That girl sounded lke she was being sarcastic and bitchy to put a show on for her friends. I can't stand cocky arrogant guys not only because they are obnoxious but because they are usualyl very pretentious and dumb. Anyway I think that guys that are humble are usually the ones that are really smart and have a lot going on intellectually and the good guys are the ones that everyone is looking for. Some girls prefer bad boys that are "exciting and dangerous" but usually get burned and others like me prefer guys that are "safe, humble and kind" and that usually ends up well even though others might consider a stable relationship "boring". Keep on being a good humble guy and you will end up on top. : )
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It is attractive, to the right woman for you. It won't be attractive to some girls because they want someone cocky and arrogant guy that treats them like they're nothing. But where does that end up? Nowhere nice that's for sure.
Being nice and humble is quite rare these days, that doesn't mean it is unnattractive, theyre wonderful qualities to have and I admire you for being that way!
Theres plenty of girls out there who will appreciate this and love you the way you are. And those women that you attract will be ones that will have a meaningful relationship.
I would have said to her, "I suppose that that is your problem and not mine if you find nice humble guys boring."
I would of been like "let me show you just how boring nice a humble can be!" haha
Being nice and humble IS attractive. Take the actor Ein somerhalder. Yeah he's got the looks, but if you watch his interview videos, chicks are commenting on how humble he is and compassionate for animals and people.
The problem with people who are nice and humble is they ARE ALSO boring. "typical nice guy" You gotta have more than that, but if your do, then having those first 2 traits adds extra points. Think between being a nice guy and a jerk. Having only the good traits from each character. I recommend checking this out if you need those other traits:
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Well, you should have proved her wrong by firing a witty comeback at her. I mean, by saying "oh, really", you pretty much just confirmed what she thought about you.
But to answer your question, being nice and humble are attractive qualities to have, but they need to be balanced by having a bit of an edge whether it's confidence, a bit of subtle swagger, intelligence, wit, etc.
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I think being nice and humble attracts everyone. Though it depends on your intention of being nice. If you're only nice to score chicks than it's a douchy thing to do. You'll be seen as a fake. If you're generally nice and humble than it's cool. People will like you no matter what gender or age.
In your story she's either trying to get a rise out of you or just being nasty. She could also be drunk.yes, both guys I liked in my life and fell hard for them were the nice and humble type.
Yes it is attractive! but it is boring if your TOO nice.
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