Legaly here in the USA women can be rapists however i have only seen women tried for it if the guy is underage and even then the kid enjoyed it and doesn't seem like a victim and its usually when his parents find out that they press charges.
Did you hear about the recent story of the two teachers that had a sex with an underage student. The boy was boasting about it to his friends nypost.com/.../
The only way I can see a man actually being upset about a woman wanting to have sex with him is if he knows she has an std or if she tied him up and stuck a dildo in his ass and made it bleed. The guys experience would have to be that unpleasant for him to want to press charges.
Yes I've seen countless stories. I'm not talking about pedophilia though. Have you not seen all the guys who don't speak up about being raped? Of course you have.
No what you're saying is completely stupid and ignorant.
no im honestly saying that i have not heard of a grown man claiming that a woman has raped him. It is not that common. If a man seriously wanted to press charges against a woman for wanting sex with him, then the woman must have to do something crazy and extreme for him to feel victimized and the only crazy extreme thing i can think of is if she somehow tied him up and raped his butthole or brutally beat him up too. But if any woman just randomly jumped on a mans dick that he really wasn't interested in, he would either tell her to get off of him or just go through with it and then he would not press charges.
I've read it before. And again of course you haven't heard it. Many are scared to speak out about it because then they are "weak, pussies." It's more common than what's reported. It's not that the woman wants sex with him. It's that she molest or rapes him. There's a difference. There's no crime in a grown person wanting to have sex with another grown person. There is a crime in a grown person wanting to rape another grown person. Also, a woman doesn't have to do anything crazy. It doesn't have to be a physical struggle like it is with men raping women. It can be mental. Some guys may feel inferior to their female rapists. Some may not want to hurt her feelings. Some may give into the double standard and say "well I'm a guy so I should go along with it." All of these are still rape regardless.
Like I was telling others it's more mental than physical. Many times the guy ends up going along with it even though he doesn't want it. Plus it doesn't take much to get molested. He could be getting that without even knowing.
Contrary to what most people think, rape isn't so much about sex as it is about power. When the convicted rapist is a woman and the victim is male, it is almost always a case of statutory rape. Likewise, 9 out of 10 male rape victims are raped by a male rapist.
We can be but its not easy because 1. Physically the average women is weaker than the average guy. (don't bite my head off but in my experience girls don't go to the gym to become huge muscly women - though some do but I don't think this is a norm) anyways it takes a lot of physical strength to over power someone. so we could resort to druging them to get ride of this obstacle but then we get hit at problem number 2. if he can get it up. though his body might fail him and react to the sensation with out his consent. the actual getting up could be a problem, maybe the drugs will effect this or maybe he's strong enough to make sure it doesn't go up. its not a double standard its just biology, its a lot easier to stick something into an unwilling victim then it is to get that victim to do the sticking... gosh my wording of this was bad...
Because the act of rape technically requires for the male to have an erection, and a man cannot have an erection unless aroused, hence, all rapes involve male arousal, which means that all rapes involve men raping women.
A women can still molest a person, but rape, by definition, is impossible for a woman initiate.
Really? The odds of this happening are so minuscule that it is really pointless to talk about it. Most men don't walk around the streets with full blown erections, this question as a whole is quite silly and I am embarrassed to have even acknowledged it in the first place..
The ink in your name is pink, implying that you're a female.. If you're not a man and haven't experienced what it is like to even have a penis, then your opinion holds little merit, what do you go reading up about penises all day? Sheesh.
We aren't talking odds we are talking wrong or not wrong. A erection can happen with minimum stimulation. Not only that but in many cases it's mental and not physical. Usually the male victim goes along with it even though it's not what he wants.
For real? Because this is common knowledge (at least I thought. ) when I was 13 I told some guys that men can't be raped bc they have to be aroused and they all told me what I just said (it was like 4 guys. )
I'm going to have to side with the Asker on this one, dude. I have very little control over my erections. I could go to the strip club, have naked women rubbing against me, and not get an erection at all. Then I could go to church, and have such a raging boner I can't even walk. It's crazy.
lol like what kind of a woman is going to attack me and try to get me down and then get me hard against my will? Then try to go up and down on my pole knowing I would not be hard like this and first of all she would never even be able to get me on the ground because me being me I would just take her down and laugh in her face.
LOL just think about it, If we can't get hard what can the female do? And if someone attacks us I don't think were going to get all excited like that knowing she could be trying to rob or kill us guys. I doubt we guys are going to get hard and allow her to rape us
Well then I would have had the crap beat out of me and I dont think I would then be able to get hard. for her to be able to rape me. But that will never happen, No women should be able to beat up a guy like me. so Thats a no go for her
Consented rap e is a fetish some people like. Men can be raped, yes. I don't agree with your statement about men being raped because they don't want to hurt her feelings. That's on them and their lack of standind up for themselves
Yeah YOU would, but everybody is different. Some people aren't as mentally strong and in some situations their mental willpower may be lower than normal.
