Shy girl eye contact help?

Question

What does it mean if a shy girl avoids eye contact with you in class and when close to you, but full eye contact stares when there's some distance between you?

Melodic_Heart · Accepted Answer

Well being a shy girl myself, I'd say it's complicated to give you a clear answer, most of the shy girls when around boys avoid eye contact or even with girls... but if you say she stares at you when she's at some distance, now that might say she is attracted to you or she's curious about the body of a man, mainly if she never had a relationship. But either way if she is just staring at you and no one else I would say for certain that she's interested in you, even if she just looks at you because she's curious, why would she look only at you with a lot of boys to do that. Attention interest DOES NOT mean that she likes you!! She just might like the way you look or find you interesting because of something you do or did ;)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm a shy girl. I'm gonen be really honest here and say I'm a creeper. If I see a person I like I'll just look at them. Not like dead stare, but I'll try to catch glimpses. But if I notice you looking back at me, that's when I start avoiding eye contact. I voted out of curiosity, because I just like faces. If I see a handsome face, I just like to look at it. It doesn't actually mean I'm looking for a relationship with you. For example: there was the guy who was very attractive, but he had a rather dick-ish personality. I'd never date him, but he had a nice face and I'm pretty sure he caught me looking at him multiple times.

depeche2015 · Accepted Answer

She finds you really attractive but she's shy and finds eye contact awkward. I know this because I'm really shy myself. I have social anxiety and I'm not good with eye contact I've done this when I thought a guy was cute or if I had a crush on someone. I never once admitted to them that I liked them let alone talked to them. If you stare at her back you might catch her smiling, hiding, or blushing that will show that she likes you.

MRHOT · Accepted Answer

shy attraction or curiosity i see quite a bit of girls doing this to me, i get creaped out sometimes honestly

convo_king89 · Accepted Answer

close up she's nervious to talk to you.. but far away she feel safe..

xcassiopeia · Answer

Oh my god. That's so me. I look like a happy and talkative girl, but deep down I'm just really shy and insecure, to the point I look uninterested and mean lol! (It sounds pretty funny).

Another reason would be that the girl has trust issues. I have trust issues, so that's also a reason for me not to look at the guy I like. I just can't help it.

Or maybe she's not sure if you like her back (if she likes you) ?

Poppykate · Answer

I wouldn't be too nervous about approaching her. The thing to remember is that she is feeling the same way too!. And who knows a few months from now you both could be holding each other in bed after having the most amazing sex of your life, laughing about the time you first ask her out, and almost chickened out because you were too nervous.

CCovey · Answer

This could mean many things. I am shy with people I can say, but I usually can only look at a guy if I liked him for a very short second, to where I pretend I wasn't looking. Unless I'm mouthing words from afar where I then would turn very red as I have an extremely light skin completion. Everyone is different though. The best thing to do is not to ask if she likes you, but ask her out on a date, even if it is just lunch. That is if you like the girl

TheBrokenDream · Answer

I'm shy girl and if I like someone I'm likely to avoid eye contact... but only if it's with someone I just meet and not comfortable with or I really like the person and I just freeze up and don't know what to say. Hope this helps

ABeCreativeUsername · Answer

I voted A because I used to be like that with my bf, direct eye contact made me kind of scared and insecure but I got used to it now haha I guess she's just shy but if she still looks at you she might like you

lostgirl_searching · Answer

Shy attraction, I avoid eye contact with this guy I really like and he always stares at me and when he finally focus on something I stare at him... if you like her, try talking to her

nobuddyaskinfoit · Answer

Uh, I do this because i'm blind. Literally was staring at a guy I normally ignore because I think he's cute, but I couldn't tell who he was from far away so I stared right at him, for a while hahah

Ilikechampagne · Answer

I'm extremely shy, and I'm usually especially shy around cuter guys. It's probably less scary for her to make eye contact from a distance, I know it is for me. I think she's into you.

Anonymous · Answer

That sounds like me, I can make eye contact from a distance with the guy I like but close up its kind of nerve wracking and he always stares which makes it worse.
Try not to do that to her too much, it might scare her off

Anonymous · Answer

I'm shy, i can't maintain eye contact when my crush is close by... but i don't really stare from a distance either, unless i don't have my glasses on in which case if he's standing far away i probably can't even make out it's him.

Anonymous · Answer

You've just explained me. When I'm right next to or near my crush I freeze and tell myself 'DONT... LOOK..' but as soon as im a desk or two away from him im al over him aha

Anonymous · Answer

Well I'm pretty shyand i doe this sometime even if I don't like the person, but id also do it if I did, so I guess maybe try to talk to her and see what happens next!

been_waiting · Answer

It could potentially mean she's attracted to you but it isn't guaranteed. But I would assume so

Cherrybomb82 · Answer

She feels intimated by you, she likes you but for some reason she feels you are out of her league.

Cutiepietyra · Answer

That's me right now. So I would say A that she most likely likes you.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm shy and if I was that girl it would be a mixture of A and B.

Anonymous · Answer

I literally ignore my crush. I do stare when he's at distance but when he's near I go all shy, embarrassed and nervous.

2250347 · Answer

I am so shy when it comes to seeing my crush so trust me she's interested she's just scared you don't feel the same way.

xuewu · Answer

does she look away when she long distance stares? or does she keep the eye contact going until you break it?

Anonymous · Answer

I used to do that too.. There was this guy I really liked but whenever he would even walk past I'd blush. But then I would stare at him by accident from far away. She's probably into you

Chris011 · Answer

Probably because she finds you attractive haha.

breastman69 · Answer

If U like her go & talk with her Silly !!

rosacanina · Answer

She's so into you !

jonwhit · Answer

she's not sure of herself answemrine

Anonymous · Answer

thats me in class lol.

Anonymous · Answer

I'll go A.

Iron_Man · Answer

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