Do women actually feel lust?

[CasaNorba]

I don't know why but for quite a while now I've always gotten this idea that women only have sex with men to please then like personal sex slave and not because they actually love and enjoy to do the things they do during sex.

I kind of notice the most on younger women below the age of 30. it seems like they always worried so much about whether if they are doing what they are doing the right way or not. its either that or they just try so hard to be conservative by having self conscious agendas such as worrying about feeling like a slut if they do the things they are about to do.

anyways wtf? : ) lol where are the hell are the women who actually feel lust like normal human beings? do women who will have sex just to enjoy what they do really exist? and if they do are they all above the age of 30? and as a bonus can someone please proof me wrong on my idea?

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wow even now 17 hours later I can't believe this question was gonna be featured best. but oh well before it closes down in 72 more hours I would of love to get an opinion from the following people...

@Prof_Don @MrOracle @kholland65 @Hyped_up_on_coffee @WantAnswersNow @Betwyn @xHoneyxBeex @katiesmuff @EmpatheticLady
@This_is_my_username @archiz

[modeve]

Yes women feel lust but our society has inculcated an idea of being submissive to men's desires. Women have since centuries been taught they are created for men;s pleasure, procreation and house work. It has been genetically travelling down. Where ever women are mentally free, they openly express their lust and sexual desire.

[modeve]

Thanks for selecting me one of the MHGs.

[xHoneyxBeex]

Yes, absolutely. It's only a misconception that women aren't as sexual or don't feel sexual desire as much as men. Personally, I love sex and while I want to please my boyfriend, I don't only do it for that reason. I get tons of pleasure from it as well and have a pretty high sex drive.

[WillowTree]

Of course we do? We have sex drives just like you do except we have more self control. We're taught from birth to conceal and repress our sexual urges and desires. If we discuss or express them openly we're labeled loose sluts and every bad name under the sun.

[Nerdvana]

Completely agree. When I was a kid, during sex ed. Women in sex ed movies were compared to chewing gum. Women were to only have one partner. If a woman had more partners, they were like chewing gum. They would be used to much and no one would want them.

[CasaNorba]

hhmm I guess we men aren't so different nowadays

[MrOracle]

Of course women feel lust... it's just that MOST of the time, women need to have an emotional connection with a guy before she can feel that lust, and that's because most women get attached when they have sex and they get emotionally hurt if the guy isn't similarly attached. Most women can't open up enough to be lustful without that connection.

Now, there are always exceptions - in a big crowd, there may be that one guy who is so hot/popular/rich/a celeb or whatever that she can feel lust despite not having an emotional connection - and she'll happily let that guy bang her in a dirty bathroom stall if he likes, because to her she's just that attractive. But such guys are usually <1% of the guys a girl will meet. For mere mortals, most girls need that emotional connection first.

[CasaNorba]

oh wow, thanks for the answer. not saying I don't appreciate it but I guess this is more reason to believe why all women have gold digger encrypted in their dna and totally not mess with them at all!

[BubbleBoy69]

Yes women feel lust but it's just there a very few guys who they actually find physically attractive (meaning just looking at them excites them). Usually these guys are tall, nice face, and have good body.

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[BubbleBoy69]

Example:

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[CasaNorba]

yea I asked this question hoping not to get pessimistic answers like these, no offense

[BubbleBoy69]

I never said men can't be attractive dude. You can with personality, wealth, status. But the difference between these guys who have the physical looks and the guys who need to compensate with those 3 is that women will walk up and approach them without knowing anything about them. For guys who don't you have to approach them.

[BubbleBoy69]

Also asker do you really want PC liberal answer lies or the truth. Go on tinder using 2 fake accounts. A verage dude and hot GUY. it's worlds apart difference.

[Smmyskittles]

No. We are sexless Robots.

lol, couldn't resist.

- I mean.. The driveway Opinion, man, I was ready to go typing that out.

[CasaNorba]

lmao that's right! I can't believe I forgot all about that!

[Smmyskittles]

:P So soon? how could you

[CasaNorba]

I dunno I guess too many things in my head lately. but yea now that I remember I think those folks were in their 30s, so it seems that only 30 year olds are brave enough to go this far

[redeyemindtricks]

What is this driveway opinion, hm?

[CasaNorba]

@redeyemindtricks this...

