Haha, @Baranishere...
You ask a very good question. If you understand what I'm about to tell you, you have a chance to get the hottest guy around.
Firstly, pretty girls and hot guys are not unapproachable. What I mean by this, is that there is no inherent quality of a hot person that makes him/her unapproachable.
The reason he/she is perceived to be unapproachable... is all because of... YOU. You have placed him/her on this altar or pedestal, where you knowingly or unknowingly believe that your attractiveness is not at the same level.
This means that most average-looking men and women are too afraid or feel unworthy to approach a super hot guy/girl. On the other end of the spectrum, most average-looking men and women have no problem speaking to unattractive ones.
Now... REVERSE...
From the perspective of the hot girl...
Hot girls are rarely approached. It is a very common complaint among supermodels and ultra-attractive women that they can't get a guy. Or when a guy actually approaches her, it is a douchebag. This is because many aggressive alpha-males have the guts to ask EVERY woman... average or attractive. And so while the average women gets approached by a mix of nice/douchebag men, the hot girl only gets approached by... douchebag men.
Hot girls and guys are human being just like you and me. And if they want happiness in their lives, they want a STABLE, LOYAL partner.
The only time that the average man thinks about asking a hot girl out... is when that hot girl already has a boyfriend that looks like an average guy. Because then the man will think, "What the hell is that gorgeous woman doing with that ugly guy... I'm better than him"". But by then, it's already too late. She's taken.
So if you want that hot guy, go and ask. The worst that can happen is he says no. If you never ask, you'll never know for your entire life what could have been. The reverse is true for guys... go ask her out.103 Reply- +1 y
Please put this as MHO. Perfectly accurate. What a wonderful answer! This is 100000% on point!
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Oh my goodness, this is so true!!! Even my own husband was afraid to ask me out because I'm hotter than him. I had to ask him out! I get chased by all sorts of undesirable men, but the nice ones are all afraid of how pretty I am and the fact that hoards of other guys want me. It's to the point where really pretty girls sometimes get stuck trying to chase down a decent man. Ha ha ha. I hope more men read your post.
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1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Because more often than not they act stuck up and sometimes do that simple-minded thing where you walk by and you do give a "Hello" or "How are you doing?" and they look you right in the eye and say nothing.
You can't think the world of yourself and be unapproachable yet want guys to want you.1113 Reply- +1 y
@Pejtu I'd say that's the girl's issue, dude. I once dated the hottest girl in class when I was in school. Some guys were jealous of me, even my 'friends', plenty of guys were hitting on her and immediately waiting for our relationship to fail. I didn't care, it was just background noise to me. I just focused on myself.
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The word âAttractiveâ means to âAttractâ
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So a pretty looking girl may be stuck up and won't say hi to the guy first. But why won't the guy say hi first? some girls don't make the firdt move because guys will think they're "desperate, or chasing the guy" so yeah we wait for the guy to start. That doesn't mean a girl is stuck up. If guys claim a girl is stuck up, they're clearly jealous of her
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@StarShine98 Really the guy should be saying hi first. Itâs tough for a guy to say hi but for a man to say hi to a lady that heâs interested in is the very first step in showing the potential that if ever they get more serious in the relationship that the man can make his woman feel safe.
Women who want a man want a man to make them feel like they donât have to be tough because their man is doing it for them.
The man isnât curling up into a ball in the corner when someone breaks into a home.
He protects his wife and children even if he does trying.
So if the guy faces his fear of being rejected by just saying hi then that can possibly show potential to how strong of a man that he can be. - +1 y
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+1 yProbably because if a guy even says âhelloâ to some of these women today, heâs likely to have a sexual harassment case against him. Iâm not saying you would do that, but a lot of these women would which would make it scary to even approach a woman at all. Not to mention a lot of guys assume pretty women are either taken or not interested and then there are some who prefer to date lesser attractive women. Not all beautiful women are stuck up bitches.
I think beauty is both a blessing and a curse to many women, but youâll find someone 😊71 Reply- +1 y
Lol wonder why I got downvoted?
+1 yI think it's all body language, no resting b face and not being afraid to look someone in the eye and smile. While also not treating or acting like you are better than everyone just because of your looks
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If you Google "Beautiful Girl Syndrome", that's basically saying that beautiful girls can be bitchier and high maintenance because guys are willing to put up with more because she is so beautiful. Guys won't put up with so much shit and work if the girl isn't so attractive.
