Girl at gym always looks mean to me, does she like or hate me?

[Anonymous]

Hey,

so this girl works at the gym I go to. It´s common practice for the workers to greet the people entering or leaving. Everybody male or female always greet normal or nicely. Only this girl. She always has that bitch face on when I greet her and she always seems like she needs to force herself to push out a hello for me. I don´t care if I get a hello but since she´s the only one that does this made me wonder. Does she hate me or like me? Just wondering. I´m male.

[SueShe]

I don't think that she likes you since she seems to force herself to smile at you. That would be an oxymoron if she would like you with such a face.

She probably is not the type of person that is comfortable in the presence of others or then, she is taking her problems to work and acts accordingly.

However, the fact that you need to ask about her feelings for others and especially for you, leads me to believe that you may have a crush on her, otherwise you would not let her behavior cause you to ask this question.

Perhaps that she realizes that you have a crush and that, since this crush is not reciprocated, she lets you know by behaving the way she does not to have any hopes.

[Asker]

Actually I don´t haha. Thats why its bothering me. I have a crush on another worker there. But yeah could also be her having social anxiety.

[PrettyPriya]

If she does that all the time and to everyone, she is probably just not a friendly person I would say. There are people like that in the world. Unfortunately, I run into them too from time to time.

Because she is an employee, you don't owe her anything if she will act like that. Just ignore her and don't even bother communicating. If she can't throw on a smile and be friendly, sounds like she got into the wrong job.

It is not so different than a restaurant server. Different jobs but both require customer service. She seems to lack any sort of basic people skills. Maybe she is better if she is actually help train someone but I doubt it.

If it were me, I would just walk right past her and not say a thing. That will get the point across that you are not impressed by her attitude.

[hahahmm]

She is doing it on purpose to get guys not to approach her BUT if a guy does approach her she's probably open to something because she sees it as him having the balls to take more risks. That said, I would just ignore her. If you ignore 99.9% of the women you see in life you won't suffer one bit. I passed up on a lot of women in my life and have zero regrets.

[Anonymous]

i see girls like this at the gym all the time , hard to say what someone like that wants if anything. a lot of girls just go to the gym to work out and get away from school/work. not necessary looking for people to date there

[Opinion Owner]

in fact would say that only a very small % of girls actually go to the gym with the intent of meeting someone there , i don't think its something they commonly do but does happen

[Asker]

Yeah but she´s a worker there not a random gym girl. I just wanted to know why some people just seem to be rude without a reason. But yeah could also be social anxiety.

[Opinion Owner]

she works there? then she just notices you for some reason , definlty not looking to date people there if she works there
i find there is a lot of big egos at my gym , could be the same at yours , some of them just seem to have big ego's and want to be seen as important

[Guy13]

Maybe she hates people 🤷🏻‍♂️

[JPresidente]

Hard to say. She could have "resting bitch face", maybe she hates the customer relations aspect of her job or she has a rough life.