I don't believe he did. I comes down to mind games and I'm not one for mind games. I can understand the threat about if you don't I'll tell tgw cop you did, but I'll be like bitch don't threat me and call her bluff. Then she is Out of my life
Why? Because it's not rape if you like it and guys love sex, so they like it. Hence it's not rape. Now this is NOT the case if it was women rape women or women rape gay men for obvious reasons, just putting it out there for those wanting to rip apart this opinion
who said men love only 'sex'? if a man likes going out having sex with every girl that he sees he is sexually not in a normal state. men love sex and mating with a girl or some girls in time, not sex as an act without boundary. it is as assuming they enjoy putting their penis in every hole.
If you are interested in that do not talk for men. that urge is an obsession for sex and is followed by perversion.
@wölfin-fräulein Sex is an act, in todays society, deemed both appropiate to be done at random as well as, traditionally, with someone you love/care about. Attention to be paid to the first of the two ideals. Now, in what I said, I did not say men love only sex, I said they love sex, not only it. Saying that they only love sex makes no sense and it would be childish to presume so. Why? Well because I am a guy and know that is not the case and secondly, people get into relationships based on feelings far more important and superior than sex, at least I would hope that would be thier reason/s.
As for if it is one of my ideals to put my penis in every hole and similar, the answer is blatantly for reasons I am not interested in sharing. I thank you for your comment, but I did take offence to some of what was said, I do not know if that was your intention but that is how it was percieved, at least to me.
Its too hard for them To drug a man... to obtain the erection them drug them or kick their ass to the point where there Groggy and not thinking. Then and only then will rape happen.
She doesn't have to drug him. Many cases guys just go along with it even though they don't want it for w/e reason. Also you don't need a erection to get molested.
They can and are convicted of child molestation. But since the average guy is bigger than the average girl it is a much lower number of men getting raped by women without rufees being involved.
Men have a superiority complex. If she were to do that, he would either start fucking her back or in minor cases, push her away. I personally have no problem with it, but that's because I have a dominatrix fetish so my judgement could be biased, but I'd like to think most guys have a superiority complex when it comes to gender comparisons.
I'd push her away if I didn't consent to it. Then again while I'm a open guy I'm not some guy that's like Master Roshi from DBZ or some shit LOL. I'm not like horny all the time wishing some girl would touch me all the time. W/e.
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Legaly here in the USA women can be rapists however i have only seen women tried for it if the guy is underage and even then the kid enjoyed it and doesn't seem like a victim and its usually when his parents find out that they press charges.
Did you hear about the recent story of the two teachers that had a sex with an underage student. The boy was boasting about it to his friends nypost.com/.../
The only way I can see a man actually being upset about a woman wanting to have sex with him is if he knows she has an std or if she tied him up and stuck a dildo in his ass and made it bleed. The guys experience would have to be that unpleasant for him to want to press charges.
Yes I've seen countless stories. I'm not talking about pedophilia though. Have you not seen all the guys who don't speak up about being raped? Of course you have.
No what you're saying is completely stupid and ignorant.
no im honestly saying that i have not heard of a grown man claiming that a woman has raped him. It is not that common. If a man seriously wanted to press charges against a woman for wanting sex with him, then the woman must have to do something crazy and extreme for him to feel victimized and the only crazy extreme thing i can think of is if she somehow tied him up and raped his butthole or brutally beat him up too. But if any woman just randomly jumped on a mans dick that he really wasn't interested in, he would either tell her to get off of him or just go through with it and then he would not press charges.
I've read it before. And again of course you haven't heard it. Many are scared to speak out about it because then they are "weak, pussies." It's more common than what's reported. It's not that the woman wants sex with him. It's that she molest or rapes him. There's a difference. There's no crime in a grown person wanting to have sex with another grown person. There is a crime in a grown person wanting to rape another grown person. Also, a woman doesn't have to do anything crazy. It doesn't have to be a physical struggle like it is with men raping women. It can be mental. Some guys may feel inferior to their female rapists. Some may not want to hurt her feelings. Some may give into the double standard and say "well I'm a guy so I should go along with it." All of these are still rape regardless.
And I would press charges.
*There is a crime in a grown person raping another grown person.
While it is technically possible, it seems VERY unlikely that a woman would physically over power a man and force him to put his penis in her.
Could it theoretically happen? Yes.
But the chances of the guy reporting it or not enjoying it are extremely thin, unless she a was drunk fat sasquatch or something lol
Like I was telling others it's more mental than physical. Many times the guy ends up going along with it even though he doesn't want it. Plus it doesn't take much to get molested. He could be getting that without even knowing.