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2053577-ok-can-someone-please-explain-to-me-why-two-people-will-get-it-the-f

[Smmyskittles]

*snickers* >:}

[Kiwedin]

Lmao I don't know what type of women you're meeting but most of my friends are the complete opposite. Women love sex as much as men do, and in my personal experience, my libido has always been higher than my past partner's. That being said, there are women who feel differently. Some women don't feel the desire to have sex, while others are practically nymphomaniacs.

[yourwinglady]

women do for sure. it's just we might hide it more. but you need to get out more i think there are plenty of slutty women lol

[CasaNorba]

hmm that's a little tough to do

[yourwinglady]

no it's not! have you gotten tinder or okcupid? very easy to find girls on there!

[CasaNorba]

yes I use tinder all the time and I've matched with a lot of women there. last time I had my account running I matched with 40 women but I never scored with any of them.

judging by how women behave there most of them treat the app like a normal dating app. they talk about how they aren't dtf and always asking what I do for a living. the others don't even respond when you talk to them, and if they do they only give you one word responses

[Belgie]

Your opinions are very outdated.

Yes, women can feel lust. They can also enjoy sex. And masturbation. And fantasies.

Women are normal human beings in that regard.

[kholland65]

No they are totally asexual creaters who hate sex... come on man what kid of dumb question is this. Of course women feel lust. They get hungry, thirsty, and sleepy too, not sure if you knew that though.

[DandelionGirl]

I feel lust all the time for a guy I am attracted to, and yeah I actually do enjoy sex with a guy. Where did you hear this from?

[CasaNorba]

I don't know its just the vibe I get from people around me. don't know if my autism plays a roll on this

[DandelionGirl]

Well ask yourself, do YOU feel lust? For women? Being autistic has nothing to do with not seeing it.

[CasaNorba]

well of course I do. and yes it really does, we autistic folks can't read things like body languages, emotions, facial expressions, social cues, etc.

[EmpatheticLady]

Of course we feel lust and are sexual creatures just as men are. Personally, I don't act on those feelings just for anyone. I have to have a good connection to someone mentally and emotionally as well.

[RJGraveyTrain]

Uh yeah... I certainly have. Do we have a tendency to lust for just anybody is more of the question. I personally love having sex, but would only ever have sex with a significant other and find it effortless to turn down random sex.

[Sunburst223]

Of course. Men and women aren't quite as different with regards to sexual desire as stereotypes would have you believe. Women can and do enjoy masturbating, fantasizing, and enjoy the feeling of sex. Some of us even like porn.

[aficionado]

Yes they do, but it takes a lot for them to feel it. In other words... they do feel lust, but not as easily as men, and only towards very few specific men.

[ADFSDF1996]

A month ago, I wondered similar things. After seeing all of the opinions from various females on various questions involving similar topics, I'll say that yes they feel lust.

[Valkyrie1]

What? I feels the lusts all the time. I loves the lusts. Why would you think we do not feels the lusts?

[SnatchFinderGeneral]

"I don't know why but for quite a while now I've always gotten this idea that women only have sex with men to please then like personal sex slave"

Dude.. this is feminist brainwashing.

Women want to fuck. A lot.

[raspberry0416]

"I don't know why but for quite a while now I've always gotten this idea that women only have sex with men to please then like personal sex slave and not because they actually love and enjoy to do the things they do during sex"

Yeah I don't know why either
Do you think women are personal sex slaves? I think that says more about you then it does about women

[CasaNorba]

excuse you but when did I said that women are sex slaves?

"I think that says more about you then it does about women "

what that I'm a very observant person?

[raspberry0416]

I actually just quoted you. Maybe you should edit your original post because it has spelling and grammatical errors.

[CasaNorba]

https://i.imgur.com/DRZ8EA3.jpg

so I'm not gonna waste my time here

[raspberry0416]

Your poor English skills are not my problem.

[CasaNorba]

then why point it out smarty pants?

[Lindalove2016]

I often have dreams about having sex with guys I think are hot or ones I like. I get wet in my sleep... So yes we can lust.

[goodmood]

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[kittykatbrat]

MUTUAL physical + sexual attraction = instant lust inside me.

[Prof_Don]

Oh yes, women definitely feel lust!

I just came from Vegas, so I have first hand experience! ;-)

[WantAnswersNow]

I do. I love sex. I love lust. Im sexually aggressive lol

[jacquesvol]

I remember...
But that's not fit for publication here [explicit]
I would be removed.