What does it mean when someone feels or thinks that you are the problem?

[Queenjaileenxo]

Lets say someone has caused you traumatic events into your life since the very day this person walked into your life and they seem to go on about their life's just fine but making it seem like you are the bad person, the person with jealousy etc but does not realize or want to realize what they did to you as in they always playing victim to things they've done to you, lying, not wanting to really be part of your life, always making it seem like you are the one who brings drama and problems into their life while they are "innocent" and didn't do anything to you they are the good person while you are the evil person or the villain in the story.

[LazerBean]

Sometimes person A is the problem, sometimes person B is, in fact, the problem. Either way they need to be cut off from eachother.

[Queenjaileenxo]

Do you think drugs play a huge role for this too because she was on meth for a while

[LazerBean]

Well it definitely doesn't help lol it often does play a role though.

[Emiliamazing]

If you’re not enjoying an individuals company and they are providing no benefit to your life whatsoever, it’s kind of time to cut the bad apple out of the tree (so you can grow)

[ArtemisSilver]

People like that suck. Cut them out and walk away. They'll find that even with you gone their problems will remain because they're usually the ones creating them.

[Andres77]

Seems like you already have a diagnosis, now you just need to administer the appropriate treatment.

Cut negativity out of your life.

[Andres77]

"friend"-ectomy.

[Guardian45]

It makes think that THEY are the PROBLEM!

[Queenjaileenxo]

What exactly do you mean?

[Guardian45]

Your friend has caused problems from day one. The problem isn't you. It IS THEM!

[Queenjaileenxo]

So why do they make it seem like im the problem and bring drama?

[Guardian45]

LOSE THAT 'FRIEND'!

[Queenjaileenxo]

Its a no good friend not for my health not for myself their is a third party involved my boyfriend who i love but communication has gone bad because of her things have been off for so long

[Guardian45]

Keep her AWAY from your boyfriend & DTMF!

[Queenjaileenxo]

Its not that easy

[Guardian45]

Why not?

[Queenjaileenxo]

Because im in a poly relationship with her and him