Rejected the arm around her?

[Anonymous]

I went over to girls house whom I previously met safely from internet in front of the gym. I brought over a movie then low and behold that was the type she was telling me she didn't like! So I told her to take it out and we can played some xbox. Then I put in one of her sappy movies that she hadn't finished watching. Tried just easing my way over and putting my arm around her she told me that was to much?

So I jumped up and sat on other side of couch and started texting other girls. Watched movie for little bit and ran out the door and said bye lol..

She texted me and said she liked me yadayada I'm old fashioned. I've never gotten a reaction like that I didn't know what to do.

[asdg12]

I'm sorry but this seems to be your fault. You screwed up and that's why the arm around got rejected. Despite her interest if you play the wrong cards it'll backfire. She was just letting you know that if you play it right and not screw up she will reciprocate that feeling. You said you played a movie that she didn't like, so obviously she will be a little upset that you did that. Then you suggested XBOX!? Are you serious? I'm sorry but even if she likes to play you don't do that one-one with her. What were you thinking? And then the sappy movie, look I know you tried to play things cool here but your three strikes were up and she wasn't having any of it. The text later was to let you know that you screwed up and a reminder not to do it again. All I can say was this was your fault and you fault only. Your rhythm was broken by the bad movie and you continued to slide downward, and she didn't like that. So I say in a few days try again, but you must play your cards right and not let her down again. Show her that you acknowledged her advice and used it, and next time your smooth and won't reject the arm around movement.

[Anonymous]

She was uncomfortable an felt it was too early for the physical move. You jumping to the other side and texting may have sent her the message that all she is is an object and you have to grope her to be close to her. This is a behavior women would think a guy who is only out for one thing would make. Afterwards, you RAN out. I have no idea why she texted you, I wouldn't have unless she really likes you and felt the way she rejected you was wrong. She was simply uncomfortable.