How can a girl be really beautiful but also really humble and kind? Doesn't beauty lead to vanity?

[Anonymous]

[Caramel_creme]

Not absolutely sure if this is true.

1. On the one hand, beautiful people are privileged. Thus life is easier for them, they get things to go their way. Also people automatically trust them more, think they are more competent and like them more. So this could make them a bit spoilt, and feel entitled in a sense... On the other hand they could be less jaded than ugly people, who experience more hardships.

2. I don't think beauty brings vanity. I actually see more average looking people vain than beautiful people. Vanity comes from an over importance on superficial beauty... Associating a person's value to physical looks. This is a mind set, independent of whether you are beautiful or not. And depends on your upbringing, cultural influences etc.

[Enaya]

Some guys and girls are actually just kind. People see pretty women and think they are haughty, when they are just shy or lonely because everyone is avoding them by assuming things.

[Anonymous]

No because the most beautiful woman in the world can look in the mirror and see her own flaws and feel insecure about them. Not all beautiful women can see their own beauty

[Asker]

That makes a lot of sense.

[twobitcoder]

So, based on the many comments here, A) Men are intimidated by beautiful women and see beauty, not flaws, and B) Beautiful women see only flaws and insecurity, don't believe they're pretty, so C) Dysfunction is the name of the game. This is all genetic and instinct talking. If you believe your conscious mind is in charge of ANY of these thoughts or behaviors, forget it. You are serving your instincts, your DNA is calling the shots.

Guys, tell yourself, "She's insecure, so what does she really want to hear?"
Girls, tell yourself, "He's nervous, so what can I do to make him feel confident?"

[ConsultantIsBack]

No way. Many people misjudge confidence as vanity or just assume they are vain ( I've seen it many times on gag).

[beyoutiful700]

Many of us girls don't believe we're beautiful, no matter how many people tell us we are. therefore, they don't become vain.

[AlexaAle]

Maybe she has gone through some stuff in her life and made her realise what's more important in life.
Or maybe she doesn't see herself that way.

[Anonymous]

Just because she is beautiful to others she may not see herself in the same way others see her, beauty does not always lead to vanity.

[TadCurious]

No. Just because a woman is beautiful doesn't prevent her from being humble and kind. To think otherwise is just superficial.

[Anonymous]

They probably are very insecure and do not think they are beautiful.

[Anonymous]

She can be beautiful certainly but sexiness requires confidence.

[Anonymous]

That strikes me as quite childish, tbh. Of course she can be humble and kind.

[karahiri]

no, beauty doesn't always lead to vanity.

[Anonymous]

Of course not, only if they're taught to be like that

[Pvt_Nutzack]

Beauty does not have to be physical or cosmetic

[apple24]

No... in what planet do you live in?

[Entity]

Vanity has nothing to do with physicality.