Girls what do you think of a man body scars like this?

[Punjabigirl22445]

I met a guy who used to be in the military and he has body scars similar to this.

He's about that same body type, like lean and toned. He got scars like that from knife wounds and gun shots. He served for 2 years (Not US ARMY , another continent)

So what do you think.

[AmazingAva]

Having self-harm scars myself... Accept him. Scars, I think, are amazing. They show that you overcame something and kept fighting no matter what. He sounds amazing. One thing though... PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder) might affect your relationship in a not so good way...

[AnotherConfusedGirl]

just on a physical level they look hot because it gives him a protective, strong male vibe but really its not something I'd actively look for in a guy because to get those sort of scars you'd have to go through some messed up shit.

[Wonderer89]

I'm heartbroken for the pain he must have suffered but in awe of this sacrifice and commitment. It has no bearing my physical attraction though, it's a bangin bod 👌🏼

[fauchelevent]

The scars don't bother me much. I wouldn't date the guy cause of his military background but if he'd gotten the scars some other way, I would be okay with it.

[Punjabigirl22445]

Army men scare you?

[fauchelevent]

They don't scare me, I just don't particularly want to be around them.

[FatherJack]

Ex British Army , one small scar from a wolf spider bite in the Saudi Desert , been shelled ( missed ! ) & shot at with lower power pistol rounds... but nothing like this !! This guy will have mental scars even bigger !!

[Phoenix98]

Wow if he had scars like those on him he must have gone through quiet a bit of action or had been wounded quiet a bit.

[Curlybeauty17]

I'd help heal his scars with Shea butter, cocoa butter, and coconut oil, especially if he doesn't want them.

[Katerina_Belle]

I wouldn't let it effect the way I treat him, but instead would have respect for him that he endured all that

[Theodorable]

I think he's bad ass and I wish I survived a bear attack like that plus lived to tell.

[samasky]

if you love him you will feel bad about that and maybe pleasure also

[HOAAH]

Pretty hot, kind of sexy

[archiz]

for real?
it ll break my heart if I loved him

[Punjabigirl22445]

It would break your heart if you loved him? What does that mean?

[Punjabigirl22445]

Like you hate the way the scars look?

[archiz]

no sympathy lol
feel bad for him
and so on

[Punjabigirl22445]

you wound't feel sympathy for the scars? But you would feel bad? You're confusing me

[Toad-1]

she would feel bad he got injured during combat

[archiz]

@Toad-1 ty :P

[archiz]

I thought I was clear

[Toad-1]

np ;)

ill make sure to intentionally get injured for you ;)

[TrustyW]

Still really hot. And cool

[IvoirianGirl20]

I would heal his scars first

[Punjabigirl22445]

So does that mean it would bother you? I mean they are scars so they are kinda there permanently, the most he can do is use lotions and stuff to made them fade away.

[IvoirianGirl20]

No. That wouldn't bother me at all. I just said that because it would hurt me to see him physically hurt, you know what I mean?

[Punjabigirl22445]

ah ok, well he wan in the army so he got scars like that from the enemy trying to stab him and then a couple of bullet wounds.

[IvoirianGirl20]

That breaks my heart. But I wouldn't reject him because of his scars

[IvoirianGirl20]

Can I ask you a question?

[Punjabigirl22445]

ok sure

[IvoirianGirl20]

I read your other comments & you said your dad is Black. That kind of fascinated me because when I look at your picture, you do look 💯 Indian

[Punjabigirl22445]

Oh yeah my dad is black. He kinda looks like carlton from the fresh prince haha. Well my mom has straight hair and my dad has curly afro-ish hair. My hair is not straight like my moms, it gets wavy curly straight and tangled. I use a hair iron to make it straight though.

[IvoirianGirl20]

Interesting. By the way, I'm African (my parents are from Ivory Coast, West Africa) & I love Indian culture, especially Bollywood. I saw your username & I thought I say it lol 😄

[Punjabigirl22445]

Well thanks haha. My dads family comes from a plantation in USA virginia. His ancestors were slaves in the hairstons plantation in the 1800s.

[IvoirianGirl20]

Ohhh. So your dad is African American right? And your mother Indian?

[Punjabigirl22445]

Yeah

[IvoirianGirl20]

That makes sense 😊

[IvoirianGirl20]

No joke though, there are some soulful Bollywood songs that almost made me cry even though I don't understand the lyrics

[yuki_ibanez]

It's alright I think...

[baabyput]

Ahw 😞 i would feel bad for him.

[Jxpxtxr]

PTSD all the way..

[Punjabigirl22445]

Hey it's you again. LOL, well i'm not dating him he already has a girlfriend, i saw the scars because we were at the pool. Would you date a military guy that went through some heavy stuff. I hear some girls are afraid of dating army guys because they think his PTSD might lead to domestic abuse but at the same time I would feel bad for judging a guy so harshly especially when he sacrificed his life to protect his country and save people.

[Jxpxtxr]

If I had feelings I would date him and would try to help him deal with the PTSD but if I notice there's no way for him to overcome it and it's severely restricting our relationship I might break up at some point - it's a lot of baggage

[Punjabigirl22445]

Does it depend on the type of PTSD, like weather it's violence or sadness or being scared?

Like my uncle from India served in the Indian military and did a mission where he entered into combat with terrorist. He had to kill and everything. His PTSD though is not violent, he get's anxiety attacks where he just freezes up and starts freaking out and getting emotional and scared.

[Punjabigirl22445]

But I have a cousin who has PTSD as well but his is violent, when he gets the reaction he want's to react violently and hurt something or someone or break stuff.

