Girls, Why girls never text first?

[charles12]

There is a girl in my class that attracts me a lot and every time I text her she answers right back, but when the conversation is over she never text me first. Should i text her?

[Bliss-taylor]

Hard to get. Guys love that game. You show a little interest but make them work for your attention (that they obviously already have) and the guy will most likely stay interested longer. It causes infatuation. It's classic. Every girl learns this. If you play it back you can switch roles with her. Then you will be in control.
Or she's not interested. ( But if she acts interested in person then that's not the case)
Or she doesn't want to seem needy.
If you are paying attention it shouldn't be that hard to figure out. Go off of how she acts around you.

[Jellybeansr]

We're assholes who are too full of pride to admit we like/need you.

Actually I can't speak for everyone, just mee

[LilyOfTheValley22]

Some girls have this incapability to start a new conversation because they are really insecure, wondering lots of tings such as "did I said something wrong?" "does he likes me or he thinks I am a loser?" "why did this convo was shorter than the other one? clearly I said something stupid, so I should let him make the first step so I would not be the fooled one if he doesn't want to speak with me anymore".

[Kirstin08]

A lot of it is biology, my friend, from way back in the caveman days. Consciously or not, we all like being pursued, its hardwired into our female DNA even now. We have an innate desire to be preferred over others, and when you text us first it lets us know we are.
Literally just had an exam on this today, ha, great timing! (:

[justbanANNAz]

#generalisation44 PUHLEASE. we ain't all like this.

altho i know some chicks like that so i get u. anyway, text her, but dont force ur attention on her.
i hate saying this, but most people who dont ever text first are either busy or just not interested in having a convo at the time.

[smileymiley96]

ooooo kinda sounds like an iffy either she doesn't want to talk to you or she's one of those girls that likes to have a guy text her first... if i were you id wait a couple of weeks and see if she texts you first

[Anette1256]

Yes! She's probably always waiting on your texts... trust me she wants to text you but she don't know what to ask or she could think her text aren't interesting as yours. Keep texting man! :)

[RationalLioness]

It may not be about texting first. If I have nothing to say to you or anything interesting that might provoke a conversation, then I won't message. She may be like me.

[mrsdani7]

The guy is supposed to chase the girl. Its the mans job. We let the guys come to us. If they are really interested they will put an effort to get to know us better. Thats probably what's going on with u and that girl.

[Gabbyy]

If you like her, you should be nice and start the conversation, maybe she is shy or she doesn't wanna bother you. Anyway, girls like to be chased.

[notsherlock]

In my case I always let him text first because I don't want to be the stereotypical clingy girl. I've been trying to balance clingy and disinterested, but it's difficult. That may just be the case for your girl.