Do girls see their guy friends as losers or guys they would never date I'm ok being just friends with girls but I won't be seen as weak guy?

[Anonymous]

Do girls never date their male male friends because they see them in a bad light and see other guys in a good light. because if this is the case I will not be around female friends anymore. I see a female friend as someone I like but not necessarily someone I would date. not because of any thing bad on their part , but seeing how girls use their male friends and refuse to ever!!! Date them seems that girls think differently girls what's the truth why do see male friends as guys you would never date? Do you see them as losers.

[Anonymous]

I don't see them as losers, me not being attracted to them doesn't make them losers or mean I don't get on with them. I can be friends with guys who I do find attractive but who don't feel the same way about me. Irrelevant anyway as I have a boyfriend, but I mean before I had a boyfriend too, as long as I didn't develop a crazy crush on them. Also a lot of my male friends have girlfriends so there's that. Or aren't attracted to my gender. Plus I do like to be friends with a guy before dating him so I kinda disagree with the premise of the question tbh..

[BumbleSuperBee]

Thats not true... its really cool having mmale friends and i prefer hanging out with a group of guys than with girls.. its less dramatic.. and no, that doesn't mean we wouldn't date them, dont take it as a rule. But sometimes girls like having male friends around which is why they wouldn't date them to not destroy their friendship.. there are cases in which a friendship becomes a relationship, and no, if she's not interested in dating u, it doesn't mean that ur considered a loser or weak or any different from the rest of the guys.

[dreamingincake]

I see my guy friends as friends, but its my personal preference to always be open to dating a guy friend if they wanted to. Yes, we might have a platonic relationship, but ill never restrict them to the friend zone. If anything your guy friend or lady friend should be perfect candidates for dating because you already have chemistry and you know each other so well already.

[AvaMarina]

I definitely don't see them as losers, but I wouldn't date just any of my guy friends. There are one or two at the moment who I'd go out with, if they asked, but most of the guy friends I've had were not compatible. Not like I thought anything bad about them, but certain personalities just work better as friends.

[JohnStamoist]

It's different for each girl, my personal favorite is when you ask a friend that is a girl out and she says; "I'm sorry I don't feel the same way. You are a really good and sweet guy and I know you will find someone wonderful because you deserve it. I hope this doesn't ruin our friendship."

Girls in essence this is what it means to us, "You're a pretty good guy but not good enough for me." Then they go and date some asshole that treats them like shit.

[The_Eternal_Emperor]

If a girl saw a guy in a bad light then why would she be friends with that guy? The logic just doesn't add up.

[MishaMikado]

If I saw my male friends as losers then we wouldn't be friends. Also not everything has to turn into a relationship lol. Perfectly possible for a girl and a guy to just be friends.

[_IMAGIRLSOYEAH_]

yes because you know the guy. An you know that even if you break up you will still be friends. Im lazy sooo im not writing much.