"Beautiful Girl Syndrome Type II" is a phrase I coined, but it's a real thing I discovered not quite 40 years ago. This will take some time to explain...
All guys need to feel that they can "win". They view things as something like a competition in which there is some goal that they want to achieve. If a guy wants something and he believes that there is SOME possibility that he may get it, he will get emotionally involved. If he begins to believe that he won't get that, then he begins to withdraw and get emotionally detached. However, sometimes a guy doesn't even think he has a chance, so he doesn't bother...
And this is where "Beautiful Girl Syndrome Type II" comes in. If a girl is really beautiful, a regular guy thinks:
1. There are a zillion other guys who want her.
2. She almost certainly already has a boyfriend.
3. There is no way she'd be attracted to me; I am not anything special.
4. If she did date me, she'd dump me for some better-looking guy who will hit on her and there definitely will be such a guy.
5. She's going to be bitchy and high maintenance. (In other words, he's thinking she suffers from normal Beautiful Girl Syndrome.)
So, he basically thinks that
1) he doesn't have a chance to get her,
2) if he did, he'll lose her, and
3) she's going to be a lot of work.
Because oceans of guys think like this - the only exception being the hunky guys - the beautiful girl either can't find a guy or goes with dickhead hunky guys (who suffer from Beautiful Guy Syndrome). Of course, the regular guys see the beauties with the hunky guys and that just reinforces their belief that they don't have a chance...
Oh, and one more thing: Since the beautiful girls can get guys, they are getting laid... So, any new boyfriend has to "compete" against all of her past lovers and many guys don't think they are going to "measure up" (if you know what I mean) compared to those past hunky guys.
So, a beautiful girl needs to be proactive and hit on men instead of waiting for them to hit on her. A beautiful girl being proactive removes doubts males have regarding Beautiful Girl Syndrome Type 2.10 Reply
+1 yShe's perceived to be high value and unobtainable by most guys, if she is very attractive. I suppose you could say it's a lack of confidence, but it's also a feeling of "She's probably already taken, or probably only goes for millionaires and professional athletes, etc." Ironically leading to many attractive women not being approached at all. Average women seem to be more obtainable, so they get hit on the most.
See, when a bunch of women like a guy, it tells other women he is desirable and cool.
When a bunch of men are after the same woman, it tells other men "There's a shitload of competition here, so you are not valuable enough."
It could be her mannerisms or closed off body language, as well.
You could call it a lack of confidence, but I feel that's not entirely accurate, as it's also just questioning whether the risk is worth it, if she will blow them off or look down on them as far beneath her.
The guys who realize that that's not the case tend to win the most. So only the most confident guys go after the most attractive women, usually. Most guys prefer to go after seemingly more "obtainable" women.60 Reply- 3.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yI was very introverted and shy, so from my younger days at that age:
* Not feeling confident
* Actually being attracted and thus running the other direction.. thus intimidated in that I had no dating experience or girl experience.
* perception of her being a different person... e. g. in a diff social group I don't want to be part of (druggies, smokers, drinkers, partiers, etc..). Could be a mis perception.
* Her energy conveying negative emotion... e. g. stay away (in spite of all the makeup, etc..
* her hanging in a group of girls which would be even more intimidating
* don't know how to communicate with her... e. g. what to talk about
* Best you can do is convey confidence, appear approachable like a normal person, have some interests that that align with guys and learn how to mingle with them. You can't make someone ready who isn't.
* Maybe you should approach them, at least enter into their space.
Your question supposes that because she looks a certain way she should be approached. That isn't right. The guy has to be ready, have not just the interest (which is there by now at your age), but skills, practice, confidence, time/energy, and the girl has to look like she would fit in his world (e. g. she isn't so on a different level it intimidates).
The other personality would be an aggressive, experienced or outgoing guy, and why they don't approach I can only conclude they have other better options or are attracted to others.10 Reply Too b! tchy , as in really mean and you know its better ot stay away and its not worth it to get rejected by someone like her, plus her entire attitude and life choices scream bad.
too self centered, spoiled, materialistic and high maintenace, look the majority of guys aren't rich, and we are not gonna tolerate always being compared to others and never letting our guard down cause you might leave us for a rich fella, therefore such women are problematic and better to stay away from.
Too friendly with guys... kissing, hugging and genrally being too close to men is a big no no for most men, we just dont tolerate loving a woman only to find out every other dude in a 100 miles range has had his way with her or keeps touching her here and there with her consent.
