What makes a guy confident to girls?

[Anonymous]

I have always wondered that tbh, at college i have lots and lots fo girls around me and they all think iam attractive and good looking and aslo... confident, i joke a lot, say whatever i want whenever i want and really do not care much i will say it whether they laugh or just ignore it i truly dont take into consideration what others want me to say most of the time, not like i disrepspectful or anything, iam no trouble maker though, i dont really get angry or fight much and basically iam not you're typical bad boy even though they all agree i look like one , but i was surpirsed that some girls told me they think iam very attractive and confident i was like... " really?" they said they think iam confident cause i do what i want whenever i want without taking into consideration anyone around me...

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one more thing that also caught my attention is that they also mentioned how i never get all excited and hyper active when a hot girl walks by or is present they said i keep my cool...

[Anonymous]

A guy who knows what he's doing and who is proud of himself (his looks, success, etc) is definitely a confident guy. Most of the times I see if a guy is like that from the way he walks and from his posture - body language. Human body language is often just as informative as the one of an animal. You can spot an anxious person just like you can spot a frightened animal just by looking at them.
I would prefer confident and average looking guys to non-confident and good looking guys. Confidence=sexy
I won't pick attraction instead of love though. My current boyfriend is the shy and non-confident type who walks with his eyes staring at the ground etc. and I still love him a lot.

Sorry for bad English :)

[illytaster]

Honestly, i disagree with many women here. I want a guy to be himself. if he is not that confidant, that alright. He is human. I certainly would not want a guy to judge me if i was a little shy or not that confidant. its human nature that sometimes you don't feel confidant. For me if a guy is good and honest, confidence does not matter. I want to get to see the real him

[paulina_g]

You seem like an easy-going person so that's probably the reason. You're not afraid to say what's on your mind and express your opinion. You're not pretending to be someone else. Most of us tend to be drawn to people like that because you're just easy to talk to.

[carinerose]

1) be attractive
2) don't give a shit
You answered your own question

[Asker]

lol i am inclined to believe that being attractive lets me get away with lots of shit

[Cyhhgg]

It does. Think about the one thing you said that makes zero sense. You do what you want without considering anyonr else. Lol that's not confidence, thats arrogance. Either thesr women are young anf can't tell the difference yet or they're just stupid. Lol

[Anonymous]

Ad hard as it seems you can't show that you care about them. You go off on your own when you want to. I'm not sure why they care about your head not following a lovely lady. You apparently show weakness when you reveal that you care about them. I like getting my freinds together for our hang outs. I will often adjust something so that all of them can come. All I get out of it is them thinking that I lack confidence because I put more value on all of us hanging out than I do about my original plans. Long story short if you plan something just stay with it to show confidence. If they can't come they can't come.

[John_Doesnt]

Lie and pretend like you're the best at everything. When you fail at something just say you weren't trying or you could have done it if you felt like it.

Anyways, the key to women is to lie, lie and lie some more. It works every time.

[Cyhhgg]

Until it doesn't work, you prick.

[19magic]

A confident guy is someone whose sure of himself, doesn't ask questions with silly answers. Does what he wants (so long as it's not disrespectful that just = jerk), says what he wants without care of other people.

[kittykatbrat]

*Calm, relaxed demeanour
*Extremely self aware
*Positive serious nature
*Enjoys his own company
*Actions his intentions
*Is all about self improvement
*Doesn't have time for semantics
*Speaks to add value, not to hear his own voice

[Queen_KZ]

Decisiveness
Directness
Speaks in a clear and understandable manner
(possibly loud)
Not afraid to speak up
Good posture
Doesn't (always) look nervous

[ConsultantIsBack]

I'll just say the cold hard truth
You gotta be hot to them and then be confident. That's the prerequisite people leave out

[Asker]

yeah that is the cold truth indeed being good looking lets you do things that others get punished or put down for, i can (and have ) made fun of girls and got away with it just like that while other guys i know who are not really good looking (maybe even barely average) just ask simple questions and it makes the girls around them annoyed.

[Whynotb]

Wow u r so self centered and ur head is too big too

[Asker]

no not really

[Anonymous]

Being confident is when wear nice clothes and know they look nice on you.

[Cyhhgg]

You're too easy if you think that. Lol

[jesusnicolas768]

Well for starters being able to talk to girls without getting nervous and then also not being scared to say what you want to say

[Anonymous]

The way other people view him/the way he socializes with other people.

[Melcart23]

Bro, you might tip over if your head gets any bigger

[BusinessBasketball]

How he dress
How he walks
How he acts

[yololoyo]

Not wondering if you are

[Jayson101]

Not caring about what she thinks

[UglyRandomGuy]

When you aren't a bitch 😐

[Anonymous]

If he believes in himself

[ItVariesGL]

really really famous thalkerth

[Fearless_banana]

Being swoll af helps