So I've seen many types of PTSD, the only one that worries me is the violent one, but the PTSD in the form of anxiety or sadness I could handle

[Jxpxtxr]

yeah and obviously also on whether or not they are actually getting therapy to cope with their issues to return to a normal life someday

[Jxpxtxr]

My friends with benefits was in the korean army duty and his best friend got shot in the head by some guy who was crazy and couldn't handle his gun properly when they were training and it turned him into an alcoholic

[Punjabigirl22445]

Damn thats crazy. people have to do messed up things in the army sometimes. My uncle had to kill a 11 year old boy because the boy had a machine gun and was going to kill a bunch of civilians.

Also friends with benefits? Lol but I thought you were against men having fun since you said you felt men who are casual have bit more chance of them cheating or lying because of habitus.

Or do you mean it matter how often he has "FUN" ? like if a guy is only casual sometimes a certain number of times vs a guy who is casual ALOT?

[Punjabigirl22445]

No offense by the way and I didn't mean to make it sound judgmental I was just curious about what you said since you said your trust men who are casual less but then you said friends with benefits, I'm sorry if that sounded bad

[Jxpxtxr]

He wasn't actually casual, we were friends first and he wanted to have a proper relationship but I didn't because he had just too much baggage & I couldn't deal with his bipolar moods
Also promiscuous behaviour is when you sleep with a lot of different people in a short period of time but we were only sleeping with each other.

[Punjabigirl22445]

Oh ok, I thought you also had a problem with men who didn't commit and only had casual things, so I was also including friends with benefits who are casual with each other but aren't sleeping around either. sorry my mistake I hope I didn't come off as a bitch or anything lol.

I had 1 friend with benefits, kinda. Well like we liked eachtoher and only slept with each other but he had to go to the army and signed up for 10 years. He didn't want me to be part of that so we spend the last months being "friends with benefits" because we didn't want to make it serious, but deep down we did care for each other. and yeah its was only us, we weren't doing stuff with other people either.

[Punjabigirl22445]

Also his family didn't like me, he was a paki and I'm indian and half black, soooo you know to his family I'm a dirty indian negro. A punjabi jigaboooooo

[Jxpxtxr]

That sucks, I had no idea Pakistanis were this racist

[Punjabigirl22445]

@Jxpxtxr but what do you think of scars like that for apperance at least? Like is it attractive or not to you? For me it's kinda attractive, especially when its on a fit athletic body. It makes me think of a bad boy body, or like a super hero, bad ass body. Like a fantasy.

[Punjabigirl22445]

@Jxpxtxr well not all Pakistanis are, most I know are good people, some Indians are racist too. Some blacks are also racist, my dads blacks and he hates white people sometimes and calls them the white devil or crackers or white skin, light eyes devil, european shit, europeans devils.
So anybody can be racist. My dad is racist because his mom, my grandmother was killed by a racist white man. And his grandmother, my great grandmother was killed by the KKK. My dads family comes from a plantation in USA virginia. His ancestors were slaves in the hairstons plantation in the 1800s. So my dad hates white people, it makes me feel bad because if I ever have white friends or have a white boyfriend my dad won't like it.

[Jxpxtxr]

Lol I don't really care about it, it's not a bonus but not a minus either unless there are really too many so the skin underneath ends up looking kinda deformed

[Jxpxtxr]

I find this "transgenerational hatred" as a justification for racism so disgusting really.. I'm half Irish and Ireland used to be a British colony & massively oppressed by the British yet I don't hate contemporary britons for things their ancestors may or may not have done to my people, that's really just stupid.

[Punjabigirl22445]

My dad especially hates Europeans because he thought it was just American white people but traveled across Europe because my dad's in the army too and he said he received some racism in Europe and that europeans think they are classier and superior to everyone else. When he traveled he went to Italy, Belgium, Luxembourg, England and said he got racism there and got assaulted in luxembourg by some drunk guys who keep calling him monkey at a bar.

But I don't understand why my dad hates all white people, because most white people I've met are nice.

[Jxpxtxr]

Haha I'm from Luxembourg and you surely wouldn't receive those comments today because there's quite a lot of black people (coming to Luxembourg mainly from France) so it's normal here

[Punjabigirl22445]

If anything i heard Europeans are less racist than americans LOL. when I've been in america americans are really open about their racism, they call syrian refugees sand monkeys and call latinos donkey taco fuckers and worship trump. But I think my dads being stupid by hate white people. I mean I feel bad because his mom and grandmother were killed by the KKK and a racist white guy, so I understand him but at the same time he can't hate all white people. It's messed up.

And racism isn't as bad now days, most white people are nice, so he's being unfair towards everyone. But he's my dad go I gotta love him either way. He's a good dad, but he sets a bad example when he thinks all white americans or white europeans are White devils or whatever

[Punjabigirl22445]

Well like I said my dads black so I'm half black, in the USA black people only make up 15% of the population but commit about 50% of the crimes. Based on my dads logic I should judged all black people as dirty thugs that kills and robs. But thats not fair either.

So I have no idea why my dad acts this way. And since the whole Donald Trump thing, my dads racism towards white people has gotten worse. My dad literally believes that white people are genetically evil. LOL, which is really stupid, my dad is actually very smart. He studies science and reads book from stephen hawkins and he works as a Forensic Scientist now. So sad how a smart man can still fall prey to ignorant racist thinking.

[Jxpxtxr]

Haha I'm surprised he even acknowledges Stephen hawking then, doesn't he view him as a fellow evil white devil lmao

[Anonymous]

Those look like surgery or torture wounds

[MisterSir]

i wouldn't think anything special tbh

[beachflamingo]

Kinda hot

[TooBlessed]

I think that's hot

[Anonymous]

Do you think that's hot?

[Chico_brah]

That's badass.

[Waffles731]

Badass

[kingarthas]

i wouldn't like it.