The girl whom we simply have no way to reach, maybe she's great all over but i dont know her name, rarely run into her and iam just never in the mood to approach or any other reason that basically prevents me from reaching her.44 Reply- +1 y
Basically, what I said. But without the stalker trolls making it personal.
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@wolfcat87 : You have no idea how many time's I've had legitimate reason to look over my shoulder. I seem to be a magnet to freaks and troublemakers. And my dating history is a horror story. My life is like all the sucky parts of a Spider-Man comic rolled into one. Minus the villains wearing cheesy costumes.
702 opinions shared on Dating topic. âWhat makes you not want to talk to you a pretty girl?â They tend to be in most cases narcissists so I usually donât have my winter coat with me.â Is it you not feeling confident? ânot really, I am just not into getting an unnecessary ass chewing for saying hello when I am out to enjoy myself. âis it the girl not sharing similar interests with you?â Couldnât say unless I talked to her. âis it her mannerism?â I am not any good at ice sculpturing with a chainsaw âis it her shyness? is it her unfriendliness?â What happens here is she gets so much attention so that anymore from me would be harassment
âI am honestly baffled by this! â Now you know!50 Reply
+1 yThey complain about having no chance with guys because they often believe themselves to be less then they are. Guys generally don't go for pretty girls do to them believing they are out of their league and that she wouldn't be happy with them. Some are unfriendly which is a turn off, if she's shy she seems to be a bitch' for not associating with anyone, mannerisms are actually a great judge for compatibility so? yes?, similar interests definitely help start relationships, and a lack of confidence hurts the chances.
40 Reply3.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Most attractive girls tend to already be taken or are talking to multiple guys. Plus, girls these days don't do anything to show they want to be approached. You see them buried in their phones with their ear buds in. Or they're busy with something and don't look like they're interested in being bothered by a random guy that they've never met and likely have no interest in.
So its not like they make it easy on themselves.96 Reply- +1 y
Im pretty and I have the worst of luck inthe love department. Im not a stuck up arrogant lady onthe contrary im simple. Im not even taken and Im not even talking to multiple guys. I have shownn signs I im attracted to a guy but the guy seem not to be interested still me being no arrogant or narcissist or full of mysef
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It's hard to tell sometimes if guy is into you but what helps is smiling at him and if he is interested enough he might approach you
+1 yBecause 98% of men in society really donât have a clue on how to talk to or treat a pretty girl.
We are brainwashed by the media whether we like it or not.
The past 30-40 men have watched movies about guys being all needy to girls, chasing them and then at the end of the movie they get the girl.
The guy does that and realizes that itâs not how life works.
If you watch older movies, the way a guy should act is more legit.
Men are afraid of the hotter women also because the hotter they are, the more they get hit on by weirdos. The girl puts up a guard and men who want to treat women right but donât know how to stay centered and balanced fail.10 Reply
+1 y#1 is she projects "bitchiness" and "you are not the guy I want to ask me out"
#2 You try to say hi, she blows you off by not even acknowledging you or worse, "hi, whatever... im busy"
#3 They are looking for the perfect guy. Mr. Wonderful that meets ALL of their wants...
it is why when i see a guy i want to talk to or go out with, I dont waste time waiting for him to get his nerve up. If i see he is interested or he interests me, I talk to him and dont let him brush me off.
So, ask her out.. if she says NO, move on. Later, after you date some other women, go ask her out again. Word gets around amongst us girls when a guy is a good catch.11 Reply- +1 y
I don't know why guys always assume that a pretty girl is stuck up. What if they're waiting for the guy to make the first move? Because the guy may think she's desperate
Most girls have a tendency to label guys who approach them.
Most any attractive girls you talk to speaks about how some guys are so creepy. Typically the prettiest girls are the ones who rant the hardest. Not many guys want to hit on a pretty girl and get told off or rejected by someone they have a half-formed crush on and called creepy behind their back.
Even though girls often do so behind the guy's back and not to his face... It is not like there are not other guys around to hear it. It is not like girls never tell guys what they think.
