Apparently she started crying after one night stand? What do I do?

[Anonymous]

Had a one night stand last week, and when she went to the bathroom i left.

Today i bumped into one of her housemates who told me she started crying after I'd left.

should i contact her to ask about it?

Updates

+1 y

Right quick update, I'd met her that same night (she's a friend of a friend).

I should've said bye but i didn't realise it would cause that much upset!!!

[lalapants]

regardless if it was a 1 night stand u say bye duh!!! so like what you was at her house or what.. u screwed in her place so uh you say something when u leave. that was trashy as hell. bro hookers got more respect then that. Its called closing the deal no matter if its a friends with benefits, one nighter... whatever. So like did y'all do it on the street then? because that makes sense screw next to the dumpster then leave. but if you was in my house theirs a level of trust in that. Common courtesy to tell the person who let you screw in their bed... so hey uh bye !!

[OpinionatedFemale]

Did she know you only wanted a one night stand? She obviously thought it was more then that and trusted you enough to sleep with you. If you don't like her there is no point in contacting her. You already broke her heart.

[SakuraChii]

I agree with not owing her anything since its a one night stand, it's not like she's a friends with benefits or that you know her right? but it is polite to at least say bye.

[Anonymous]

If you're a decent guy you should. Some of us can't handle one night stands. I did it once and still feel bad about it 20 years later.

[MrScTi]

Why the hell would you sneak out without saying anything? That's disrespectful, especially when she trusted you'd be there when she got out.

What are you going to ask her about? Pee or poo? Did your cum touch the sheets? Dude... I'm sensing troll. 7/10. Good job.

[Anonymous]

Treat your ONSs well. Sex regret is one of the things that can realistically cause a false rape accusation. They're rare, but making a girl feel like shit after sex is a good way to paint a crosshair on your back. And it's just decent to treat them well.

[linkywinky]

It was a one night stand you don't owe her anything.

[Bysshe]

It would polite not to sneak out when she goes to the bathroom though.

[Anonymous]

Women get emotionally involved in sex, even when they think or say they won't. She was most likely crying for regret or an after realization of her moral undoing. This is often when false rape accusations happen. Luckily you had witnesses there so you don't have to fear that, but I wouldn't call if I was you. I would just let it disintegrate.

[Bysshe]

I take it you gave her no indication that you were leaving? Perhaps she'd been under the impression you had some interest in her and didn't just view her as a lay.

[Bysshe]

"I should've said bye but i didn't realise it would cause that much upset!"

Seriously? That didn't occur to you? I'd be pissed off if anyone I'd had around just left while I was out of the room - whether or not we'd been screwing.

[Chick180]

He's a special kind of stupid.

[Bysshe]

@Chick180 Either that or a troll

[GreatnessPersonified]

Yeah, give her a call.
Ask her what happened. Maybe she didn't know it was a one-night stand.
Was the one-night stand rules established?

[Chick180]

You could've said bye you know...

[jmmmfi]

So you just ran out on her? That's pretty shitty