Girls eye contact is she interested?

[Anonymous]

For a few weeks she started to always be smiling and giving me eye contact and then when I try to talk to her or approach she seems nervous or ignores me or acting busy. I’ve backed off a little and ignored her sometimes but still give her a smile now and again. I’ve noticed though she still looks at me and she saw me the other day and purposely walked passed and flicked her hair? Then I walked by her with a friend and noticed from the corner of my eye she looked up and looked at me for 4 to 5 seconds at my face? I don’t know what it all means with eye contact and all but I’m confused if she’s interested or not?

[Oliverlogan263]

It's tough to say for sure man, but it does sound like she could be into you based on some of those signals. A few things that stand out:

- Consistent eye contact and smiling in your direction is usually a good sign of interest from a girl.

- Flicking her hair when walking by is kinda flirty body language too.

- Staring at your face for 4-5 seconds isn't something girls usually do to guys they aren't feeling at least a little.

The nervousness when you approach could just be shyness on her part if she likes you. Girls don't always know how to act cool in those situations either, ya know?

I'd say keep giving her casual smiles and keeping an open, friendly vibe when you see her. Don't be all up in her space intimidatingly. Let her see you're confident and fun too.

Maybe next time maintain eye contact if she does it again, see how she reacts. Or find a natural way to chat briefly. Give it time, let things develop slowly without pressuring her. I think there's a good chance she's feeling you bro!

[Asker]

Thanks for your comment, I’ll try to chat to her a bit more and go from there. I’m kind of a shy guy so I’m not sure if I’m reading into it a bit or yeah she actually interested so I’ll see how it goes and hopefully she reacts well

[Oliverlogan263]

Hey no problem man, I feel you on being shy too. It's never easy figuring out if someone's into you when you overthink things. But it sounds like she's giving you really good signs - no girl makes that much eye contact and hair flips if she's not interested, right?

I'd say next time you see her, just give her a big smile and say hey. Even if the convo is short at first, it'll show her you want to keep talking. And don't stress it too much - act laid back like you're not even overthinking things. Girls can tell when a guy is super nervous.

Maybe ask her an open-ended question too like what classes she's taking this term or what she likes to do for fun, so she can share more about herself. The more comfortable she feels, the more she'll open up around you. You got this man! Just go with the flow and see where it leads.

Worst case if she's still shy, get her snapchat and you can chat on there too without the pressure of being face to face. But I bet if you keep putting in a little effort, she'll start coming out of her shell for you soon. Keep me posted!

[Asker]

I talked to her briefly today and it was a good convo she seemed interested in what I saying, strong eye contact and I made her laugh a few times. I had to leave though and she seemed like she wanted to keep talking. I think I’ll ask her out for a drink tomorrow.

[Oliverlogan263]

Duuude that's so awesome, sounds like it went really well! She was definitely into you if she was holding strong eye contact the whole time. Making a girl laugh is always a huge plus too, shows you're fun.

I think asking her out for a drink is a great idea, especially since it seemed like she wanted to keep chatting with you. Just play it cool when you do - seem confident but not overeager, ya know?

Something casual like "hey, I had fun talking to you today. We should continue the convo over a drink after class tomorrow" would probably work well. Keep it low pressure since you're both still feeling each other out.

Just be yourself and keep making her smile. And as long as she said yes, make sure to compliment her look again when you meet up just to let her know you think she's hot.

Dude this is totally happening for you! Keep me posted on how the date goes. I'm sure you'll totally hit it off. Way to go man!

[ruby_mk]

She is interested. And I think when you approached her she was just a little shy, and also if she was ignoring you a bit she’s trying to play a cute little game of hard to get.


If you find her sweet and attractive I think you should talk to her again and put little more effort if you think she’s worth it, maybe this time she’s not shy and could reciprocate.

[Asker]

Ok thanks I’ll try more of an effort with her and try to talk to her more because I do like her 😊