Guys know they get trash talked if they fail. Why else would so many people be hesitant at the simple act of talking?11 Reply- 319 opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yIts not about their looks for me, it's how they have grown accustomed to being treated because of their looks. Pretty girls have such an easy time, everyone is nice to them and they get entitled and rude without even realising it. When they say no guys approach them what they really mean is only ugly or guys they don't class as being of high enough value approach them. My long term girlfriend was very pretty but she didn't have these traits I am not saying it's all of them but the odds of them being a bitch seem very high ime.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yit's pretty much a combination of all of them.
when approaching girls, guys trend to rate them according to an scale, you know the classical 1-10 scale, normally is difficult for guys to talk with girls we think they are above "our league", the highest she is, more difficult is to approach them.
confidense has a lot to do with this, the lower the confidense of the guy, the highest he will rate pretty girls.
also, from the exterior, shyness can be percieved has this "Ice Queen" aura that makes the girl intimidating to talk with, you know, to break the ice.
also is the idea that every pretty girl is already in a relationship, or sick and tired of being annoyed by guys when they are just enjoying their time there.
the less confident and more shy the guy is, stronger are this factors.
i hope this helps you41 Reply
Opinion Owner+1 yoh! i forgot to add, there is always the fear that the girl who they approach is one of those who loves to humiliate unwanted suitors, adding more reasons to not approach
+1 yHonestly... more often than unattractive girls, they're used to a certain amount of attention from a certain demographic. It makes them less kind, less empathetic to would be suitors... not all are like this, but a good majority. I find it's easier to see their darker nature than anyone else really as their less guarded. You never know when someone is like that from looks alone, just that with the increased odds of her attributes being soured since she's beautiful makes her more of a risk to hit me with rejection, I'm allergic to rejection... this in turn makes her unapproachable.
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Is that picture you?
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Did you just vote down my opinion and then ask me if I'm me? Please go fuck yourself.
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No, wasn't me. Rude :( I was going to compliment your pic but nvm. Just so you know I'll thumbs up your post so you know you got the wrong person
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Sorry Blue sheep owl, I'd checked in on the post and saw the dislike and the question and put them together. I apologize for getting upset and assuming.
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Well thank you for the apology đ I forgive you. I wanted to say you are attractive
+1 yLet me put it this way. Talking to pretty girls is like playing the lottery. Those of us who aren't "rich" in terms of attractiveness feel like investing in this lottery is a waste of resources since many others play and only one wins. The people that spend more resources on the lottery have a higher chance of winning. The resources I'm talking about range anywhere from looks to time to talent to money etc. To give an example, my marginal cost is way higher than my marginal benefit since my chances to win are extremely small but the reward doesn't scale to match that. I won't play the lottery because I have more important things to invest in first. If I had an increase in resources, I'd be more inclined to play, thus my 'chances of playing vs. resources' graph would look something like a normal distribution skewed somewhat to the left.
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And before you say "you're just scared of rejection" people don't refuse to play the lottery out of fear of losing. It's literally because it's a bad investment.
One reason would be confidence, ultimately in both parts in fear of being rejected. Some have already made of their mind saying "she is out of my league". Admittedly I've done that a lot. Of course, if you never try you'll never win right. Quite frankly a lot of people, just seem rather disinterested when going out. Coming across as already taken or not looking. Not much talking or facial expressions, no smiling or laughing or open body language, which is probably the essentials that make any person approachable. Add this on top of slight insecurity and you've created an invisible barrier. Which is why I've always found it easier to connect with people through sports/school/work etc, where you're more or less forced to interact, in one way or another.
But hey, I know it might be overwhelming. But girls are allowed to approach a guy as well, that way, it might be easier for some people.10 Reply
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yIn my experience it's a vibe she gives off that she is arrogant, self-absorbed or has a bad attitude toward guys, or being approached by guys.
Approaching women today has become a very dangerous and hazardous proposition for guys on multiple levels. We can easily get accused of harassment or being creepy and many women just seem super bothered when a guy they don't find attractive approaches them. That kind of rejection is pretty hard on us.
If she seem warm and friendly and like a genuinely nice person, then she is approachable.30 ReplyHer stuckup angry face and body language that says you approach me you die! She walks fast, right past me like I'm nothing to her. She's with other guys, she's having fun with a guy and girl, just ignores me standing behind her and sits in a curved booth with a guy both pretty girls on each side of him having fun both girls looking at the guy and smiling at him, very obvious both girls want that one guy, oblivious that I even exist! I can be alone and I just get totally ignored. I won't try if they don't try. Girl having kids with her and the kids are in the way or acting up yelling and crying, she has to pay total attention to the children, no chance to approach her at all. She is with a guy that probably is her boyfriend or husband. She is with other people and looks at me like I'm lower than dirt to her then starts talking to her friends in a snobbish way, then they all walk away talking. There are a lot of reasons not to approach a pretty girl.
