Dealing with a stubborn girlfriend, help?

[Anonymous]

How to deal with a stubborn, cold girlfriend? I would always make the calls and text her, she would never do any efforts from her side, that wasn't the case in our early days... I know she likes me a lot and all but I don't like to play such games.

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I told her two days ago that I love her, she didn't respond but rather said she's out of words.

[PapayaSeed]

Tell her how you feel, and that relationships are a two-way street. She needs to put in more effort on her end. Good luck!

Would you look at mine please? It's called "Does this behavior mean that he's losing interest?" in the relationships category. Thanks!

[XRabbitHeartX]

Communication is the only way to get somewhere. Likely she won't change if she does't know how badly it's affecting the relationship. Be real with her, be honest and say her behavior is disrespectful considering how she makes no effort.

[Apples09]

I think you should not text her for a little while and see what she does, most women will get concerned and start to text or call.

[Asker]

Yes but I don't want to play this game.. I'm 25 she's 24 and we speak about mariage, no childish things I want to deal with this matter the mature way, she knows I don't like the fact that she doesn't text me or try to call.

[NerdInDenial]

Stop calling her or texting her first and see how she reacts. Otherwise, you need to communicate to her how you feel. Are you sure she's happy in the relationship?

[Asker]

She is we just spent Valentine's day together... how can I deal with this issue the mature way, im fed up of always calling and sending texts first, It's like i'm doing everything in the relationship, even Valentine's day i suprised her, she did nothing for me.