Is it true that if you ignore a girl she will notice you more?

[Anonymous]

i have heard this a few times. even one girl told me 'just treat her like Bitch and she will like you'. Im no girl expert at all but that doesn't sound right at all. i thought she was messing but she kept saying it

[zorro8888]

If you were paying a lot of attention to her and complimenting her etc... and then you stop paying her attention and are less coy about the way you speak to her then obviously she'd notice the change in you more... that doesn't mean she'd like it. It might make her think you hate her now even though she is paying more attention to you.

So it's not worth it.

[Asker]

that make sense, the girl has been ignoring me though since she found out i like her which is upsetting, id still like to be friends

[zorro8888]

So you know she's not interested now and you want to be friends... then start being her friend.
Act as normal as you did before and soon she'll forget about it and you guys are back at that stage again. She's probably ignoring you because she thinks you'll make it awkward so be natural.

[Asker]

yeah true, ill try to act normal around her. hopefully after last Thursday she won't still be ignoring me

[SomeHopeLeft]

don't ignore her to get her attention, ignore her so that you can move on and when you get over it you will find yourself able to talk to her without fear, the only drawback is you wouldn't feel the same way

[Asker]

well this girl was ignoring me for 2 months because she found out i like her so i just ignored her back but she came over to my party on Thursday and to be fair i was drunk so i spoke to her but i found i still really like her. i have had a crush on her for three years like, can't seem to shake it

[SomeHopeLeft]

the best way to get over her is to cut contact, you can even explain it to her so you wouldn't look like a douche, if she doesn't respect that then she is only thinking about herself, in a way you are drawing boundaries, which for some unexplained reason attracts some women even more, but it is only when you actually stop giving a shit the magic happens but everything you do, you must do for your own benefit

[Asker]

that sort of make sense actually, thanks

[SomeHopeLeft]

just remember, it's up to her to say something, you already put your feelings out there, but don't be angry towards her

[Faye4ever]

The girl has to have an initial attraction towards you. She has to be already interested. If there is a guy who she never talked much who is ignoring her, then it won't make a difference because there was no want for him to begin with.

Basically you can't get attention from someone who barely knows you, or isn't even trying to get with you, period.

[Asker]

well me and this girl know each other and talked and hungout a lot but she is now ignoring me since she found out i like her

[BuchitaBuchys]

If you ignore a girl, maybe yes, it might work on them. Lots of young and dumb girls think they have Wonder Woman pussy something and they can "change" a man. -_-

If you ignore a woman though, it will probably backfire. If a man were to ignore me, I'd take it as he isn't interested and move on to someone who reciprocates my attention/affection.

[Asker]

yeah i get what you are saying, there is this girl that i like and we talked a lot and hungout but now she has been ignoring me for over two months now since she found out that i like her

[Account]

Well, I am sure it can work for certain girls.
All I can say is that it can't work with me.
I like clingy guys, so if a guy I'm interested in ignores me or tries to pursue another girl, I lose interest immediately. I even blame/get mad at myself for even liking him.

[Asker]

haha i know what you mean, i liker a girl who is ignoring me and i am so mad i like her. and still do

[Mikaychay95]

Well my former crush did this (still does) to me. It made me think he didn't like me and couldn't be around me and basically everything else relating to that. I noticed him because I liked him but if it was a guy I didn't like I don't know if I would notice.

[Asker]

well a girl found out i have a crush on her and since then she has ignored me for the last two months, i didn't talk to here for a while just to give her some space, she did come to my house party on Thursday though and we spoke a while but i still like her a lot

[Anonymous]

Nope. A guy tried that with me and it hurt me instead. We were getting along really well. We were joking around and flirting. He took me out a few times. Then one day he just stopped. He wouldn't talk to me. I later found out that he liked me, but he was playing the 'hard to get' game because someone told him to. Our relationship was never the same after that. I felt resentment after that. We still talk to each other, but we're no longer close.

My advice is to not do that.

[Asker]

well a girl found out that i liked her and she is ignoring me which is upsetting, or the last two months not a word from her but she did go to my party on Thursday and we spoke for a bit

[Opinion Owner]

She likely isn't interested back. However you could keep trying to talk to her. I think if you ignore her it's just going to drive you crazy when she ignores you back. She's already been ignoring you for two months. I can't really see that having an affect on her. Just ask her to hang out one on one or something. I know you're scared of the rejection, but in this case I think it's going to hurt you in the long run. I honestly don't see how ignoring her is going to help matters. It makes it worse.

[Anonymous]

It is kind of true, but it is not a good thing. Also if you've never talked before and you ignore her it's whatever. But if you talk to her often then start ignoring her she'll be curious as to why. P. s. a guy I liked did that to me before but he made the mistake of telling his friend and his friend told me so I ignored him too until he got the message. xD

[Asker]

well we used to talk a lot but she found out i have a crush on her and she has been ignoring me for the last two months and its driving me crazy

[MAJ4251]

That only applies to immature, insecure women that don't know what it's like to be in a healthy, loving relationship.
No woman with any self respect is going to put up with that mess.