10 ReplyEasy-going, friendly women are the most approachable. Looks honestly donât have much to do with it; body language and attitude are far more important! I want to get to know nice, kind and funny people.
I donât like to approach total strangers, âcause youâre interrupting someone. If they donât look like theyâd welcome a chat with a stranger, Iâd not bother. It can be intimidating to see someone give everyone the evil eye. Read their body language and avoid them.31 Reply- +1 y
Perfect answer. â€ïž
+1 yI've been bitchy, mean and in some cases a real "I'm me and there's nobody as good " and guys got humiliated and embarrassed to even to me, but I was being a right slut for bad boys! I soon learnt I was thought of as an easy slapper by the lads and a love myself bimbo by the quiet ones
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But did it change anything. . . . ?
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@Rodgerinho eemmm not really i maybe got worse
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Hahahahaha đ. You just want to be dominated. Not your fault half the guys don't understand the game you're playing
+1 yIf she's a pathological liar, a Potifar wife, a manipulator, con artist, atheist, pro-abortion, pro-any form of sexual anarchy, taken, snooty, rude, shallow, incorrigible, ill-tempered, excessively violent, mentally deranged, or has some other outstanding red flags, she could be a fantasy come to life in appearance, and I still wouldn't have anything to do with her.
No one needs a witch like that.27 Reply- +1 y
I don't see any beautiful woman wanting to have anything to do with you, tho.. đđ
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@iLala_Water : You betray a heart that is ugly. Suffice to say, the feeling is mutual.
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More to that, there was a girl in China. And another in the Philippines. Time, money, and logistics are the only reasons neither is married to me today. They both adored me, and had to stop pursuing more than friendship only because life is cruel sometimes. I have great respect for both, and would readily choose either of them over a thousand local hags.
I also knew a wonderful redhead. But she died.
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You hate women who are Atheists and pro-abortion?
Are you a freaking Muslim?
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@MidnightCowboy : No, Lutheran. WELS. Not so much hate, as won't date. Not the same. And believe me: if you've ever been trolled on Facebook by these types of women, you'll know what I mean. I seem to be a conflict magnet for every troublemaker on social media. They're nasty on YouTube as well, but who isn't nasty on YouTube?
+1 yI often don't bother initiating with girls who are very conventionally attractive.
Often times, they have very little interesting going on on their heads. Their looks attract the interest, which gives them a pass to let their minds and character decay.
If I go for girls at all, I go for healthy-looking, moderately attractive ones.
I'm not intimidated, I just know better.41 Reply- +1 y
More men should think like you. Respect!
+1 yI don't know either I am not approached because I am not attractive but some of my blonde hair blue eyed beautifull friends don't get approached either and I think it is because guys think they might not have a chance because they are too pretty but that is just my opinion I am not a guy so I wouldn't know but It might be true
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+1 yIf a girl is too stylish or wearing expensive gear, yeah it's scary because it appears they are after a guy with a big wallet.
Experience tells us as guys that the prettiest girls know they are above average and they're usually quite rude. So if you're a very pretty girl, dress more casual and DON'T BE RUDE.00 Reply
+1 yEverything that you stated could be a factor. A lot of men are actually intimidated by attractive women for one reason or another and a lot will figure they're already in a relationship, so may not approach. You are spot on, but it will mainly vary by the individual and the specific interaction.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 ySome women are intimidating be it their looks or their overall vibe. I know because I've struggled with it. All my exes admitted they were afraid to talk to me at first because they were afraid I would reject them and I'm just... intimidating in general? Even though I don't try to be. It's all about vibes.
30 ReplyIf she's pretty, she might be a total stuck up bitch who thinks she's god's gift to this earth because she was born with aesthetic beauty making her vain and shallow.
Believing she is out of everyone's league because of her beauty
In reality tho, she's just another dumb thot46 Reply- +1 y
@wolfcat87 girls hate the truth told about their true nature
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@wolfcat87 im still fresh, still clean, still getting money, and getting pussy
+1 yOK here is something I wish feminist could see for them selves. They speak of empowerment and they don't even realize how powerful beauty is which brought up the question. Beauty itself is very powerful and that is why guys are intimidated by it. So indeed females have special powers that men don't have if they'd only realize that.
