Yeah I have trouble even in the best scenarios there were at least 80% of women at this party and I was one of the 20% of men but their was no interaction with a women whatsoever not even a look or something even if I wanted it to happen, I think I am really hard to interact with and I just don't know why. Their is even a girl in my gym she always
is running into me and does bizarre things, but she doesn't say a word or ever look me in the eyes, I am so confused.
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What does it mean when people have trouble interacting with you?
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The hardest lesson socially is to stop thinking about yourself. If your worrying about yourself and your interactions, other people will insitictively avoid you. there's good pycological reasons for that.
So, what you need to do is just relax, smile at those people you like and if they smile back keep smiling if they don't, make a smile which indicates "hey that's okay", but don't worry about it, just maybe don't smile quite as hard for them.
Lastly, watch how you talk with people. Many people are implicitly negative in their topics, such that others, over time start to feel less inclined to start talking with them because its a downer. So watch yourself on that. Good luck.
Some people have an invisible wall around them that is hard to penetrate, so most people don't even try.
Yes, its way easy to be closed off to people around. Especially for average guys.