[Asker]

thats what i would of thought,

[Izzy2102]

Only if she already liked you and even then she'll wonder what's wrong with her and eventually move on. So in short, no

[Asker]

well the thing is is that i like her and she found out, she has been ignoring me for two months and its driving me crazy, Thursday she came to my party and i was a little drunk so i spoke to her for only a while but some girl told me to ignore her

[Izzy2102]

In this case I think ignore her is good advice for you, to move on, not to get her. Or if you have never told her directly, you have two option really. Ask her out and live with the result or move on

[Asker]

well i was never going to ask her out, its just a pity she found out. i have liked her for 3 years too but i have always tried to forget about it but its hard

[sarawelsh122]

This does not work at all. Someone will get hurt. She will either think your a Complete douche or will take how your treating her personally. Try actually being nice it gets your further

[Asker]

yeah thats what i would of thought.

[sarawelsh122]

Yea and for the others saying that it works on some girls.. It only works on the girls who might be naive or are about 14 and having a guy notice them for the first time. Do you really want to base a relationship on a power type of relationship?

[Asker]

nope, not at all

[Marihorror]

The type of girls that fall for that are not the girls you want to be dating. Do you really want a girl who likes being treated like shit?

[Asker]

nope not at all. i did found it weird when i heard that

[Anonymous]

If a guy treats me like shit I just assume he's a douche and it turns me off 1000%. If a guy ignores me completely I assume he's not interested and I move on. The best thing to do if you like a girl is to act like it and not play games about it

[Asker]

well i tried that and the girl just ignores me now, i really like her and if i can't be with her thats fine, i would like to be friends at least

[Opinion Owner]

Have you considered that she just doesn't feel the same way? If she feels the same way and you're forward about it, it will get you more places than if you do the opposite. The way it sounds is that you haven't just straight out told her how you feel. I think you should try that to be honest

[Asker]

well i know for a fact she doesn't feel the same way, its why i didn't tell her how i felt about her, i felt i was lucky enough to be friends with her. i have liked her for two years but we only started talking a few months ago, i think she would be creeped out if i told her that. Plus she doesn't talk to me anymore anyway, hopefully i can resolve it soon, thanks for the advice :)

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, that's a sticky situation but ignoring her won't work if she already doesn't feel the same way. Sorry :/ There will be other girls you like that will feel the same way. Good luck with everything though

[Asker]

thanks :) to be fair i think you are right, it has been really a strange week, the amount of attention of i have gotten from girls this week is crazy, i got 7 numbers in the last few days. i didn't even ask for them. this has never happened before so lol

[smexiliciousss]

its very true but it never works out bc when u decide to stop playin and admit that u like her, she'll be grossed out and all like 'i won the game so bye'

[smexiliciousss]

oh also only applies if she's attracted to you

[KBob93]

Kind of goes back to the complaint that girls fall for douchebags all the time, & she's promoting that.

[Asker]

well not all girls would go after a douchebag i assume. it doesn't make sense like. Most girl would like a nice guy who treats them nice i'd assume

[Anonymous]

No way, don't be 'that guy'. Show interest in her and make her feel special. Why would anyone want to feel ignored? I'd feel as though they wouldn't be interested anymore. Hope that helps :)

[Asker]

oh i really do not want to be that guy, she however is ignoring me since she found out i like her which is rather upsetting

[Opinion Owner]

Oh no that sucks :( well make sure you don't get in her way or make her feel uncomfortable but just try and build up the relationship again, even if it does mean that you just have to stay friends :)

[miserybusiness]

treat her like a bitch and she'll become one

ever been bitch slapped, kiddo?

[Asker]

ha actually i got slapped last night right in the face haha but i would never treat a girl badly. i was just wondering is what i heard true

[Anonymous]

No that would make her think you are not into her, you hate her, she'll think you find her ugly etc etc.

But generally girls will ignore the guy they like.

[Asker]

well she is ignoring me since she found out i like her,

[Opinion Owner]

Check her body language, she'll definitely leave some signs. If she's a shy girl (Check out her bf history) then you have to try harder.
Plus if you're good at reading gestures then look into her eyes since eyes are window to the soul , you'll find your answer there.

[Asker]

yeah she is really shy and has never had a bf before. thanks for the advice :)

[Opinion Owner]

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[htown_stoner281]

depends on the girl... with most girls it will work because most girls are into douchebags

[Asker]

ah come on, that can't be true. why would a girl like a douchebag, it really doesn't make sense

[htown_stoner281]

girls dont make sense... none of us guys will ever under stand

[Asker]

well its true it hard to understand them at times

[Cowboy6666]

No instead of ignoring her make her jealous... She will... :V

[Cowboy6666]

Or try to fart in front of her... She will definitely... Notice u... Bahahaha

[Asker]

well the girl knows i like her but she is ignoring me which sucks

[Rjg1013]

You dont have to ignore her just dont smother her. Like dont be a dick but dont be easy. Basically everygirl wants some type of challenge

[ciciking22]

Nope !! ill just move on...