at all, she was super cute and petite and wore make up. Words are words.

[Victoria14]

yeah usually those indicate the friendzone. HOWEVER, one of my female friends likes my male friend and she constantly calls him dude and bro and stuff.. its just the way she talks to everyone. so unless she usually says those words, you may be leaning towards the friendzone...

[NaturalPoet]

Personally, I don't think you should stop talking to her because I say it myself- even to a guy I might like. To me, it has become a force of habit, but it doesn't really mean she is putting you in the friendzone. Does she know that you like her?

[Asker]

She knows

[NaturalPoet]

Oh, well that is another story because I was kind of assuming that she was naive and didn't know. Well in that case, beat around the bush and try to see if she might like you back. Well... unless you are a blunt person, but that will work too CX

[Anonymous_Mysterious]

Yes I usually use those words to friendzone guy :/ and yes your ideas are TOTALLY right. You have limited time so gotta think about you, don't try to deal with the friendzone bs, and move on! Good luck (:

[Asker]

She constantly tries to get me back when i try to leave before. Like if she sees me ignore her she'll walk up to me and hug me. She'll send me a im sorry text. I've dealt with this many times with her but she sends mixed signals so I never know.

[Asker]

It was constant stress all the time but the summer is helping to get my mind off of her.

[Anonymous_Mysterious]

I'm sorry to hear this bae but girls are like that. They DON'T like you but they like THE ATTENTION that they received from you (that's why she has such behavior when you ignore her), and this only hurts you more if you continue. Try to move on and you sure will meet someone who worths your time. I hope you'll be over her soon.

[Asker]

So pretty much being used for an ego boost... okay. She's already saying when I get back that we should hangout and stuff, I think i'm going to limit time with her. I won't completely abandon her but I'm not going to be hanging at her place about everyday like I used to

[Anonymous_Mysterious]

yea right pretty much... and yes you should limit time with her. Doesn't necessarily becoming an enemy or a stranger you know, but spending too much time with her won't get you anywhere and waste your other opportunities out there. And I'm with you on that.

[Insaan]

Yes.. a girl call you bro... you are friend zoned. She made sure that you don't have any space for further approach.
But be happy with what you have...

[Asker]

Nah, not going to work. I have tried before

[iUnderachieve]

https://i.imgur.com/twope.gif

As you can see, trying to get out of the friendzone is tough. Always halted by a big black man.

[sean1234]

What you said could be interpreted in more than one way, lol!

[iUnderachieve]

That is the point

[Asker]

I know how tough it is man. I'm a brother myself, you would think I'd get a pass lol

[Insaan]

Lmaolmaolmaolmao

[TheNewClassic]

Dont stop talking to her because of that.
Maybe she even likes you and just wants to see how you react or its a habit of hers to use those words.

Like one user said, next time be more straught forward and call her honey or whatever.

[jeanbean]

If "dude" and "bro" are words she uses quite often, then I wouldn't worry too much. I say "dude" all the time in reference to my S/O.

[Lyndsielee666]

I call my boyfrend dude and bro a lot -_-
And he sure as hell wasn't friendzoned at first. Hhaha

[CommieDearest]

I'll probably say "dude" and "bro" at the altar... a lot of people use those terms.

[blondfrog]

you're hot :)

[blondfrog]

Yeah I don't think those words are ever good, but hey better to be friend zoned and hanging out with them than nothing at all.

[Tassos]

Fuck that bro, you go on to da next ti'l you get that pussy.

[Anonymous]

... I call my boyfriend dude and bro all the time lol

[Anonymous]

just tell her you want to fuck her and get it over with.

[Asker]

The thing is I have but she is "seeing someone". She pretty much is dating him. I went after her because she didn't say she was official

[Dakoin]

It's only words! Please. Stop freaking out

[Asker]

Okay, she even once said in these words "I know these are the ultimate friendzone words lol but you really are a great friend".

[Dakoin]

yes, but then she's also saying, that even though they are the ultimate friendzone words, she still likes you possibly as more than as her friend

[mariatreat28]

its just normal don't worry. :)