30 Reply10.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Years ago if a girl was pretty AND had a great personality, I would (in my mind) have them on such a pedestal that I felt I couldn't approach them, like I was not worthy. Sadly, much later I found out that a couple of them were actually interested in me.
20 ReplyFor me, I am a special case, I won't approach any girl unless I have the feeling to do so, even if she was really pretty I won't do anything unless I am like really attracted then I Wil just act without any consideration.
As for most guy they would think that she is taken most of the time because a good looking girl won't be single.10 Reply662 opinions shared on Dating topic. they don't even have to be pretty for that.
basically any girl who does or does not smile at me and give a stare who does not reply to basic interaction like "HI" makes me want to turn my back on. if y'all just foolin around go on some shitty dating apps to boost yo low ego20 Reply
+1 yThat's a tricky question. It's usually a combination of factors. Unapproachable could be something as simple as having headphones on all the time, to something as complicated as just not looking like you want people to talk with you because you have resting B face.
10 Reply2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. A warning sign that a girl will be unfaithful to me is being very popular, so if she has a ton of friends, especially if her friends are girls, I know that pursuing her will only lead to pain, heartbreak, and I don't know whether or not I'll be able to control my anger.
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+1 yProbably since your pretty I'd assume you've got heaps of boys chasing after you so my chances would be slim or none so I'd just accept that and not even bother. Also my lack of confidence and shyness would also make my chances slim. The likelihood of rejection and the conversation being awkward would stop me
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I wouldn't have a clue, how longs a piece of string?
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yItâs a confidence issue with guys believing that she is likely taken or gets hit on a lot and likely very defensive/choosy.
I still talk to them anyway. Sometimes you might be surprised, they might be attracted to the guy too. If I get rejected at least I can walk away with knowing I had the balls to approach her.61 Reply
Opinion Owner+1 yFor you girls out there. If a guy politely approaches you (attractive or not) ALWAYS respect him for having the guts to do so. Also if you like him, HELP him. Ask him questions. Laugh at his stupid jokes. Make eye contact.
If you are not attracted to him, smile and says âthanks for saying hello but Iâm really not interestedâ. 99% of the guys out there will be able to handle that. As for the other 1 percent who canât take no for answer... they are rare (and I apologize they exist).
I think both facial expression (RBF for example) and body language can make someone look closed off and unapproachable.
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Gurl yes.
Well why donât girls try approaching guys for a change and see how hard it is. Although girls will get let down easier if they do get reject which Iâm sure they wonât. Guys are afraid of rejection and nervous and donât know how women want to be approached
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yMy ugliness 😂 💩 inside and out.
Tired of getting played by the same pretty ones who say they are alone or want someone to love them.
Then you can see them getting drunk and allowing âpretty menâ(men who they like) treat them like shit and watch them struggle. While hearing a bunch of people calling her a âhoeâ no matter how much you donât want to believe it or donât believe it. It still hurts. 💔🖤
So I try to ignore them or walk away. But I always get the same ones over and over.00 Reply2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. i think it's that some of us assume we have to take pretty girls seriously. But guys your age are generally not ready to be serious. It's a pressure to perform, perhaps..
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What? So good donât feel that they have to take a regular (or less than regular) looking girl seriously? Gosh. Iâm married, just curious here... but goodness... why? Lol this makes me think what would be my odd if I were single. This is sad!!
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Ahhh autocorrect is my enemy
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@prettynormal yes and no. It's more that they assume "room for error." Like, if we don't do everything perfectly with a 'normal' girl, and she leaves, it's not as big of a failure as if it were with a 'hot' girl.
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Ahhh I get it now
673 opinions shared on Dating topic. If a pretty girl is stuck up then I find her being approachable like if she thought she was the envy of her friends. Like a sorta of snobbish to her like she is too good to talk to you. Like you feel like she doesn't want to be bothered and you got on her bad side.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yfear of rejection and her bitchy face. Smiling and being positive makes girl pretty and approachable. a lot girls stare at me in public but some of them look like they want to kill me. They look mad but even they are not. I know one girl that has good personality but when she stare at me she looks super mad and creppy
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omg lol an exchange girl stayed at my house and she looked like she was gonna kill everyone but she was actually pretty nice
Opinion Owner+1 ythis dislikes probably resting bitchy face girls
+1 yNo girl is out of my league. She has got only power to say ânoâ to me. Sorry, I canât chase them for love. There are lots of beautiful girl out there with whom I can date. Every lady is beautiful in their own ways. Love you all beautiful ladies.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yA virgin girl for me. I am a virgin too.
