I've heard a lot from women even remarks insulting men that they aren't desperate and if they can't find the guy they want they rather be single. How many women you think in this generation going to hold out for their dream guy especially seeing we have less men graduating from universities.
Taken from GAG
"No absolutely not. I will never lower my standards and I will never "date down". Either I get a guy that I truly want or I stay single. You see, me and a lot of other girls, don't feel like we need a relationship. Would it be nice? Yes! Do I sometimes miss not having a boyfriend right now? Yes! But at the end of the day, I don't want a relationship with just someone, anyone. I want a relationship with the "perfect" (in my eyes) guy. If I can't have that then a relationship is pretty worthless to me. I have my own money, my own apartment, my own friends and family, I can travel/go out to eat/go to the beach/movies or whatever on my own or with friends/family. I could even get a friends with benefits to sleep with and cuddle with if I wanted (I don't though). When I want kids I can have them either with a guy friend, a gay man or sperm donor. So what would a boyfriend that I don't truly want to be with add to my life? I would have to share my life with someone I don't even want and I would have to have sex with the guy on a regular basis, even though I'm not even attracted to him. Why would I want that? So, no. I will not date a guy I don't want to be with."
"I either want to have a boyfriend who I want - in a lot of aspects - or I'd rather just be single. What's so wrong with that?"
And do you think we'll get a backlash of single women in their 30's from this and what impact would this have on society?
Take into account single mothers drain the economy.
What do you think about girls who don't want to compromise and hold onto their ideal man list?
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i think you're very opinionated and biased. Girls want things in the opposite sex because that's what attractive to them. The personality and the caring nature. Its just like how guys want a particular type of girl too. So, I don't see anything wrong with waiting for the right man... except for taller than me, I think most of the things written on that list are very small and reasonable expectations for a girl.
The difference is while a lot of guys would want a fit instagram model/who is a sex fiend, loving, nurturing, caring, great cook and can clean.
We are realistic and settle for skinny fat girls to overweight girls who are insecure, can't cook, can't clean and who tend to like to start unnecessary drama.
The difference is men are flexible and adapt. Holding onto a stupid list and not compromising is going to set your ass up to being single old woman whose going to have a chip on her should because prince charming never came.
No girl is going to stay with a guy if she's unhappy with him. There's nothing wrong with having standards, it just means girls won't settle for less than they deserve which is perfectly okay, in my opinion. If a girl settles for less than she deserves, then she's going to be unhappy, hence why girls would rather stay single than not have the guy that matches their standards.
I see we have plenty of entitled women in today's modern world that think that being born female, and having good looks (whether natural or not with makeup) should allow her to have a 6'2 boyfriend, who makes 6 figures a year, has a nice car, and place.
Ok I can see you're one of these guys that just hates women because you can't get any of your own. Not all women think that because they have 'good looks' they are entitled. All women just want to be happy in their relationships. No one wants to settle and be unhappy. And not all women require superficial things to be happy. You need to understand this and stop being so bitter.
And you realize when you say men criticize women behavior it is because they can't get any pussy your basically saying your worth as a woman is tied to your vagina and you guys are basically sex objects.
Here's how you girls basically saying your self worth is that of a fleshlight/sexdoll when you make this assumption.
When you think any criticism a man has towards women for their behavior stems from "he can't get laid". You are basically saying that all men's problems and complaints would go away if he just sticks his dick in a vagina and has sex with girls.
You are basically saying that your self worth as a women is not tied to your character, personality, but to your vagina and every other aspect of you can be forgiven as long as you give out sex. This just goes back to how women view of men. You think we are all horn dogs who only care about sex.
I know guys who gets tons of pussy (breaks your argument) that women today are trashy and not worth settling down with.
LMFAO are you actually for real? Quit twisting my words. I literally didn't mention a word about sex and suddenly my opinion means men only want girls for sex? I'm so done lol, have a nice life and maybe some day you'll stop being so bitter.
I don't think any normal person is going to stick to a list that specifies EVERYTHING about someone, but specifiyng their best personality traits and sticking to those is not nuts - it's practically essential for a happy life...
P. S. Please don't troll on me with bitter rants... I just put my opinion on here. If you don't agree that's fine. You probably don't agree and I'm cool with that. Just... calm down and live your life.
And when you label all men assholes because you can't find a man in your 30's and label all men assholes your not bitter your just stating a fact right right?
You will never find someone who matches up with all your checklist. There are many women telling young girls who are delusional such as yourself to don't hold out for a fantasy man.
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