Contrary to what most people think, rape isn't so much about sex as it is about power. When the convicted rapist is a woman and the victim is male, it is almost always a case of statutory rape. Likewise, 9 out of 10 male rape victims are raped by a male rapist.
Well that's true too. I agree.
We can be but its not easy because 1. Physically the average women is weaker than the average guy. (don't bite my head off but in my experience girls don't go to the gym to become huge muscly women - though some do but I don't think this is a norm) anyways it takes a lot of physical strength to over power someone. so we could resort to druging them to get ride of this obstacle but then we get hit at problem number 2. if he can get it up. though his body might fail him and react to the sensation with out his consent. the actual getting up could be a problem, maybe the drugs will effect this or maybe he's strong enough to make sure it doesn't go up. its not a double standard its just biology, its a lot easier to stick something into an unwilling victim then it is to get that victim to do the sticking... gosh my wording of this was bad...
They can be just like a man can.. I think it's just less reported...
Many guys think they'd be "pussies" if they speak out and plus how would they win in court? Double standards exist there.
Yes completely agree which is unfortunate
yup.. less reported.
Tbh if I was asleep and a fat ugly girl gave me a blowjob, as long as she didn't have herpes I still wouldn't care lol.
I would.
Yeah this is what perpetuates this bullshit.
@been_waiting
Yolo
Yes they can be rapists Here's a example www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1187496-woman-pulls-gun-on-guy-forces-him-to-have-sex-with-her-friend
That's a physical example though. I mean they can be rapists through mental break downs as well.
Because the act of rape technically requires for the male to have an erection, and a man cannot have an erection unless aroused, hence, all rapes involve male arousal, which means that all rapes involve men raping women.
A women can still molest a person, but rape, by definition, is impossible for a woman initiate.
No true at all. A erection can still happen even if he doesn't want it to.
*Not
Morning wood anyone? Do you intent to get that?
Really? The odds of this happening are so minuscule that it is really pointless to talk about it. Most men don't walk around the streets with full blown erections, this question as a whole is quite silly and I am embarrassed to have even acknowledged it in the first place..
The penis could become erect without a conscious desire
@been_waiting
The ink in your name is pink, implying that you're a female..
If you're not a man and haven't experienced what it is like to even have a penis, then your opinion holds little merit, what do you go reading up about penises all day? Sheesh.
We aren't talking odds we are talking wrong or not wrong. A erection can happen with minimum stimulation. Not only that but in many cases it's mental and not physical. Usually the male victim goes along with it even though it's not what he wants.
For real? Because this is common knowledge (at least I thought. )
when I was 13 I told some guys that men can't be raped bc they have to be aroused and they all told me what I just said (it was like 4 guys. )
Asker even said that. He has a penis.
But same with a girl- she could be physically aroused (wet) and not consciously want sex
@been_waiting Right. Our sexual organs react to stimulation. Doesn't matter if we like it or not.
mine doesnt, I only get erect when I am aroused
You can be aroused through stimulation.
I'm going to have to side with the Asker on this one, dude. I have very little control over my erections. I could go to the strip club, have naked women rubbing against me, and not get an erection at all. Then I could go to church, and have such a raging boner I can't even walk. It's crazy.
@CommieKiller I mean really. LOL!! Penises have minds of their own.
lol like what kind of a woman is going to attack me and try to get me down and then get me hard against my will? Then try to go up and down on my pole knowing I would not be hard like this and first of all she would never even be able to get me on the ground because me being me I would just take her down and laugh in her face.
Yeah I'm not going to debate this again. I'm just not.
LOL just think about it, If we can't get hard what can the female do? And if someone attacks us I don't think were going to get all excited like that knowing she could be trying to rob or kill us guys. I doubt we guys are going to get hard and allow her to rape us
I didn't read any of that.
No Problem others will
True. Maybe.
LOL, what if she is bigger and stronger than you?
Well then I would have had the crap beat out of me and I dont think I would then be able to get hard. for her to be able to rape me. But that will never happen, No women should be able to beat up a guy like me. so Thats a no go for her
Ever heard of date rape drugs? How about if she actually drugs you and you find yourself tied up?
Yes that can Happen but I won't get hard like that so Its a no go
Its mainly dudes that perpetrate this double standard.
I agree.
You made that up lol women can definitely be rapists.
I think it's fucked some people in society think men can't be raped. They can, and it should be treated the same, regardless of gender.
I agree.
Consented rap e is a fetish some people like. Men can be raped, yes. I don't agree with your statement about men being raped because they don't want to hurt her feelings. That's on them and their lack of standind up for themselves
What if a woman doesn't stand up for herself?
