Girls, how would you react if your boyfriend started 'petting' you?

[Anonymous]

What what you be thinking when your Guy just starts gently stroking and patting your head (in a nurturing manner) and says something like "Good girl".

I love that

I... Kinda like it

Meh, I dont care

I don't like it.

IF YOU DO THAT, I WILL BITE YOUR HEAD OFF.

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+1 y

Well I mean if it weren't intended to be 'patronizing' or be-little your, rather more nurturing and affectionate?

Because I wouldn't mind say for example if my girlfriend were to pat and stroke my head saying 'Good boy'

[kaylaS91]

He already does that occasionally (as a joke) and I don't mind at all. I don't get why so many of the girls posting their opinions on here find it 'patronizing' or 'ridiculous'. It's not like this same boyfriend has got you chained up in his basement and is making you eat out of a food bowl on the floor.

[bbch25]

The good girl would be patronising to me and I'd hate it.
But I like when he strokes my head, starting at the edge of my hair line and just going back.
Half the time I put his hand there to tell him to start doing it. It just feels nice.

[mooky06]

I would start to purr/meow and lick his face.

Kidding lol

I don't find that offensive or insulting if his stroking me in an affectionate way. I think him saying "Good girl" is crossing the line a bit though.

[Unit1]

I am not a girl but I would like it. It gives me a sense of being "important" or "special" to somebody :) ♥

Although I have no master, I would not mind being somebodies... "boy-toy" (wrong word). Not at all.

[Wingedz]

Rip his hand off and stuff it in his mouth let him choke on it.
But is kind of nice tho, especially when they are acting very cute.

[fauchelevent]

I love having my hair stroked and quite often, he will just randomly start stroking my hair, so that bit would be fine. I wouldn't like the 'good girl' part, I'm not a dog.

[Curlybeauty17]

I don't mind him petting me, I like it and I pet him like that often as well, but I don't like the idea of him saying "good girl" as if I were a dog. Without the "good girl" it's more like cuddling and a sign of affection.

[SvetlanaSavachenko]

After a few minutes I'd spread my legs and put his hand up my skirt and tell him my pussy needs to be petted too. Petting is a huge turn on for me!

[YaBaba]

if you mean running his hand through my hair, then that would make me sleepy, so yeah sure.

[ghostgirl97]

My boyfriend does that. At first I was like, "uh, dude, i'm not you're dog." So now he does it jestfully and playfully and I think it's cute.

[Asker]

How did you develop tolerance towards it?

[Anonymous]

I love that I love that I love that I love that !!!

[Wonderer89]

Petting me - no problem, I actually love it.

Call me a good girl and I'll donkey kick you in the sack

[lostgirl_searching]

My boyfriend does it, especially of our height difference. I just start laughing because it's actually funny.

[Anonymous]

That's weird and patronising, I'm not a little girl, I don't want a boyfriend patting my head and telling me I'm a good girl. I don't think anyone would like that unless they've got some kind of submissive "daddy" fetish.

[Izumiblu]

My boyfriend has done this to me, in a joking way, when he pulled his hand back there was only a bloody stump.

[TacosRAwesome]

I'm OK with the patting of tjr head, if done right. Calling me a good girl will make you dead. :)

[Anonymous]

Option E would only aid to the guy's craziness asserting him you are a dog since he already has that going apparently.

I'd smack him on the head messing up his hair and saying "bad boy"

[Blitzkrieger]

Wtf is wrong with you? You dont smack dogs.

[Opinion Owner]

@Blitzkrieger no I don't. I only smack idiots that pet me like a dog.

[Blitzkrieger]

I had no idea that some women dont like to be shown affection.

[Blitzkrieger]

Who are you to judge the relationship dynamic of other people?

[Blitzkrieger]

I never assumed that. I just said its bad to smack dogs. It seems like you are the untinteligent one here.

[Opinion Owner]

@Blitzkrieger Blitzkrieger 6 Xper Age: 21
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I had no idea that some women dont like to be shown affection.
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Right there! Lol assuming I'd take that as affection.

And lastly you're calling men dogs haha 😂
You need a brain cell check. Are they dead or 😴

[Blitzkrieger]

You need to be tested for autism.

[Opinion Owner]

@Blitzkrieger you're just ignorant.

[Anonymous]

For me that would actually turn me on. I'd enjoy the feeling for a little bit and then I'd move around and quickly get on top of him

[datgirl]

Stroking and patting the hair I find cute and endearing. Him saying good girl would completely turn me off.

[Anonymous]

Umm, that would be weird. That's why there are dogs...

[Anonymous]

I would slap him. He is not my husband. So he should know his boundaries.

[Asker]

Wot if he was your husband?

[Opinion Owner]

only my husband can flirt with me

[SexyloveBird]

it makes u feel like a dog or a pet

[BeautifulPromisesx]

Tell him to get a pet and stop his weird shit

[SarahsSummer]

I don't like that at all.

[SarahsSummer]

I Read your update. Sorry but any kind of petting comes across as patronizing. If you want to comfort me, I'd love a big long and strong hug.

[Nuala]

I don't mind petting... but good girl? No.