Why does my girlfriend act like a Dog and do everything I say?

[Anonymous]

She does everything that I say wjthout much question I feel good about it but also bad because she doesn't say no ever

She changed her make up the next day when I commented on it
She dresses with less skin because it make me happy
She asks for my opinion on everything and does it straight away
If I tell her I'm taking her our but instead do something else she says its OK and doesn't bitch about it
The list goes on...

All of these things are great but it feels like she's my child. I could probably cheat and that's only things that would get her crazy but apart from that she's passive as fuck and listens to me like she will receive a punishment if she doesn't. How can I get her to woman up? In the bed room whatever I say goes. That gets a bit boring after a while and I want her to be normal. I'm aware it's something strange to complain about but it annoys me?

[BarbaraP]

I think she's just insecure, shy and she really really likes you.
Just encourage her to make more decisions, ask her where she wants to go, what she likes in bed, etc. Sometimes strong personalities just don't leave any space for anyone else and - being shy - she might be putting herself in a second place because of your bigger personality.
Also are you sure you're not making strong comments about her looks? If my boyfriend told me my make up was ugly, I'd probably consider changing it too... your partner's opinion matters if you care about them. And I'm far from being a submissive person.

[chanicarose]

Maybe she is into someone who likes to be the dominant one and she is okay with being the passive one but if you want to make her woman up as u say talk to her about it maybe she will try and put an effort into herself and try to be a bit less passive. If it continues on then maybe she isn't the right girl for you

[aliceinwonderland69]

You could tell her that you don't mind her being more assertive and encourage her to make more decisions. But honestly it sounds like you just don't like submissive women.

[fueledbythc]

You have 2 choices. You can talk it out with her and tell her the problem or you can abuse it and have her listen to you. I'd go with the talking it out as I do agree, it's annoying when someone doesn't have their own opinion and constantly listen to you. Maybe she's naturally an airhead and needs guidance. Then help her be more independent because that will cause her to be the utmost dependant on you and from the sounds of it that's not your thing.

[FakeName123]

Because she loves you and is insecure as fuck.

The question is if you are ok with it. Personally I like to be pleased naturally, but there is a too much when things seem like a lack of backbone and individuality. And this is one of those cases. So I would talk to her about it and say how I appreciate her doing things, but also encourage her to build up on her self-esteem and confidence and embracing her individuality.

[fauchelevent]

She's probably insecure and desperately in love with you. I recommend speaking to her about it.

[melodybluesy]

Because she loves u and wants to please u. Wasted on u if u think she's a dog for doing so.

[FakeName123]

There is a difference between thinking she's a dog and saying she acts like one.

[Anonymous]

She either loves u a lot, suffers from very low self-esteem or is just excessivley passive. Or maybe a combination of the 3. People r who they r.

[suseel_sushi]

did you force these things on her before? she has a job?

[Anonymous]

Yep she was brainwashed and probably abused by a very strict father my advice is to talk to her about it