I know this girl. She is my class mate. I don't know why but she makes eye contact with me. I have noticed her several times. I have a crush on her, though I am very shy and a bit awkward as well. She is also a bit shy. But I have noticed her making eye contact specifically with me rather than other guys. I noticed her staring at me, and when we made eye contact, she suddenly stared down. Sometimes, I also try to make contact with her which I think she perceives, but does not respond. I can also perceive her staring secretly at me. But sometimes I think I am just delusional. I am in a great dilemma because this is my very first experience. I just need your honest and educated opinion people π₯Ί
I understand it's your first experience. I genuinely can understand if you feel shy.
Personally I can't stand like worrying so I'm the type to just face things head on. That being said in my life I have found just getting to know people being straightforward and honest is the best way in life.
I would just talk to her. Start by saying hello. Strike up a conversation. Ask how she is doing. Where her next class is if it's ok if you walk with her. Tell her you've noticed her quite often and would like to get to know her a little better. Ask her if she would like to be friends.
My boyfriend started off as my friend. But it took only a few times we spoke for me to realize I was interested in him. We laugh and talk and joke and do things we have in common with each other. But everytime it's so fun and when I realized oh boy I REALLY like him Chile I just told him straight up. I think I like you. He said I KNOW I LIKE YOU.
My heart was racing so fast! I fell in love with how honest straight forward he is. He takes control knows what he wants and never pressured me. He genuinely enjoys being around me and proves it by after almost a year being around me as often as he can! I never have to guess with him and it really puts my mind at ease.
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It sounds like she may feel similarly to you. She's obviously paying attention to you and not the other guys, and she's looking at you longingly, but then looking away when you catch her.
You may want to try talking to her or asking her out. Even if she's shy, I'm sure she appreciates someone taking the initiative and making the first move.
You could start with a casual conversation and see how it goes. She sounds interested, so don't be afraid to take a chance.
You know her name. Just say "Hi (name)".
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Take it as a good sign and nothing more. If you like her try to talk to her and get to know her. You can do this by adding her on social media or getting to know someone who may introduce you to her or if you are on some speaking terms you may ask her about school assigment or something.
Eye contact is super vague but if you're sure than there's a good chance it's a positive sign. That said, eye contact will not get you anywhere. Go talk to her if you like her. you don't have to hit on her, just do a vibe check. If the eye contact was because she's into you then you'll see more signals than just staring.
positive sign she likes you, she looked down because she is shy when you saw he staring. as hard as it is when you are shy, maybe smile next time at her
Eye contact is trivial. It doesn't count for much.
Really tough to say. Sometimes eye contact means they like you, other times itβs just coincidence. Try talking to her.
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