Why do girls rush into relationships?

[Anonymous]

Why do women rush into relationships, even marriage? What is the rush?

[SandPlanet]

Some have a deep fear of being alone. They can't deal with ever being alone, and they irrationally believe that if they don't rush into the relationship or even marriage, they've lost their chances and will stay alone.

Others are simply inexperienced. It's their first guy and they have no comparison, so they believe he must be "the one" and that there can never be a better one for them.

Then there are also rare cases when they are actually sure and confident about that guy and simply know they want him and no one else.

[Anonymous]

When I was young I rushed into relationships just because I was excited and inexperienced. Now I get told I hold back and put men off because I'm independent and don't need a man to survive. It's like a no win. All I hear is men hating women because we're all gold diggers. I pay for myself, drive myself, support myself and I'm a turn off because a man doesn't feel needed?

About 2 years ago I dated a guy for 4 months and he proposed marriage. It's not a gender thing it's a person thing.

[Elixir1989]

My mom does well for herself too but she wouldn't survive without my dad... he helped her through losing both of her parents... and they eventually had me. But yeah, she's a strong woman when it comes to business and other things like feminism

[Anonymous]

Women want commitment fast. Sometimes they rush like fools other times they know. However rushing too much often is because they are ruled by emotions and forget to be rational. Guys can do this too though. Rushing is also driven by loneliness and desperation. Maybe the person had a breakup or is single and sees all his or her peers with someone and wants to be with someone too.

[zombiebabe]

dude... not all women are the same! some men also tend to rush into relationships.. for women i guess its mainly due to their biological clock (tik tak),,, they wanna know the joys of maternity

[Asker]

Commitment? Why?

[zombiebabe]

maybe because they really want it... they wanna live together with the one they love... its human

[Theguyoverthere]

There could be many reasons.

Could anything like... being clingy, commitment obsessed, peer pressure (all her friends are getting married), loneliness, social status, etc. It's really specific to them.

I have also heard of guys like this. There's plenty of guys who pull wedding rings out on the first date.

[Rail2k]

They're probably just really excited to move to the next step, that's how it is with me and I probably rush as well, lol.

[xomysterybabexo]

I didn't rush into marriage. We started off as friends 5 years ago took things slow and got married this year. But a part of me feels strange.

[Asker]

Feels strange? About what?

[xomysterybabexo]

Sometimes I feel like we rushed into it when we really didn't.

[Asker]

O so u took your time with the friendship, but rushed into the marriage?

How long did u date him before u got married? n what was your reason for accepting the proposal?

[xomysterybabexo]

I don't want to say much on here you could message me

[yellowmamba024]

They rush into relationships with the bad boys & buff guys because they are wet for their dicks. But when it comes to good guys, they take their sweet time or put them into the friend zone.

[misscocobutter]

Sometimes men rush into things too. I'm a girl and I go slow. But the ones who do rush in are probably needy and insecure

[Keyspirits]

Lol 4realz

[KiaTate]

They're probably scared that they'll be alone forever, they're needy, they are probably looking for mr right, or they're looking for someone to love them. It could be another reason or a combination of more than one.

[pebbles86]

I think men rush into relationships more than women. Those who do are probably afraid of being alone

[Asker]

I know men rush into sex n may use a relationship for the sex. But I don't find men rushing into relationships for love much. Or dreaming about weddings n things like that. I just notice itt more in women n was wondering why

[RightNow]

I was in a committed relationship. She cheated on me. If I would of know, I would of made out with another girl who wanted to make out with me.

[BlackAndArtsy]

We fall hard and fast man... that's the way it is...