If a girl acts really strange around you, does that mean she really likes you?

[Yeahhbro]

This girl is like a roller coaster of emotions?: One day she is fine, happy and flirty. The other day she seems cold and nervous and doesn't want to talk. One day she just completely ignores me. Then other day she gives me a bitchy look. Then another day she looks really happy and seems to be talking to me?

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sorry I mean to say she seems to want to talk to me?

[Anonymous]

I'm in this situation currently. Though I'm the girl. I do this to one fellow in particular. Because I have a huge crush on him. Now normally I wouldn't behave this way. I only behave this way, because I do wish I could say something, but the guy has a girlfriend and a baby. And I would never do anything to try to rip that apart. I just stick to admiring him from afar, and avoiding him all together until the stupid little 'crush' goes away. He probably thinks I'm insane. And I would like to keep it that way.

I do agree with 'Irrelevance.' If there is no excuse for this behavior, I wouldn't worry about her. If by the chance she has a crush on you, and she has no exact reason to behave this way. She's not someone you're going to want to speak with. If she can't snap out of it and speak to you properly you know something is up.

Or by the random chance that this just might be her personality. Maybe she doesn't have anything to say to you at all, and she's feeling a little manic? It's hard to say for sure. Some people, just flirt for the fun of it. For a slight ego boost, and it could have absolutely nothing to do with that particular person they're flirting with. If you're that desperate to figure it out, you could try speaking with her first? If not, I would just leave it alone, until she gets her act together and tells you what's on her mind. If anything is even on her mind.

[shery274]

She sounds like she doesn't really know what she wants. Maybe she really does like you but is afraid at the same time so she doesn't want to make her intentions too obvious. I would be cautious with this type of girl though. I am slightly like this when I like a guy. I really like the guy, but at the same time I am afraid about what may happen so I kind of close off. I know it doesn't make sense... but maybe she has self confidence issues. Maybe you should ask her about it in a casual way?

[Anonymous]

Since she's saying she has a big crush on you... this the girl really likes you by all means she should say something... letting it pass? Why? You never know what the future will hold, why not keep a healthy friendship with this person? He probably cares a lot for you, probably way more than you think, may have even done things for you, presents, food etc. Hey sometimes it's hard to explain the feelings us guys have toward the opposite sex. I know I can and have spent many a day overanalyzing a simple gesture. When one runs away, it really cuts deep. Scrambling and desperately trying to rekindle even a friendship, some people value that. That nervous feeling you get when you are around one another tells you something, should listen it's often right try hard not to fight it. Good luck guys

[Irrelevance]

If a girl's inconsistent, you drop her immediately because she's showing herself as an emotional liability. What kind of mentally sane girl who likes you gives you the hot and cold treatment? Especially bad form since she barely knows you. Normal girls know that doesn't drive a confident man crazy but quite the opposite.

Imagine having to put up with her moods in a relationship - you don't want that.