Girl at gym talks to me one day, ignores me the next?

[bboynimitz]

Hello friends, so I just recently moved to a new state and signed up for the local gym around my area. So fast forward a couple of months and I see this wonderful girl every night. I had the urge to introduce myself but didn't until late last year. I even left the gym, and then drove back because i just felt like i needed to introduce myself to her! That night we had a lengthy discussion as we were both getting to know each other. She stopped in the middle of a set to talk to me for what felt like over 45 minutes (this was last year when we first met). So now fast forward to today, there are some days where she'll talk to me and some days where she won't (like completely ignores me). I asked her to go out for something to eat 2 weeks back and she said next week and that she'd let me know when she was free. This was 2 weeks ago and I have texted her and she doesn't respond. She checks her phone all the time in the gym. I genuinely just don't think she is interested in me, based on this behavior. I just want to know what I can do to get over this rejection. I am relatively new here and don't have many friends at all.

[Southern_Shorty]

I think that is pretty lazy to just flat out ignore someone, but I suppose she thought it would be easier that way. Hey.. You never know. She could have a different phone number.

If she doesn't go out of her way to talk to you, why don't you? Just keep it friendly and then move along. If she's not interested, she my have a boyfriend. Did you happen to tell her you're looking for a friend? If can't be that person, then maybe she can introduce you to somsone?

[bboynimitz]

Thanks for your reply! It's the same number because I have gotten responses from her prior to everything. I saw her last night (valentines day) at the gym around 10:00pm by sheer coincidence. I asked her if she wanted to grab a bite to eat if she was free 2 days prior, but no answer. I just wish she'd just tell me to fuck off instead of being hot and cold.

[Socialrealist]

She's the typical b*tch so common in this generation. And they wonder why feminism is not taken seriously by the rest of the world lol. Women are weak.