Women without Manners
Non-traditional women
VIMP -Immodest women
Note- I don't support viels Burkhasâ hijabs and similar...
Women can be modest and look attractive without wearing revealing clothes and express their sexuality with novelty
Womenâ who use makeup everyday
Woman who practice "fashion" and are obsessed with the "latest fashion trends"
Women obsessed with social media.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yWe have all the same thoughts, feelings and insecurities you women do about approaching, yet we're "expected" to be the ones to do it? Fear of rejection. That's all it is. Nobody likes or wants it. And yes, like it does with you women, it stops us from doing it at all sometimes.
00 ReplyTitle IX; #MeToo; false rape allegations; sexual harassment complaints; the Daluth Model; child support; alimony; absence of due process and a presumption of male guilt.
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Of course I am against rape and sexual harassment, but many girls put a bad name to women by falsely accusing men of things when things don't go their way. And I hate that.
The thing that makes a pretty girl unapproachable would be one, or a combination of the following:
Tied shoelaces
Her force field
Geographical features, like oceans
Her bodyguard
Her taser
Her body odour
His sense of direction (âMarco... polo!â)01 Reply- +1 y
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+1 ySame with men. I turn into a total idiot who doesnât remember my own name. The guy/girl is out of my league and I often feel judged by them even if they havenât done anything.
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+1 yBecause many ugly guys, like myself, get called a creep or the women harshly rejects us and humiliates us. Actually, now that I think about it, MOST women do this... not just the pretty ones. If a guy isn't attractive, it's a waste of time for him.
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+1 yWell as far i can tell i think its just that some people have personal traits others consider a no go... for example i heard that some guys would never date a feminist so jeah... no gos for one, and maybe just no shared interest in the other part.
00 ReplySorry of my life! I want to hear the answers too. Guys stare at me like they will eat me alive but will not talk to me. This is worse because I am shy and canât talk to them.
10 ReplyWhen they have that bitch face. They look like a bitch or they are just some dumb slut who'll eat all your money. At that point looks aren't worth it unless it's an easy fuck where you don't need to waste too much of your time with her
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Damn you seem hurt
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I was just going to say the same thing... you need a hug bro. - +1 y
@latinabutterfly96 damn are you following me? At this point I seriously think you like me
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@LeoElias who even are you? Tf
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI always get this! No guys ever come up to me except the creepy ones that have been drinking way too much. All the nice cute boys go for girls much lower in their league
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Umm wanna talk? kinda want to know more about that message me maybe if you wanna stay anonym
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@Blackbrowny bout?
Opinion Owner+1 y@Tslaveee so only ugly women can be good wives?
+1 yYou will so regret thinking like this, never force anyone to like you, nor should you beg them, neediness will ruin you.
20 ReplyWhatâs the point of approaching you when you probably get a ton of attention anyway by being pretty, you wouldnât value my attention as much unless Iâm bringing something amazing to the table, like a huge cock, money, equal attractiveness or personality. If Iâm just a regular guy, no way youâd care for my attention. Just another guy.
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+1 yFor me no girls ever unapproachable. Its more so that am I willing to do the trade off of being embarrassed by giving a shot at droppin the young holla holla at her. And the answer is always no, no matter who it is.
00 ReplyYou just have to try to do different things to get a response you want. Most of it comes from the look of your eyes.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yFor me it's my resting bitch face and extremely serious attitude.
I do still get approached though lol.
If you are a 'pretty' girl and dont get approached then you're not as pretty as you think you are, or something else is deeply wrong.10 Reply
+1 yUsually it's because a lot of them have a huge ego and will be compete assholes to me but with some exceptions bust the girl that was the exception she slept around a lot so It honestly depends I am not afraid to approach them at all
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+1 yHer personality if she acts like a cold hearted bitch to everyone thats an instant red flag to stay sway and not bother because a âwomanâ like that will only cause you problems (aka a southern new england âwomanâ)
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yall go up to any pretty go the difference with me is i find sex overrated and don't really want that i like the communication and interaction fun time laugh most are really shy and insecure in them self out of every 100-1 would show confidence and that so attractive when you experents the confident girl is so fuck sexy and yell understand why girl like confident guys is a big turn on
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+1 yWhat makes a pretty girl unapproachable is her 6'4" Hells Angel biker boyfriend standing right next to her.
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