Guys, what are your biggest turn offs and turn ons?

[Anonymous]

Not just looks-based, but also personality, personal style, whatever!

[front2back]

Turn ons:
-Is intelligent. No really, I want a woman just as smart if not smarter than me. I've noticed women who are smart tend to be much better people to be with.
-Can embrace her feminine side without going overboard. Girly girls are okay, but what I really like is a woman who is still feminine but doesn't let it completely define her. She's sweet, caring, nurturing, fashionable, sexy, etc. but doesn't try to do the whole "valley girl" thing.
-Isn't afraid to get intimate when the relationship has progressed. I don't mean sex necessarily, but everything else. The past two girls I've dated literally hated themselves because they they touched my dick and thought they were sluts because of it. I'm not joking. A woman who knows she can be free to do whatever she wants with a committed guy is desirable.
-Twitching during orgasm. I loveeee when I make her eyes roll in the back of her head and have her whole body shake and freeze for over a minute.

Turn offs:
-Expecting me to pay for and do everything because I'm a man. Sorry, we live in the 21st century and thousands of women out there can take care of themselves. Especially when I drive an hour to see you every weekend and am also a broke college student, I shouldn't be lectured by you nor your mom for "not being a gentleman" because I didn't pay for everything (especially when you get a lot of your money from your parents because you don't work).
-Biting my dick. This should go without explanation.
-Not being confident. Again, same problem with my exes. Yes you are not the most attractive girl in the world, so what? I'm dating YOU for a REASON. Stop always doubting my attraction or sexual desire for you because that has the effective of ACTUALLY making me like you less.

[beez1717]

Turn ons: cares about me, is interested in things I like, isn't afraid to state her opinions, and respects mine, girls who have butt length hair or longer, women with muscles (especially a 6 pack), and my top two physical features on a woman are when she is at the lower end of the ibtc (a and aa cups ftw imho), and hairy women (hairy armpits, stomach, legs, a huge bush etc).

Turn offs: being rude, being vapid, being selfish, being bossy all the time, not taking care of her hygiene, acting like or being a Mary sue, being untrustworthy, big and especially huge boobs, being afraid to state her opinions, ideas, likes and dislikes with me, and one of the biggest turn offs for me is if she uses drugs, cigarettes, vapes and/or abuses alchohol.

[Lyndsielee666]

Turn offs
- bad breath
- bad teeth
-submissive
-abusive
Turn ons
- anything other then those^

[Triathlete]

Turn ons:
1. Giving personality, and thinking of others (selflessness)
2. Affectionate.
3. Resourceful (can improvise and see the best of a bad situation)
4. Sporty girls (love A line Bob haircuts)
Turn offs:
1. Selfishness
2. Lying (making up excuses, being consistently late)
3. Entitlement
4. Conceited behavior
5. Disrespectful, talking down to partner and others.

[Jamethan]

Glasses are big turn on for me. I don't know why. Biggest turn off is body odour or bad breath. I can't even... always smell good. Please. For my sake...

[J_12_L]

If a girl burps (accidentally or intentionally), they are fake and liars, and wear clothes that expose too much

[redxiii74]

Low self esteem or pretending to be dum

[gobsmacked3]

turn on- giving oral sex

turn off- arrogance