Same thing to me. Stand up for yourself. If you say no and he/she forces you its rape.
What if you're scared to say no? What if someone is holding a knife in their hand. Would you say no then?
Thats force and a fear for your life, which is rape. Its not the same scenario as I commented on originally
Why does there have to be a weapon to fear for your life?
Bc if you don't have one, I will do my best to get out of that situation. I might even fight if they have a weapon
Yeah YOU would, but everybody is different. Some people aren't as mentally strong and in some situations their mental willpower may be lower than normal.
I understand
I think the guy I gave MH too gave some excellent examples.
*to (filler)
I don't believe he did. I comes down to mind games and I'm not one for mind games. I can understand the threat about if you don't I'll tell tgw cop you did, but I'll be like bitch don't threat me and call her bluff. Then she is Out of my life
Hahahah. You are a strong woman. :)
Women can totally be rapists. And many women are convicted as them.
I'm not talking about pedophilia rape though.
neither am I.
Then I believe that's incorrect. I believe most of the time women aren't convicted. Maybe I'm wrong?
Yes, most of the time women aren't convicted, but that still makes them a rapist whether they're caught or not.
Oh I agree.
Why? Because it's not rape if you like it and guys love sex, so they like it. Hence it's not rape.
Now this is NOT the case if it was women rape women or women rape gay men for obvious reasons, just putting it out there for those wanting to rip apart this opinion
Nah I'm done debating on it.
I'm not surprised by the answers (or I shouldn't be) given how GAG girls and guys generally are.
Fair enough mate, what's your conclusion?
Of what?
Well you asked the question, what's your conclusion based on the opinions?
who said men love only 'sex'? if a man likes going out having sex with every girl that he sees he is sexually not in a normal state. men love sex and mating with a girl or some girls in time, not sex as an act without boundary. it is as assuming they enjoy putting their penis in every hole.
If you are interested in that do not talk for men. that urge is an obsession for sex and is followed by perversion.
@wölfin-fräulein
Sex is an act, in todays society, deemed both appropiate to be done at random as well as, traditionally, with someone you love/care about. Attention to be paid to the first of the two ideals. Now, in what I said, I did not say men love only sex, I said they love sex, not only it. Saying that they only love sex makes no sense and it would be childish to presume so. Why? Well because I am a guy and know that is not the case and secondly, people get into relationships based on feelings far more important and superior than sex, at least I would hope that would be thier reason/s.
As for if it is one of my ideals to put my penis in every hole and similar, the answer is blatantly for reasons I am not interested in sharing. I thank you for your comment, but I did take offence to some of what was said, I do not know if that was your intention but that is how it was percieved, at least to me.
Its too hard for them
To drug a man... to obtain the erection them drug them or kick their ass to the point where there
Groggy and not thinking. Then and only then will rape happen.
She doesn't have to drug him. Many cases guys just go along with it even though they don't want it for w/e reason. Also you don't need a erection to get molested.
Physical force isn't the only means to commit rape, women often use coercion for example.
They can and are convicted of child molestation. But since the average guy is bigger than the average girl it is a much lower number of men getting raped by women without rufees being involved.
I like your profile photo btw. Chick is hot lol
Well I wasn't talking about pedophilia, and yes we all know more men rape women. That's common knowledge.
Yeah Jen Salter. I think I spelled her name right LOL!
Instagram hot chick?
Yeah I think so. She works out and stuff. That's how she got the rear she has.
It's not molestation/rape if the guy lets her know that she's free touch his dick whenever she wants...
What if he doesn't? What if they are just laying in bed and she starts humping him without his consent?
Men have a superiority complex.
If she were to do that, he would either start fucking her back or in minor cases, push her away.
I personally have no problem with it, but that's because I have a dominatrix fetish so my judgement could be biased, but I'd like to think most guys have a superiority complex when it comes to gender comparisons.
I'd push her away if I didn't consent to it. Then again while I'm a open guy I'm not some guy that's like Master Roshi from DBZ or some shit LOL. I'm not like horny all the time wishing some girl would touch me all the time. W/e.
Low drive bruh?
I will confess, I'm a bit like Roshi, I do wish girls would fuck me all the time lol.
Idk. I just know I don't want sex alllll the time. Sometimes I'm just not up for it. Idk.
Women have beeen rapist. Just much lesser.
Cause men are genetically MORE HORNY THAN WOMEN.
No I get the nature of man and how it works. Some women are outside that though and are just as "horny".
who says that women can't rape men? I know the justice system certainly believes that women can rape men
If it's physical violence or like drugs in it then yeah they believe it then.
or emotional/verbal. women can be found guilty of the same kinds of abuse men can
Okay. Other guys on here don't believe that. I shouldn't be surprised though.