Girls, would you try out the dual mating strategy?

[Anonymous]

Dual mating strategy: A woman settles down with a partner who'll invest resources and has a nice personality, but seeks out prime genes by having sex, with an attractive guy, outside the relationship.

Looks are correlated with health.

Yes

No

I might

[sjoes006]

Lame if you like evolutionary psychology check out David Buss because it sounds like you need some edu-mo-cation.

[Asker]

I'm sorry but this tern has already been research and published. You need some edu-mo-cation.

[sjoes006]

He isn't some weird feminist or anything. He is a world renowned scholar on mate selection strategy and trust me as a male you will like his views on things.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Buss

I don't believe in one right or one wrong I just believe in knowing as much as possible. 😉

[Asker]

I'm glad you don't believe in one right or one wrong and you that you are open minded, which is a good thing. There is evidence to suggest that, in general, women are most attracted to their long-term partners when they are on their periods which is the most infertile phase. But fourteen days after their period where they are most fertile, they tend to not want to have sex with their partners, they tend to be more sexually attracted to attractive men instead.

[sjoes006]

You're speaking to me on a subject I studied extensively in both university and grad school though not by my own choosing. It was part of my degree program even though I was studying neuropsych and cognition.

I was a student of Buss's and I really didn't like him. He is cocky and I was disappointed that the evolutionary psychologist in my program was only obsessed with sex and nothing else.

That said he is as famous in the field of Psychology as the Nobel Prize Laureate in Physics who taught at my school is.

I really have no interest in the study of mating strategies but if you are at all genuinely interested and not just trying to justify why whatever you think women do I'd highly suggest you take 5 min to google Buss or visit his wiki.

If not than piss on we have nothing left to discuss. I have no comments on your poorly worded hypothesis.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like a winner

[aficionado]

This is so unethical, and downright sick! Unless it was an open relationship from the beginning.

[Asker]

evolution has made girls do this for centuries. At least one out of ten kids live with men who are not their real fathers and the men don't know that.

[aficionado]

Yeah, that's still quite messed up. I suppose fathers should get a DNA test done, and throw the woman and the kid to the curb if they come to know that the child is not theirs.

[Asker]

Yeah that's why I will do DNA testing on all my kids when they're born.

[Adekae]

If you guys feel the need to do DNA testing on your kids, I'm pretty sure there's some serious trust issues between you and your woman! Lol.

[sjoes006]

@asker well if that's the case then we women whores have no need to 'try it out' because we are genetically predisposed to do so. Your Daddy ain't yo Daddy! 😄

[aficionado]

@Adekae

Nah, I probably wouldn't resort to a DNA test. I would only have kids with someone I really trusted. I was just mentioning the scenario when a DNA test does happen, and then the father comes to know that the child is not his.

I wouldn't resort to such extreme measures unless I had a really strong reason to suspect my wife/partner's infidelity.

[Asker]

@Adekae If the woman is offended and thinks there are trust issues, then she cheated on me and the child is NOT mine. If you have nothing to hide, then you shouldn't be threatened by it.

[thatkaruguy]

they say no but many practice the opposite